<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923</id><updated>2012-02-10T22:17:37.946-05:00</updated><title type='text'>No Truer Hearts: Beverly Eckert's Journey through 9/11 and Beyond</title><subtitle type='html'>"No Truer Hearts" is the working title of my biography of Beverly Eckert. We collaborated on this project until her death in 2009. As the book nears completion, I will continue to post updates on its progress, and on topics related to Beverly, her family, and the work of 9/11 family members. Visit anthonytoth.com for more information.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>83</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-5917316479501369268</id><published>2012-02-10T21:43:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2012-02-10T22:17:37.952-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly Eckert's Love Story in New Book Sparks (Accidental) Interest in 'No Truer Hearts'</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ePVUJ1cIBfw/TzXUqPjNVkI/AAAAAAAAAJI/jG3YDBQu9eg/s1600/imgres.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ePVUJ1cIBfw/TzXUqPjNVkI/AAAAAAAAAJI/jG3YDBQu9eg/s1600/imgres.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Many people know about Beverly Eckert, but very few know about her biography. So I was momentarily surprised by a somewhat mysterious email I received last week from the owner of a small bookstore in Upstate New York asking if I could send her copies of&lt;i&gt;&amp;nbsp;No Truer Hearts&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Huh?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I replied that I would be happy to send copies of the book -- once it was published! After thinking about the possible reasons for such a query, I lit upon the probable solution: people were confusing the new book,&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://storycorps.org/book/all-there-is/"&gt;All There Is&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/i&gt;(see &lt;a href="http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2012/02/new-book-of-love-stories-from.html"&gt;previous blog post&lt;/a&gt;)&amp;nbsp;with mine somehow. Not long after, a woman from the Small Press Department of &lt;a href="http://www.barnesandnoble.com/"&gt;Barnes &amp;amp; Noble Inc.&lt;/a&gt; (!!) emailed me with a similar message: could you send us a copy of your book? It was nice to get the attention, but frustrating not to be able to ship out copies of the finished volume. (Lord knows I've been trying hard to get it done!) Plus, it gave me a big boost to know people were interested in Beverly's story, even now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally, a few minutes ago I received confirmation of my initial theory by putting myself in the shoes of a potential Upstate New York reader who had heard in the news that a book telling Beverly's story had just come out. How would this reader look for the title of this book? Ask Mr. Google, of course! So I googled "Beverly Eckert book", and the first three results were to this blog and to my web site, &lt;a href="http://anthonytoth.com/"&gt;anthonytoth.com&lt;/a&gt;, which has information on Beverly and &lt;i&gt;No Truer Hearts. &lt;/i&gt;Mystery solved.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Just proves the importance of having a strong online presence for an obscure (but talented) writer. It's called building a "platform," all this non-writing self-promotion. In plain English, it's simply spreading the word, which is what writers desire anyway.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now to get on with the writing! (And then to send a copy to that nice lady from Barnes &amp;amp; Noble once I'm done.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-5917316479501369268?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/5917316479501369268/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=5917316479501369268' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5917316479501369268'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5917316479501369268'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2012/02/beverly-eckerts-love-story-in-new-book.html' title='Beverly Eckert&apos;s Love Story in New Book Sparks (Accidental) Interest in &apos;No Truer Hearts&apos;'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-ePVUJ1cIBfw/TzXUqPjNVkI/AAAAAAAAAJI/jG3YDBQu9eg/s72-c/imgres.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-3329761511702810863</id><published>2012-02-02T14:18:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2012-02-02T15:29:04.496-05:00</updated><title type='text'>New Book of Love Stories from StoryCorps Features the One About Beverly and Sean</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-vQpPZ1aWGLw/TyrgabublII/AAAAAAAAAJA/a3TG7zuMc2s/s1600/41Ei68kY%252B2L.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="320" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-vQpPZ1aWGLw/TyrgabublII/AAAAAAAAAJA/a3TG7zuMc2s/s320/41Ei68kY%252B2L.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The love story that is at the center of &lt;i&gt;No Truer Hearts&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;is the one involving Beverly Eckert and Sean Rooney. A book released today also tells this story, in Beverly's own words. The title is &lt;a href="http://storycorps.org/book/all-there-is/"&gt;&lt;i&gt;All There Is: Love Stories from StoryCorps&lt;/i&gt;, &lt;/a&gt;and it was written by Dave Isay, the founder of &lt;a href="http://storycorps.org/"&gt;StoryCorps&lt;/a&gt;. The book contains a number of love stories, and Beverly's is based on &lt;a href="http://storycorps.org/listen/stories/beverly-eckert/"&gt;the recording she made for StoryCorps in New York City in 2006.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;This &lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/city/article719664.ece"&gt;article in the &lt;i&gt;Buffalo News&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;gives a good summary.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Love stories are the most important ones, because love is the most imortant thing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-3329761511702810863?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/3329761511702810863/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=3329761511702810863' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3329761511702810863'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3329761511702810863'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2012/02/new-book-of-love-stories-from.html' title='New Book of Love Stories from StoryCorps Features the One About Beverly and Sean'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-vQpPZ1aWGLw/TyrgabublII/AAAAAAAAAJA/a3TG7zuMc2s/s72-c/41Ei68kY%252B2L.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-8693217429931157830</id><published>2012-01-02T14:51:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-02T14:52:28.188-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Funding dispute delays construction of 9/11 museum</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-XEjCNy98a3A/TwIJ8egsSvI/AAAAAAAAAI4/Nsx6OpSa47I/s1600/AbouttheMuseum.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="180" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-XEjCNy98a3A/TwIJ8egsSvI/AAAAAAAAAI4/Nsx6OpSa47I/s320/AbouttheMuseum.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Beverly Eckert and other 9/11 family members fought hard to preserve "down to the bedrock" the place where the Twin Towers of the World Trade Center rose and eventually fell. It was hallowed ground to them, worthy of respect, of preservation, of memorializing. The &lt;a href="http://www.911memorial.org/"&gt;National September 11 Memorial at the World Trade Center &lt;/a&gt;opened, on time, to the public on September 12, 2011. Just last week, &lt;a href="http://www.911memorial.org/blog/more-1-million-visit-911-memorial-public-opening"&gt;officials announced that more than a million persons&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;have visited the memorial. Many gazed upon the rows of names of those who perished while listening to the stream of clear water eternally flowing into the void where the tall towers once stood.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.911memorial.org/museum-exhibition-design-0"&gt;A museum &lt;/a&gt;is also being built on the site. It will house exhibits describing the events leading to the attacks of 9/11. The museum will also pay homage to those who responded to the attacks and those who did not survive, telling their stories in a variety of mediums. Visitors also will be able to see parts of the World Trade Center that were left behind, tangible fragments of a massive building complex that was in a day turned to rubble, the smokey and dusty resting place of nearly 3,000 persons.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There were hopes that the museum would open its doors in time for the 11th anniversary of the attacks, &lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2011/12/30/nyregion/sept-11-museum-at-world-trade-center-wont-open-on-time.html?_r=1&amp;amp;partner=rss&amp;amp;emc=rss"&gt;but a funding dispute&lt;/a&gt; beteen the Port Authority of New York and New Jersey and the National September 11 Memorial and Museum Foundation has thrown that possibility into doubt.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-8693217429931157830?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/8693217429931157830/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=8693217429931157830' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/8693217429931157830'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/8693217429931157830'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2012/01/funding-dispute-delays-construction-of.html' title='Funding dispute delays construction of 9/11 museum'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-XEjCNy98a3A/TwIJ8egsSvI/AAAAAAAAAI4/Nsx6OpSa47I/s72-c/AbouttheMuseum.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-9167346640040206406</id><published>2011-12-29T13:09:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-29T13:12:23.763-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Congressional medals to honor those who were killed on 9/11</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-2SWV2ih5iIU/Tvytf5Nk2QI/AAAAAAAAAIs/NjEmM5Lfquw/s1600/airmen.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="276" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-2SWV2ih5iIU/Tvytf5Nk2QI/AAAAAAAAAIs/NjEmM5Lfquw/s320/airmen.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;President Barack Obama signed a bill on December 23 which directs the Treasury Department to create three Congressional Gold Medals in honor of those who were killed on September 11, 2001 in Manhattan, Shanksville, Pennsylvania, and at the Pentagon, in Arlington, Virginia.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;According to an article in &lt;a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/fallen-heroes-bill-honors-911-victims/2011/12/19/gIQA21DBLP_story.html"&gt;The Washington Post&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote class="tr_bq"&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 22px; text-align: left;"&gt;The medal is the highest civilian honor bestowed by Congress. The awards are to be displayed at each of the three memorials planned and built in lower Manhattan, Northern Virginia and Pennsylvania as tangible recognition of the victims.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-9167346640040206406?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/9167346640040206406/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=9167346640040206406' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/9167346640040206406'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/9167346640040206406'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/12/congressional-medals-to-honor-those-who.html' title='Congressional medals to honor those who were killed on 9/11'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-2SWV2ih5iIU/Tvytf5Nk2QI/AAAAAAAAAIs/NjEmM5Lfquw/s72-c/airmen.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-3089157884830473908</id><published>2011-12-24T11:54:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-24T11:54:28.798-05:00</updated><title type='text'>'Extremely Loud &amp; Incredibly Close': a 9/11 film that follows the novel, but not the day itself according to NYT review</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-30HWPlKFf4Q/TvYDIfRTz1I/AAAAAAAAAIY/nBZGX8Y64rM/s1600/EL-02666-600x398.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="212" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-30HWPlKFf4Q/TvYDIfRTz1I/AAAAAAAAAIY/nBZGX8Y64rM/s320/EL-02666-600x398.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q09cpD4Cico/TvYDI_BNsnI/AAAAAAAAAIg/jx3biiKePl4/s1600/imgres.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Q09cpD4Cico/TvYDI_BNsnI/AAAAAAAAAIg/jx3biiKePl4/s1600/imgres.jpg" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;This is just a quick note about a 9/11 film to show two things. First, that 9/11 will for many years inspire creators of popular culture, &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/September_11,_2001_attacks_in_popular_culture"&gt;as it has up till now&lt;/a&gt;. And second, that these artists will continue to struggle, often unsuccessfully, to create a work that captures something authentic and essential about the events of that day and their aftermath.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What struck me about the &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/goog_912707058"&gt;Manohla Dargis review in the &lt;/a&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://movies.nytimes.com/2011/12/23/movies/extremely-loud-incredibly-close-with-tom-hanks-review.html?src=dayp"&gt;New York Times&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;of the film &lt;i&gt;Extremely Loud &amp;amp; Incredibly Close &lt;/i&gt;was that I now had no desire to see the film &lt;i&gt;or&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;read the book upon which it was based. (Even though it stars Sandra Bullock and Tom Hanks, two actors I love to watch.) I was drawn in, however, by a scene that echoed Beverly Eckert's very real 9/11 experience of speaking with her husband, Sean Rooney, as he struggled to escape from the burning floors above the impact zone in the South Tower of the World Trade Center.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote class="tr_bq"&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 22px; text-align: left;"&gt;The images from Sept. 11 of course remain profound triggers for many of us. Some of that day’s most vivid imagery appears in the movie: there are snippets from real television news reports, but there’s also an aestheticized re-creation of a falling man that’s mirrored, with stunning imbecility, by a shot of Oskar joyfully soaring into the air on a swing. There’s also a scene in which Linda, after receiving a call from Thomas, who’s trapped in one of the towers, gazes in horror out her office window at the burning buildings. The shot is obviously composited, but it’s nonetheless a jolt because the buildings reverberate so intensely. It’s this intensity — and our deep emotional responses — that the movie tries to appropriate for itself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;But according to Dargis, the film suffers from the same shallowness and sentimentality that crippled the novel. The result is kitsch.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote class="tr_bq"&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 22px; text-align: left;"&gt;In truth, “Extremely Loud &amp;amp; Incredibly Close” isn’t about Sept. 11. It’s about the impulse to drain that day of its specificity and turn it into yet another wellspring of generic emotions: sadness, loneliness, happiness. This is how kitsch works. It exploits familiar images, be they puppies or babies — or, as in the case of this movie, the twin towers — and tries to make us feel good, even virtuous, simply about&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;em style="background-color: white; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 22px; text-align: left;"&gt;feeling&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 22px; text-align: left;"&gt;. And, yes, you may cry, but when tears are milked as they are here, the truer response should be rage.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote class="tr_bq"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-3089157884830473908?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/3089157884830473908/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=3089157884830473908' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3089157884830473908'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3089157884830473908'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/12/extremely-loud-incredibly-close-911.html' title='&apos;Extremely Loud &amp; Incredibly Close&apos;: a 9/11 film that follows the novel, but not the day itself according to NYT review'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-30HWPlKFf4Q/TvYDIfRTz1I/AAAAAAAAAIY/nBZGX8Y64rM/s72-c/EL-02666-600x398.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-6838505674948276984</id><published>2011-12-22T10:42:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-22T19:09:16.211-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A victory for Flight 3407 families: New rules to fight pilot fatigue</title><content type='html'>&lt;table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-VEo6DooVR5s/TvNS4ntZCBI/AAAAAAAAAIM/1DHAM_LpQ9Q/s1600/3407%252BVIGIL.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="213" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-VEo6DooVR5s/TvNS4ntZCBI/AAAAAAAAAIM/1DHAM_LpQ9Q/s320/3407%252BVIGIL.jpg" width="320" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;tr&gt;&lt;td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"&gt;Flight 3407 families and friends light candles in memory of those they lost.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;Thanks in large part to the hard work and persistence of the family members of the victims of Flight 3407, new rules will go into effect to ensure that cockpit crews on regional airlines will be better rested to promote a safer flying environment. Beverly Eckert's sisters Karen Eckert and Susan Bourque were among these citizen-advocates, who made frequent trips to Washington in order to push for airline safety.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The crash of Continental Flight 3407 and its aftermath is a significant local story in Buffalo and has received extensive coverage in the Buffalo News. &lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/topics/flight-3407/article681273.ece"&gt;In the paper's account of the latest episode,&lt;/a&gt; Bourque is quoted as saying that the new rules "are much more rigorous than the current rules." She added that the rules would contribute to the efforts on the part of family members to ensure that regional airlines are held to the same safety standards as are the national carriers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;"&gt;Transportation Secretary Ray LaHood praised the work of the family members, saying they turned their "unimaginable heartbreak... into a powerful commitment to save the lives of others." He added: "They pushed us to make progress, the progress we're making today. This rule really should be named in honor of the families" and the Flight 3407 victims.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-family: georgia, 'times new roman', times, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;"&gt;While this measure is very significant, safety advocates note there is more to be done.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;Here's a quote from the &lt;a href="http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/business-economy-financial-crisis/flying-cheap/faa-issues-new-pilot-fatigue-rules/"&gt;coverage on the "Frontline" program's portion of the Public Broadcasting Service web site&lt;/a&gt;, which has done in-depth reporting on the crash of Flight 3407 and the struggle for safer regional airlines.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote class="tr_bq"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="background-color: white; text-align: left;"&gt;“Today marks a very important day in pilot safety,” said Congresswoman Louise Slaughter (D-N.Y.), whose district includes Buffalo and who has been pushing the FAA to implement the new rules. “Finally, guidance has been provided by the FAA that will help assure the American public that when they step into a plane, their pilot is well-rested. … While I’m pleased we have a final rule on pilot fatigue, we know from the findings of the National Transportation Safety Board, that it was not the only factor contributing to the tragic crash in Clarence two years ago. There must be more done to address pilot training, especially on techniques as basic as how to fly in ice when landing in Buffalo.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here is some more&amp;nbsp;the press coverage:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.npr.org/blogs/thetwo-way/2011/12/21/144069812/faa-issues-new-rules-aimed-at-keeping-tired-pilots-out-of-cockpits"&gt;NPR.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.cnn.com/2011/12/21/travel/pilot-fatigue-rule/index.html?iref=allsearch"&gt;cnn.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.cnn.com/2011/12/21/travel/pilot-fatigue-rule/index.html?iref=allsearch"&gt;huffingtonpost.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.foxnews.com/us/2011/12/21/faa-to-issue-rules-aimed-at-tired-airline-pilots/"&gt;foxnews.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.businessweek.com/ap/financialnews/D9ROTHQ81.htm"&gt;Businessweek.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.reuters.com/article/2011/12/22/uk-airlines-faa-idUSLNE7BL01520111222"&gt;Reuters.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.empirestatenews.net/News/20111222-1.html"&gt;EmpireStateNews.net&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/45754819/ns/today-travel/t/faa-issues-rules-prevent-tired-airline-pilots/#.TvNMTNTWZ2A"&gt;msnbc.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/key-changes-in-rules-for-passenger-plane-pilots/2011/12/21/gIQAQdOFAP_story.html"&gt;washingtonpost.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/nationnow/2011/12/faa-give-airline-pilots-shorter-shifts-longer-rests.html"&gt;latimes.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-201_162-57346125/feds-extend-pilots-rest-time-to-avoid-fatigue/"&gt;cbsnews.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-6838505674948276984?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/6838505674948276984/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=6838505674948276984' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6838505674948276984'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6838505674948276984'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/12/victory-for-flight-3407-families-new.html' title='A victory for Flight 3407 families: New rules to fight pilot fatigue'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-VEo6DooVR5s/TvNS4ntZCBI/AAAAAAAAAIM/1DHAM_LpQ9Q/s72-c/3407%252BVIGIL.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-95160050955437126</id><published>2011-12-21T00:10:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-21T00:13:52.798-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Working on the working title..</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-n9zx2JFC5I8/TvFkmfckXlI/AAAAAAAAAIA/KQ5XeS05Vxg/s1600/nth+cover+01.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="320" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-n9zx2JFC5I8/TvFkmfckXlI/AAAAAAAAAIA/KQ5XeS05Vxg/s320/nth+cover+01.jpg" width="216" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I love the visual arts as well as the literary ones. So I cannot resist dabbling in the craft of book jacket design for the first time in my career. Here's my latest version of the book jacket for &lt;i&gt;No &amp;nbsp;Truer Hearts&lt;/i&gt;, which incorporates one of my favorite photos of Beverly (by Associate Press photographer Douglas Healey, taken in Beverly's Stamford home on May 24, 2002).&amp;nbsp;There is a universe of emotion in those sky-blue eyes.&amp;nbsp;Her face is slightly drawn and thin, from months of mourning, pain, anger and stress. But I still love her complex expression, at once loving, mournful, hopeful and strong. And she is hugging Sean, as she did so often when he was alive. If a photo is all that remains of a loved one, or a watch, a shirt, or a lock of hair, we will hold on to the precious relic in a tender way, hoping to receive through our fingertips some of the living presence that once had contact with the same object.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In addition to the work I've done on these visual elements, I have also changed the working sub-title of the book, removing the "story of love, loss and 9/11 reform," because it seemed redundant in the context of the photo, and sleep-inducing (for most people) with the word "reform." It was indeed a journey that Beverly took during the too-brief and dramatic course of her life. She passed through the hell of 9/11, accomplished great things with the help of her colleagues and allies, and now she is in the "beyond"...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-95160050955437126?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/95160050955437126/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=95160050955437126' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/95160050955437126'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/95160050955437126'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/12/working-on-working-title.html' title='Working on the working title..'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-n9zx2JFC5I8/TvFkmfckXlI/AAAAAAAAAIA/KQ5XeS05Vxg/s72-c/nth+cover+01.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-4832556018426089203</id><published>2011-12-19T21:16:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-19T22:12:14.599-05:00</updated><title type='text'>'Rubble': A New Book About the 9/11 Families</title><content type='html'>When I first learned last year that journalist Bob Kemper was writing a book about 9/11 family members, I was slightly apprehensive. After all, in the world of book publishing, what new author wants competition? But after reading &lt;i&gt;Rubble: How the 9/11 Families Rebuilt Their Lives and Inspired America&lt;/i&gt;, my apprehension evaporated. Kemper's book and mine are quite different. One difference is that &lt;i&gt;No Truer Hearts&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;is a biography of one 9/11 family member, while &lt;i&gt;Rubble&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;deals mainly with the work of the Family Steering Committee of the 9/11 Commission. Another thing that sets our books apart is the viewpoint and sources. I'll be presenting Beverly's work (along with that of her colleagues on the FSC) from the inside, often through her own eyes, using her own words. &lt;i&gt;Rubble&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;is based mainly on published sources, with the occasional interview with a handful of family members. There is not much information in this book that cannot be gleaned from other sources, so there are none of the illuminating and dramatic revelations that my book will have. But the utility of Kemper's book is in the way it has pulled together various strands of the family member story in a brief and readable form. For a quick overview of the 9/11 attacks, the creation of the 9/11 Commission, and the political wrangling that resulted, with the family members coming out victorious, this is the book for you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For a 9/11 family member book that takes the reader on a more personal, detailed and emotional journey, readers will just have to wait a little bit longer.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;:-)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-4832556018426089203?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/4832556018426089203/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=4832556018426089203' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/4832556018426089203'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/4832556018426089203'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/12/rubble-new-book-about-911-families.html' title='&apos;Rubble&apos;: A New Book About the 9/11 Families'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-1238724371194605030</id><published>2011-12-14T10:34:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2011-12-14T11:15:48.120-05:00</updated><title type='text'>After the terror of 9/11, "Peace on Earth" was a calling for Beverly Eckert, not just a greeting card phrase</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-fNKj0ni3JXA/TujCTEUNmSI/AAAAAAAAAHs/G6VwOG9ztNs/s1600/peaceful%2Btomorrows%2Bretreat.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 126px; height: 171px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-fNKj0ni3JXA/TujCTEUNmSI/AAAAAAAAAHs/G6VwOG9ztNs/s200/peaceful%2Btomorrows%2Bretreat.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5686008162387073314" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Peace does not just happen. It takes hard work. Whether it is the calm and contentment within each human soul, or the state of good relations among the countries of the world, peace does not just happen. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;After 9/11, Beverly Eckert thought deeply about what kind of person she wanted to be, and what kind of world she wanted to live in. And despite the horrific violence and hate that touched her life in the deepest and most painful way, taking from her the man she loved, Beverly took the path of peace, of forgiveness, of tolerance. True, she worked tirelessly on the political arena to make sure the terrible losses of 9/11 would never be visited upon Americans again. But she also decided that in the long term we must all find a way to solve our larger problems without the use of force. So she joined&lt;a href="http://peacefultomorrows.org/"&gt; September 11th Families for Peaceful Tomorrows&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I'll discuss her work with this group in my book, of course, but I thought it appropriate that I mention Beverly's calling as peacemaker during this season in which peace is especially celebrated. On a regular basis I look online to see if there's anything new to be found about Beverly, whether an article, an anecdote, or a photo. This morning I spent some time on the Peaceful Tomorrow's web site because I discovered &lt;a href="http://911stories.org/our-members/37-beverly-eckert"&gt;a page devoted to Beverly's participation in the organization&lt;/a&gt;. There was no information there that was new to me, but there were some wonderful photos I had not seen before. Beverly is smiling in each one, happy in the company of other 9/11 family members who decided that the only answer to hatred and violence is peace, justice and love.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-1238724371194605030?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/1238724371194605030/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=1238724371194605030' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/1238724371194605030'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/1238724371194605030'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/12/after-terror-of-911-peace-on-earth-was.html' title='After the terror of 9/11, &quot;Peace on Earth&quot; was a calling for Beverly Eckert, not just a greeting card phrase'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-fNKj0ni3JXA/TujCTEUNmSI/AAAAAAAAAHs/G6VwOG9ztNs/s72-c/peaceful%2Btomorrows%2Bretreat.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-2553017901836575313</id><published>2011-11-30T10:54:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2011-11-30T11:15:29.750-05:00</updated><title type='text'>PBS's Frontline program on the crash of Flight 3407 re-broadcast</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-R2k_O8nYxmM/TtZWlaGgdrI/AAAAAAAAAHg/gvGy_x9NU7A/s1600/2512v5659.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 82px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-R2k_O8nYxmM/TtZWlaGgdrI/AAAAAAAAAHg/gvGy_x9NU7A/s200/2512v5659.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5680823180636223154" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Flying Cheap" aired on PBS stations in February 2010, a year after the crash of Continental Connection Flight 3407, in which Beverly Eckert and 50 others perished. The program illustrated why changes were needed in the way the pilots and crew of regional airlines were trained, paid and scheduled for work to ensure proper rest. Members of Congress and family members of those lost, including Karen Eckert and Susan Bourque, two of Beverly Eckert's sisters, pushed hard to pass legislation that would make flying safer, but opposition from the airlines, based on their bottom lines, has stalled some reforms. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/business-economy-financial-crisis/flying-cheap/nearly-three-years-after-flight-3407-crash-why-havent-new-safety-rules-been-implemented/"&gt;The program aired again yesterday&lt;/a&gt;, and provides an opportunity to reflect with sadness on this failure of businesses and government to do the right thing. Too often, the ways of commerce and politics in the United States prevent this. Corporations with deep pockets and well-connected lobbyists in this case thwarted the will of the people and treated their safety, their very lives, as just a line on their ledger sheets.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The story of Beverly's last flight home will be a thread running through &lt;i&gt;No Truer Hearts&lt;/i&gt;. It was a flight that had a tragic end, and should have taught those in positions of power that changes were needed to make flying on regional airlines safer. Let's hope it does not take another year to learn those costly lessons.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-2553017901836575313?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/2553017901836575313/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=2553017901836575313' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/2553017901836575313'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/2553017901836575313'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/11/pbss-frontline-program-on-crash-of.html' title='PBS&apos;s Frontline program on the crash of Flight 3407 re-broadcast'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-R2k_O8nYxmM/TtZWlaGgdrI/AAAAAAAAAHg/gvGy_x9NU7A/s72-c/2512v5659.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-7333568647830115263</id><published>2011-06-16T09:34:00.007-04:00</published><updated>2011-06-16T10:18:07.119-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Graham promises thinly veiled new info on Saudi involvement in 9/11 in his new novel</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-2wEThOogAIg/TfoP07nE0FI/AAAAAAAAAHU/FYLZrB2Snp8/s1600/KeytotheKingdomgalley.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 132px; height: 200px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-2wEThOogAIg/TfoP07nE0FI/AAAAAAAAAHU/FYLZrB2Snp8/s200/KeytotheKingdomgalley.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5618820887127314514" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Former Sen. Bob Graham was a keen observer of intelligence and national security matters during and after his tenure on the Hill. (He was the powerful and influential chairman of the Senate Select Committee on Intelligence.) After leaving the Senate, Graham chaired the &lt;a href="http://www.preventwmd.org/"&gt;Commission on the Prevention of Weapons of Mass Destruction Proliferation and Terrorism.&lt;/a&gt; Beverly Eckert and other 9/11 family members, in fact, were working with Graham to support the commission's work, which was concluded in February 2010, a year after Beverly's death.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Today comes news of Graham's new novel, &lt;i&gt;Keys to the Kingdom &lt;/i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/reliable-source/post/bob-grahams-new-spy-thriller-about-911-fiction-says-the-former-senator-with-some-slightly-closeted-real-information/2011/06/15/AGneySWH_blog.html"&gt;on the gossip page of the &lt;i&gt;Washington Post&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, with a titillating tease from the author. Graham told the &lt;i&gt;Post &lt;/i&gt;that he decided to write the book because in a novel he could talk about the politically sensitive issue of &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;Saudi Arabia's role in the Sept. 11 attacks. “There was some things I wanted to say that I didn’t think I could do in nonfiction,” he told the &lt;i&gt;Post&lt;/i&gt;. He added that the report on the congressional inquiry into the 9/11 attacks was “heavily censored," and that his book provides “some slightly closeted real information that I think will be educational.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;The congressional report's title is &lt;a href="http://www.gpoaccess.gov/serialset/creports/911.html"&gt;"Join Inquiry into Intelligence Community Activities before and after the Terrorist Attacks of September 11, 2001,"&lt;/a&gt; and represents the work of the House and Senate intelligence committees. It was the first official examination of 9/11, and the report was released in December 2002, with a section dealing with possible foreign financing of the hijackers heavily redacted. There was a controversy at the time over releasing this censored portion, which was widely acknowledge to deal with Saudi Arabia. It will be interesting to see what tidbits Graham has chosen to reveal, and whether these revelations will make a splash.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-7333568647830115263?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/7333568647830115263/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=7333568647830115263' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7333568647830115263'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7333568647830115263'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/06/graham-promises-thinly-veiled-new-info.html' title='Graham promises thinly veiled new info on Saudi involvement in 9/11 in his new novel'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-2wEThOogAIg/TfoP07nE0FI/AAAAAAAAAHU/FYLZrB2Snp8/s72-c/KeytotheKingdomgalley.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-4758100374660717658</id><published>2011-06-03T13:27:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2011-06-03T13:47:27.180-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Voices of September 11th holds gala in NYC</title><content type='html'>One of the first things that Beverly Eckert did after 9/11 was to establish a group to share information with other family members, and to provide them with support. She was joined in the endeavor by Mary Fetchet, of New Canaan, Connecticut, who had lost her son, Brad, in the World Trade Center. Thus was born &lt;a href="http://voicesofseptember11.org/dev/index.php"&gt;Voices of September 11th&lt;/a&gt;. On June 1, the group held a gala reception and silent auction to raise money for its &lt;a href="http://voicesofseptember11.org/dev/content.php?idtocitems=1,6"&gt;9/11 Living Memorial Project&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Held at Pier Sixty, the event was emceed by NBC's Brian Williams, who is a neighbor of Fetchet's. The keynote speaker was Rudolph Guiliani, the city's mayor on that horrific day ten years ago. Some details of the evening appear &lt;a href="http://www.stamfordadvocate.com/news/article/Voices-of-Sept-11-marks-10th-anniversary-of-2001-1407457.php"&gt;in an article by Kate King of the &lt;i&gt;Stamford Advocate.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-4758100374660717658?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/4758100374660717658/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=4758100374660717658' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/4758100374660717658'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/4758100374660717658'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/06/voices-of-september-11th-holds-gala-in.html' title='Voices of September 11th holds gala in NYC'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-5214296934411140487</id><published>2011-05-31T22:43:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-05-31T23:17:50.716-04:00</updated><title type='text'>9/11 defendents held at Guantanamo to be tried by military tribunal</title><content type='html'>Five men accused of planning and supporting the 9/11 attacks may at long last get their day in court. But instead of facing a criminal trial in the United States, they would be put in front of a military tribunal on Guantanamo, according to the &lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2011/06/01/us/01gitmo.html"&gt;New York Times.&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/i&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The Department of Defense's Office of Military Commissions last night sent letters to the family members of 9/11 victims explaining the decision to refer charges against the defendents, the first step in a process that is expected to lead to a military tribunal proceeding. And this morning, the office issued &lt;a href="http://www.lawfareblog.com/2011/05/military-commission-proceeding-against-the-911-defendants-ksm-and-others-inches-closer/"&gt;a press release&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;One of the last things Beverly Eckert did before her death was to join with other family members who lost loved ones in terrorist attacks who were &lt;a href="http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/03/beverlys-final-trip-to-washington.html"&gt;meeting with President Obama&lt;/a&gt;. She wrote a letter to the president expressing her belief that the one way to ensure swift justice under the rule of law for the 9/11 defendents was to bring them to trial in the United States. She was never able to take part in &lt;a href="http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/08/beverlys-hope-for-justice-gradually.html"&gt;the debate which arose around the issue&lt;/a&gt;, because she died a few days later. A partisan outcry by Republicans was instrumental in stopping President Obama's plan to bring the alleged plotters to trial in the United States. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-5214296934411140487?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/5214296934411140487/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=5214296934411140487' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5214296934411140487'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5214296934411140487'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/05/911-defendents-held-at-guantanamo-to-be.html' title='9/11 defendents held at Guantanamo to be tried by military tribunal'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-7336472342776331923</id><published>2011-05-27T10:33:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-05-27T11:04:36.870-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly's many ways of remembering Sean</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Pk_oTCJm0Lc/Td-9d7ytyzI/AAAAAAAAAHA/34m5LyxYNU8/s1600/glenbrook%2Bstation%2Bmural.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 250px; height: 188px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Pk_oTCJm0Lc/Td-9d7ytyzI/AAAAAAAAAHA/34m5LyxYNU8/s320/glenbrook%2Bstation%2Bmural.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5611411982691191602" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black"&gt;This is a weekend dedicated to remembering. A major part of Beverly’s life after 9/11 involved remembering Sean. Her efforts to support various measures to make the country safer were one way of leaving behind a lasting and positive legacy for Sean. But she also established a number of physical reminders of her husband’s life and loss. In January 2009, &lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;just a few weeks before she died, Beverly wrote a detailed description of &lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;the various memorials she had created in memory of Sean. On this solemn weekend, here is her account.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;~~~~~~~~~&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black"&gt;The first memorial was the grove of trees at Cove Island Park in Stamford. I started out with ten trees in October 2001. I was certain I would never get any of &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:#222222"&gt;Sean&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;'s remains, so in the absence of having a traditional cemetery plot to visit, I decided a grove of birch trees (&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:#222222"&gt;Sean&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;'s favorite) at a place we frequented would be the best alternative. I nurtured those trees (pruning, mulching, weeding, even watering) for five years. They grew rapidly, filling up the space along each side of the rollerblade path that &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:#222222"&gt;Sean&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black"&gt; and I had once skated along hand-in-hand. I had a temporary brass plaque there that said: &lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;To everything there is a season:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;A time to plant, a time to reap;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;A time to laugh, a time to weep;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;A time to be born; a time to die.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto;text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:#222222;mso-bidi-font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-style:italic"&gt;SEAN&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black;mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;mso-bidi-font-style:italic"&gt; ROONEY&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="mso-margin-top-alt:auto;mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto;text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black;mso-bidi-font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-style:italic"&gt;February 15, 1951-September 11, 2001&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black"&gt;I also planted four cherry trees at Daskam Park in Stamford in October of 2001. I wanted something I could see every day (I passed the park on the way to work), and I wanted something that would bloom.  I also scraped and painted the three old park benches there because they were very dilapidated. They need painting again, but the Parks Department keeps telling me they are going to put new benches, there but they haven't done so to date.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My neighbors indicated they wanted to plant a tree in memory of &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:#222222"&gt;Sean&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;, too, and so I selected the green spruce that is also in Daskam Park. That was dedicated in the summer of 2002. &lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black"&gt; I added ten more trees to the grove at Cove Island Park in August of 2006, but those trees, plus the original ten that I had planted, were all killed when Hurricane Ernesto came up the East Coast and caused a big tidal surge that flooded the park with salt water from Long Island Sound. The trees all turned brown within a few days. I had just added the permanent brass plaque, imbedded on a big stone. The inscription was a variation of the original, I left off &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:#222222"&gt;Sean&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;'s birthdate this time and added "This Grove Was Planted In Memory of...”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black"&gt; The following spring, when it was clear the trees weren't going to sprout, I brought a dolly to the park, rolled the stone with the plaque imbedded on it onto the dolly and wheeled it up a hill over to the edge of the cliff and dropped it over the edge into the ocean. I couldn't think of what else to do with it – the plaque mentioned a grove of trees and I knew that I would never plant another one.  Right after that I gave permission to the Parks Department to take down the dead grove. It is now a bare stretch of grass.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also in 2006, I planted two more cherry trees in Daskam Park and had a permanent brass plaque installed there on a rock as well. It says:&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;TREES IN PARK&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;PLANTED BY FAMILY AND FRIENDS&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;IN MEMORY OF&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:#222222"&gt;SEAN&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt; ROONEY&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;AND ALL WHOSE LIVES WERE LOST ON&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;SEPTEMBER 11&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt;, 2001&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black"&gt;The four original cherry trees, and the green spruce, are all doing well and the 2 new trees have survived and are doing OK, although this winter someone has broken 3 lower branches off one of the new cherry trees.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the summer of 2002, I commissioned a mural at the train station. It's a stylized version of Sterling Farms Golf Course, the public course in Stamford where &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:#222222"&gt;Sean&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black"&gt; loved to golf. In the summer of 2006, I painted a rock on the wall and had an imitation brass plaque affixed to it. It says: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;Mural of Sterling Farms Golf Course&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;Commissioned in Memory of&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:#222222"&gt;Sean&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt; Rooney (Died 9.11.01)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;Artist Jesse Mann&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In 2003 the City of Stamford and the Keep America Beautiful Foundation's Stamford office decided to create a memorial for &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:#222222"&gt;Sean&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt; at the train station. It is a tree, a bench, a short brick path, some low evergreens and a flagpole. This past summer, in 2008, I planted two cherry tree saplings there. There is a rock with a brass plaque on it. I was there today, brushing the ice and snow off the plaque. It says:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:#222222;mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;mso-bidi-font-style:italic"&gt;Sean&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black;mso-bidi-font-weight:bold;mso-bidi-font-style: italic"&gt; Rooney&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black;mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;mso-bidi-font-style:italic"&gt;Died September 11, 2001&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black;mso-bidi-font-weight: bold;mso-bidi-font-style:italic"&gt;Neighbor, Commuter, Friend. &lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black"&gt;There are three trees at the Amherst Memorial Grove in Amherst, NY that are dedicated to &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:#222222"&gt;Sean&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black"&gt;, with plaques – one from me, one from my family and one from &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:#222222"&gt;Sean&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;'s family. They were planted during the summer of 2002. My plaque reads something like:&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black;mso-bidi-font-style: italic"&gt;The beauty of nature quiets the soul &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-style:italic"&gt;And lessens the pain that man's inhumanity &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-style:italic"&gt;Inflicts upon man.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-style:italic"&gt;In Memory of &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:#222222;mso-bidi-font-style: italic"&gt;Sean&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black;mso-bidi-font-style:italic"&gt; Rooney &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="mso-bidi-font-style:italic"&gt;2/2/15/51- 9/11/0&lt;/span&gt;1&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black"&gt;The original tree I bought for &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:#222222"&gt;Sean&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt; died and was replaced. All three trees, plus most of the other trees in the park there, were all damaged in an ice storm in October in 2007. My tree now looks more like an umbrella than a Crimson King maple.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Last summer an engraved paving stone was installed along the walkway of the Roycroft Campus' "Appian Way." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:#222222"&gt;Sean&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt; hand I were married in my sister's backyard, within walking distance of the Roycroft Inn, and we stayed there on our wedding night. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:#222222"&gt;Sean&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black"&gt; had also worked there as the restaurant manager at one time in the 1970s. The plaque doesn't mention September 11th. It says:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;VOICES AND LAUGHTER, RISING ON STILL AIR&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;IN A LIGHT THAT SEEMS TO PARALYZE TIME. &lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:#222222"&gt;SEAN&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt; ROONEY, WE REMEMBER YOU. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;; color:black"&gt;There is a small paving brick with &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:#222222"&gt;Sean&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;;color:black"&gt;'s name and date of death on it at Hope Park in Stamford, which is a large traffic circle with trees on it. The Glenbrook Neighborhood Association sponsored the laying of memorial bricks for anyone who wanted one there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-7336472342776331923?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/7336472342776331923/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=7336472342776331923' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7336472342776331923'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7336472342776331923'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/05/beverlys-many-ways-of-remembering-sean.html' title='Beverly&apos;s many ways of remembering Sean'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Pk_oTCJm0Lc/Td-9d7ytyzI/AAAAAAAAAHA/34m5LyxYNU8/s72-c/glenbrook%2Bstation%2Bmural.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-9095610298241640142</id><published>2011-05-24T09:55:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2011-05-24T13:46:38.015-04:00</updated><title type='text'>On tourists and pilgrims and worries about the country's newest sacred ground</title><content type='html'>A small, news-cycle sized, manufactured brouhaha has arisen once again in the conflict-obsessed media. A recent piece in the &lt;i&gt;Wall Street Journal&lt;/i&gt; announces: &lt;a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052748704904604576333853787811140.html?mod=googlenews_wsj"&gt;"9/11 Outreach Effort Criticized."&lt;/a&gt; It seems that some (perhaps only two?) 9/11 family members had raised their voices because Joe Daniels, president of the &lt;a href="http://www.911memorial.org/"&gt;National 9/11 Memorial and Museum &lt;/a&gt;was travelling to a major tourism conference to do his job: tell tour operators about the memorial/museum, and encourage them to bring visitors once the site is open to the public.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;So controversial, right?&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;But some family members heard the word "tourism" and unreasonably assumed that the sacred ground of the memorial will turn into a commercial free-for-all, like Times Square. But these concerns seem baseless. There are many examples of similarly hallowed sites where the promotion of tourism has not done harm. I recently went with a friend to &lt;a href="http://www.nps.gov/gett/index.htm"&gt;Gettysburg National Military Park&lt;/a&gt;, the final resting place for many more thousands than died on 9/11. After visits by millions of &lt;i&gt;tourists&lt;/i&gt;, it continues to be a place of solemnity, quiet reflection, and peaceful respect. People come because they know this is hallowed ground. The place itself -- the rocks and fields and forests -- along with the many monuments raised in the memory of the fallen, are woven forever into the history of our country.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I live a couple miles from &lt;a href="http://www.arlingtoncemetery.mil/ceremonies/index.html"&gt;Arlington National Cemetery&lt;/a&gt;, another place preserved for the purpose of honoring the departed and reflecting on their great sacrifices. Like the 9/11 Memorial and Museum, it is the resting place for remains as well as a monument and a living lesson. People come as pilgrims, to pray, to lay a flower or plant a flag, to revel in the memory of loved ones, or shed tears in the pain of their passing. Others come, tourists, to see the Iwo Jima memorial, watch the changing of the guard by the Tomb of the Unknowns, or marvel at the monumental vistas across the Potomac. But they also learn about the battles fought by the Marines, and grasp the scale of sacrifice by our service members when they see the thousands and thousands of white headstones and crosses, stretching for too, too long on this peaceful Virginia hillside.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The same will happen at Ground Zero. People will come, as they have since September 11, 2001. To merely look and say they'd been there. To touch the sacred ground where the towers once stood and their loved ones fell. To contemplate the horrible wages of hatred. To rejoice in the love and hope that can rise like an eternal light above the darkest void.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;So bring the people. Let them learn, pray, reflect and grow. And one thing is certain: many will come as tourists, but leave as pilgrims.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-9095610298241640142?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/9095610298241640142/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=9095610298241640142' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/9095610298241640142'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/9095610298241640142'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/05/on-tourists-and-pilgrims-and-worries.html' title='On tourists and pilgrims and worries about the country&apos;s newest sacred ground'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-7515870635529126817</id><published>2011-05-20T10:31:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2011-05-24T09:52:05.590-04:00</updated><title type='text'>The 9/11 fringe exposed: Jonathan Kay's new book, "Among the Truthers"</title><content type='html'>As I write &lt;i&gt;No Truer Hearts, &lt;/i&gt;I will be dealing briefly with the conspiracy addicts who lead the 9/11 "truth" movement. Very Briefly. They have infected cyberspace especially with their unsupported and fanciful ideas like a bad strain of the flu in a daycare center. Anyone who is interested in what these deluded people peddle is welcome to learn more online. My book, is interested in the facts, just as Beverly Eckert was.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Fortunately, I do not have to spend time de-bunking the various fake scenarios imagined by the conspiracy crowd. Others have done this superbly, and I have blogged about their efforts already. But I did want to mention a new book: &lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2011/05/15/books/review/book-review-among-the-truthers-by-jonathan-kay.html"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Among the Truthers: A Journey Through America's Growing Conspiracist Undergroung&lt;/i&gt; by Jonathan Kay&lt;/a&gt;. The author analyzes some members of the 9/11 "truth" movement, noting, rather frighteningly, that among their psychological characteristics is a detachment from large portions of reality. The internet, where anyone can say anything, has made it possible for these people to build a mental world utterly dependent on the views of other similarly deluded people. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;There have been for millenia struggles between those who use reason, and those who don't. One of the great drawbacks of the digital age is that it makes it easy for people to disguise falsity as truth, and to peddle it to the innocent masses at the mere push of a button.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-7515870635529126817?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/7515870635529126817/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=7515870635529126817' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7515870635529126817'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7515870635529126817'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/05/911-fringe-exposed-jonathan-kays-new.html' title='The 9/11 fringe exposed: Jonathan Kay&apos;s new book, &quot;Among the Truthers&quot;'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-5837415865316922932</id><published>2011-05-17T09:25:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2011-05-17T09:47:54.463-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Love, memory, history, and Beverly Eckert's video time capsule</title><content type='html'>Beverly Eckert's life after 9/11 centered on just a few core principles. First, she took great pains to keep the memory of Sean Rooney ("my beloved," she called him) alive in dozens of ways. Second, Beverly devoted years of her time, talent and treasure to making the United States safer than it was before September 11, 2001. After the lion's share of this 9/11 reform work was complete, she focused on a third area of action: serving others, by teaching, building, and promoting peace, cooperation and understanding. Finally, Beverly had a keen desire to leave behind an accurate record of her life with Sean, and her new life with only his memory. Her work with me on this book was the principle way she hoped to preserve this legacy. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Another way was to create historical records in other forms. I have already written about Beverly's detailed recording for StoryCorps, which provides a detailed and personal account of what she saw as the significant chapters of her life. Beverly also left behind a video record, a compilation of television footage dealing with her life with Sean, the attacks of 9/11, and her efforts along with other family members in the days, months and years that followed. She spent weeks collecting the footage and having it edited and recorded on three DVDs. I am in the midst of transcribing information from this source for use in the book. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly gave copies of these DVDs to family and friends. This is the message she wrote to accompany this video compilation that meant so much to her:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div&gt;January 29, 2005&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I completed the enclosed compilation to commemorte Sean's birthday on February 15, 2005. Editing these stories was a difficult and time-consuming process but, as with everything I have done in my life since September 11th connected to Sean, it was a labor of love.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Although I dreaded reliving the events of that day and its aftermath, I wanted to ensure that the story of Sean's life, courageous death and the journey on which those events propelled me would be preserved. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Everything depicted by these stories, I did for Sean.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-5837415865316922932?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/5837415865316922932/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=5837415865316922932' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5837415865316922932'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5837415865316922932'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/05/love-memory-history-and-beverly-eckerts.html' title='Love, memory, history, and Beverly Eckert&apos;s video time capsule'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-5696210277613352507</id><published>2011-05-14T17:42:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2011-05-14T18:08:37.167-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Sean Rooney's place on the National 9/11 Memorial</title><content type='html'>The National 9/11 Memorial and Museum recently unveiled its &lt;a href="http://names.911memorial.org/#lang=en_US"&gt;digital guide to the memorial.&lt;/a&gt; Those who lost a loved one can see where the name will be placed on the completed bronze plaques that will surround the sunken fountains at the center of the memorial. Beverly Eckert devoted a great deal of effort, along with others in the 9/11 community, to ensuring the memorial would properly preserve the place where so many perished on that day in September 2001. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The names of those who died are grouped according to their location at the time of the attacks. (Names of the victims of the 1993 World Trade Center bombing also will appear on the plaques.) The name of Beverly's husband, Sean Paul Rooney, &lt;a href="http://names.911memorial.org/#lang=en_US&amp;amp;page=person&amp;amp;id=3834"&gt;will be on plaque S-57,&lt;/a&gt; right on the corner of the South Memorial Pool. His name is grouped with colleagues at Aon Corporation. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The memorial and museum is scheduled to open in time for the tenth anniversary of the attacks. Before the public is allowed in, family and friends will be able to trace the letters that spell out the names of those they lost. They will be able to leave flowers, photos, notes, personal mementos. The will be allowed to return to the last place on this sweet earth where thousands of Sean Rooneys were taken way. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And then the site will open to the world. It will be a place for all to touch names, to hear the sound of water falling into deep square footprints where the tall towers once stood. It will be a place to reflect, to remember.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-5696210277613352507?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/5696210277613352507/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=5696210277613352507' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5696210277613352507'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5696210277613352507'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/05/sean-rooneys-place-on-national-911.html' title='Sean Rooney&apos;s place on the National 9/11 Memorial'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-4888341730916994931</id><published>2011-05-09T10:48:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2011-05-09T10:49:13.387-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Another 9/11 family member's take on the death of bin Laden</title><content type='html'>Beverly Eckert had fond memories of the time she spent working on 9/11 reform with other members of the Family Steering Committee. Kristen Breitweiser was an FSC colleague who joined Beverly during difficult lobbying battles in Washington, DC. She blogs at &lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/"&gt;huffingtonpost.com&lt;/a&gt;, and here is &lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristen-breitweiser/today-is-not-a-day-of-cel_b_856535.html"&gt;her thoughtful reflection &lt;/a&gt;on last week's news from Abbottabad.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-4888341730916994931?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/4888341730916994931/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=4888341730916994931' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/4888341730916994931'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/4888341730916994931'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/05/another-911-family-members-take-on.html' title='Another 9/11 family member&apos;s take on the death of bin Laden'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-807854759220664405</id><published>2011-05-07T13:50:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2011-05-07T13:50:32.061-04:00</updated><title type='text'>On the Media: StoryCorps' audio history of 9/11</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.latimes.com/entertainment/news/la-et-onthemedia-20110507,0,7911611.story"&gt;On the Media: StoryCorps' audio history of 9/11&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-807854759220664405?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='related' href='http://www.latimes.com/entertainment/news/la-et-onthemedia-20110507,0,7911611.story' title='On the Media: StoryCorps&apos; audio history of 9/11'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/807854759220664405/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=807854759220664405' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/807854759220664405'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/807854759220664405'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/05/on-media-storycorps-audio-history-of.html' title='On the Media: StoryCorps&apos; audio history of 9/11'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-8333940990579552774</id><published>2011-05-05T08:41:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2011-05-05T08:55:18.859-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly's voice on NPR's "Morning Edition"</title><content type='html'>9/11 is on the front pages once again, thanks to the killing of Osama bin Laden, and now the visit of President Obama to the 9/11 Memorial at Ground Zero today. National Public Radio's "Morning Edition" news program had &lt;a href="http://www.npr.org/2011/05/05/135995930/he-wanted-me-to-live-a-full-life"&gt;a segment about Beverly Eckert&lt;/a&gt;. I have been hearing her voice a lot lately, as I've been transcribing many hours of interviews with her. And I had heard the recording they played on "Morning Edition" before. &lt;a href="http://storycorps.org/?s=eckert&amp;amp;post_type=post"&gt;It is a segment of a longer recording Beverly had done&lt;/a&gt; for StoryCorps five years after 9/11. But the emotion in her voice and the poignancy of the story still has great power. I'll be blogging excerpts. Stay tuned.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-8333940990579552774?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/8333940990579552774/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=8333940990579552774' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/8333940990579552774'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/8333940990579552774'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/05/beverlys-voice-on-nprs-morning-edition.html' title='Beverly&apos;s voice on NPR&apos;s &quot;Morning Edition&quot;'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-649171065248378569</id><published>2011-05-02T21:51:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2011-05-02T22:49:42.616-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Some of Beverly Eckert's thoughts on Osama bin Laden and the 9/11 terrorists</title><content type='html'>&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;"&gt;In the summer of 2005, Beverly embarked on a long sailing voyage on her tri-maran sailboat, Never Land, captained by Shawn Monks. In all, they traveled about 1,200 miles, from Florida to the Bahamas and back, and then up the Atlantic seaboard to Stamford. Along the way, Beverly kept friends and family informed of her progress, excitedly telling of whale-sightings, nautical mis-haps, and relaxing anchorages in the Caribbean sun. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;"&gt;On July 18&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt;, Beverly composed a description of the final leg of the journey. It was one of the few instances she mentioned Osama bin Laden. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;As we entered NY Harbor, we passed the Statue of Liberty and then the section of Manhattan where the World Trade Center towers once stood. Sean is always with me in spirit, and he felt especially near at that moment. It's always painful to be at Ground Zero, but sailing past the location of the attacks while standing on the deck of my own boat, knowing that in contrast, bin Laden was hiding in a cave, made me feel something of a sense of triumph over terrorism. &lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;"&gt;In late 2008 and early 2009, Beverly and I worked intensively on recording her recollections about her work as a 9/11 activist. There were many hours of interviews, and thousands of pages of documents to go through. At one point I came across a series of unusual documents Beverly had produced on her computer: several pages containing the names of the 9/11 hijackers, repeated page after page. In an email, I had asked her what was going through her mind when she created this calligraphic composition. She responded in her typically thoughtful manner:&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;i honestly think that i wrote out their names as a way to exert control over their essence, their beings, as if i had captured them in some way. it seemed very ritualistic when i was doing it, very primitive. i could make them large and confrontational, and then shrink them to near insignificance. i could fill a page with them and then delete them. i could make them repeat themselves over and over, monotonously and endlessly, like an eternal punishment. i played with them, and then i put them in a photo frame, and locked them under glass where i could watch them but they couldn't get out.&lt;/blockquote&gt;Each one of us has had to find a way to cope with the aftermath of 9/11, and how to view the band of thugs who planned and carried out the attacks. The response of those who lost a loved one that day was shaped not only by the pain of grieving, but also by their own background and personalities. Some became motivated by hatred; others by love. Beverly saw this range of responses among the many family members with whom she worked and came in contact.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:&amp;quot;Times New Roman&amp;quot;,&amp;quot;serif&amp;quot;"&gt;Beverly chose love. She focused on remembering the good times with Sean Rooney, the love they shared and the warm memories they made over many years. Beverly also devoted her energies to making a positive change in the world, helping others, promoting peace, finding solutions to the many failures that led to 9/11. By the force of her brave and generous heart, she in essence placed Osama bin Laden and his minions under glass, isolating them from her new life of service and remembrance, and condemning them to an eternity of insignificance and impotence.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" &gt;We all have the power to deflect the emotional harm wished by others. Love and courage are invincible.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-649171065248378569?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/649171065248378569/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=649171065248378569' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/649171065248378569'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/649171065248378569'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/05/some-of-beverly-eckerts-thoughts-on.html' title='Some of Beverly Eckert&apos;s thoughts on Osama bin Laden and the 9/11 terrorists'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-6419309972439398368</id><published>2011-04-24T13:56:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2011-04-24T14:07:11.959-04:00</updated><title type='text'>An autopsy of the president's failed effort to close Guantanamo</title><content type='html'>Beverly Eckert had more reason than most Americans to seek justice for those responsible for the 9/11 attacks. And she felt strongly that terrorism suspects should be tried on U.S. soil rather than being held indefinitely at Guantanamo or put before military tribunals. So she was a strong supporter of President Obama's call to close Guantanamo and try the suspects in U.S. courts. But his plans gradually unravelled, as shown in a&lt;a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/world/guantanamo-bay-how-the-white-house-lost-the-fight-to-close-it/2011/04/14/AFtxR5XE_story.html"&gt; lengthy analysis in the Washington Post.&lt;/a&gt; In short, the plan was not presented effectively to the public, and efforts to counteract strong congressional opposition failed because the White House did not have a strong, coherent, and convincing game plan. When Congress fought the closure, the White House blinked.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly Eckert and her colleagues learned quickly how to win in Washington: know your subject; hone your message; build durable coalitions; and never ever back down. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-6419309972439398368?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/6419309972439398368/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=6419309972439398368' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6419309972439398368'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6419309972439398368'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/04/autopsy-of-presidents-failed-effort-to.html' title='An autopsy of the president&apos;s failed effort to close Guantanamo'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-6355046299086616343</id><published>2011-04-14T14:48:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2011-04-14T15:55:23.341-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Arnold Korotkin's 9/11 List-Serv: A one-man news service for the community</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;One of the most powerful tools wielded by Beverly Eckert and the other 9/11 activists was information. They learned early on that half the battle against entrenched interests like the Congress, the Pentagon, the airlines, and the Port Authority of New York &amp;amp; New Jersey was mastering all the facts. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Enter Arnold Korotkin, a sociology professor from Little Falls, New Jersey. A &lt;a href="http://www.baristanet.com/2010/11/msu-prof-arnold-korotkin-receives-awards-for-911-community-activism/"&gt;profile of Korotkin&lt;/a&gt; on baristanet.com sums up his work:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px; "&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Korotkin’s work with the 9/11 community began when he was Director of Community Building for the United Way. His goal was to reach out to families that had lost loved ones as a result of the terrorist attack. “I quickly realized that many 9/11 families had ceased reading, listening to and/or reading the news,” explained Korotkin. “I began the 9/11 List-serv to provide family members access to news and relevant information about services and resources.”&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;Beverly and other 9/11 activists subscribed to the &lt;a href="http://groups.google.com/group/911-list-serv?pli=1"&gt;9/11 List-Serv&lt;/a&gt;, and it provided a crucial source of articles and other information about issues they were working on. In addition, Korotkin distributed announcements, press releases and other materials produced by the family members and other 9/11 groups. It was a two-way channel of crucial 9/11 information.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;I recently posted a request on the list serv for information about Beverly from people who knew her. Arnie was among those who wrote back, eager to express his admiration for Beverly, whom he first met when she testified before the 9/11 Commission at its raucous and controversial New York City hearing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px; "&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 18px; "&gt;In the years that followed this first meeting, Beverly and I - in conversations and over coffee - woul&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial; font-size: small; "&gt;d discuss myriad topics including where we were in the 60's, and to my surprise Beverly revealed that she made pottery in her "hippie days" - perhaps this was a way for her to express her warmth and compassion!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial; font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial; font-size: small; "&gt;I was always impressed by Beverly's warmth, compassion and commitment.  She was a friend who was taken from us too soon and her memory and dedication to 9/11 issues lives on!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial; font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: collapse; font-family: Arial; font-size: small; "&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-6355046299086616343?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/6355046299086616343/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=6355046299086616343' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6355046299086616343'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6355046299086616343'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/04/arnold-korotkins-911-list-serv-one-man.html' title='Arnold Korotkin&apos;s 9/11 List-Serv: A one-man news service for the community'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-6865073667194093490</id><published>2011-04-08T21:26:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2011-04-08T21:33:30.777-04:00</updated><title type='text'>anthonytoth.com goes live</title><content type='html'>I have set up a web site containing information about me, my work, and this book project. There is a brief &lt;a href="http://anthonytoth.wordpress.com/beverly-eckert-bio/"&gt;biography of Beverly Eckert&lt;/a&gt;, as well as a summary of&lt;a href="http://anthonytoth.wordpress.com/no-truer-hearts/"&gt; &lt;/a&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://anthonytoth.wordpress.com/no-truer-hearts/"&gt;No Truer Hearts&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/i&gt;There are also pages about my &lt;a href="http://anthonytoth.wordpress.com/journalism/"&gt;journalistic &lt;/a&gt;and &lt;a href="http://anthonytoth.wordpress.com/scholarship/"&gt;academic&lt;/a&gt; experience. Thanks for visiting!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-6865073667194093490?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/6865073667194093490/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=6865073667194093490' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6865073667194093490'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6865073667194093490'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2011/04/anthonytothcom-goes-live.html' title='anthonytoth.com goes live'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-5354516638009672476</id><published>2010-12-25T12:03:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2011-01-05T09:18:08.615-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly's Christmases Past</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TRYvHO0mlvI/AAAAAAAAAGw/6l708nOWQmY/s1600/carolers.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 226px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TRYvHO0mlvI/AAAAAAAAAGw/6l708nOWQmY/s320/carolers.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5554678991692404466" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For someone who lives life with enthusiastic joy, who relishes celebrating with loved ones, who thrives on creating beautiful things for others, Christmas cannot come sooner each year. When Beverly and I spoke about her early years, she remembered to me Christmases past, each story lighting her face and animating her voice. There was the cardboard fireplace set up each year by her father, so Santa would have a ready entryway into the Eckert house. And the raucous holiday parties, the kids fueled by cookies and chips and bottles of pop cooled in a basement sink filled with ice. There were cherished presents, remembered forever, like a favorite doll, a trusty bike, a handy wagon. Always, there was music, loved ones gathered around the piano, singing carols in a close and familiar harmony tuned finely from years of practice.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;One Christmas, Beverly put her artistic talents to full use, creating with her hands a set of Victorian carolers for her sisters' families, each family member carefully assembled -- from top hats and shawls, faces formed from clay, hair snipped from a reluctant Sean and others, and clothing and shoes painstakingly fitted together. Love is the things you do, you make, you pass along -- at Christmastime and all the year through. The group in the photo is the one Beverly made for her sister Karen and her family. Their heads are perpetually tilted up, singing in unison a familiar carol, just as Beverly and her loved ones used to do.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Merry Christmas, everyone!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-5354516638009672476?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/5354516638009672476/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=5354516638009672476' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5354516638009672476'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5354516638009672476'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2010/12/beverlys-chistmases-past.html' title='Beverly&apos;s Christmases Past'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TRYvHO0mlvI/AAAAAAAAAGw/6l708nOWQmY/s72-c/carolers.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-3578320277656943177</id><published>2010-12-20T21:04:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2011-01-06T15:37:15.587-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Rosemary Auricchio Rooney, July 12, 1924 - December 13, 2010</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TRAQZma6zkI/AAAAAAAAAGk/DpRMs7TXwaQ/s1600/rosemary%2Bauricchio%2Brooney.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 218px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TRAQZma6zkI/AAAAAAAAAGk/DpRMs7TXwaQ/s320/rosemary%2Bauricchio%2Brooney.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5552956372544048706" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Sean Rooney that Beverly Eckert had fallen in love with was once a small boy who doted on his mother, Rosemary. So close was the boy to his mother that on one occasion, when he was asked to sit on the steps of the family house for a few seconds for a photo, he began to whimper because he could not be close enough at that moment to his mama. His sour expression is caught for eternity in the snap of that camera's shutter. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Rosemary Rooney told me this story with a sense of pride when I visited with her and with some of Sean's siblings in Buffalo in October, and she showed me that photo. She clearly relished the closeness she shared with the young Sean, and this closeness lasted until the very end of his life, on September 11, 2001.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And as Beverly grew to love Sean in the months after they met, she also grew to love Rosemary, who opened her house and her heart to her at a time when openness and warmth were in short supply on the home front for Beverly. In the Rooney household, Beverly was charmed by the relaxed, lively and generous spirit of a family in which good food was shared at the dinner table, along with large helpings of love, good humor and mutual respect between each child and parent. Beverly told me how loving and gregarious Rosemary was, what an easy, informal and good-hearted relationship she had with Sean and her other children. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Rosemary Rooney passed away on December 13 at her home, among children she loved so dearly. News of a grave illness came out of the blue a few weeks previous, and so her family had time to prepare for the inevitable goodbyes. They had a chance, a welcome, precious time to return a small portion of the great mountain of love she had doled out during her long life to Sean and Beverly and all her children and grandchildren and others close to hear large and generous heart.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The departure of every soul from this sweet earth is different. We never know whether there will be time to say goodbye to those who hold a part of our hearts. Best, then, to cherish the ones we love each day, so they always know, no matter what happens, how much they mean to us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/deaths/local-obituaries/article285431.ece"&gt;Here is the Buffalo News obituary&lt;/a&gt; for Rosemary.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-3578320277656943177?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/3578320277656943177/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=3578320277656943177' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3578320277656943177'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3578320277656943177'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2010/12/rosemary-auricchio-rooney-july-12-1924.html' title='Rosemary Auricchio Rooney, July 12, 1924 - December 13, 2010'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TRAQZma6zkI/AAAAAAAAAGk/DpRMs7TXwaQ/s72-c/rosemary%2Bauricchio%2Brooney.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-6311250296308968880</id><published>2010-11-16T17:06:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2010-11-17T10:10:27.613-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Back to Buffalo, Part 4</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TOMsLKoHtpI/AAAAAAAAAGc/HrbAxjMdpGc/s1600/bauda.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 234px; height: 320px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TOMsLKoHtpI/AAAAAAAAAGc/HrbAxjMdpGc/s320/bauda.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5540320536938657426" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TOMrnkk3AnI/AAAAAAAAAGU/K-_JWjl858Y/s1600/delaney.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 234px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TOMrnkk3AnI/AAAAAAAAAGU/K-_JWjl858Y/s320/delaney.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5540319925429011058" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beverly had close friends going back to her grade school years in Buffalo, and I had the good fortune to speak with two of them: Kathleen DeLaney and Carol Bauda. They offered some wonderful memories of Beverly during her school days. Kathleen and Carol told stories of a Bev who, in addition to being a stalwart and big-hearted friend, was the instigator of pranks, a skilled athlete, an articulate and intelligent public speaker, a poet and writer, and an artist who revelled in the free atmosphere of the art room in Sacred Heart Academy. Here, the girls could find refuge from the strictures of the rest of the school, and listen to records, gossip, dream, and let their creative juices flow sitting at their easels.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The stories I was told will help me paint an accurate portrait of a life lived fully and well.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-6311250296308968880?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/6311250296308968880/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=6311250296308968880' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6311250296308968880'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6311250296308968880'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2010/11/back-to-buffalo-part-4.html' title='Back to Buffalo, Part 4'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TOMsLKoHtpI/AAAAAAAAAGc/HrbAxjMdpGc/s72-c/bauda.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-1638751351309351017</id><published>2010-11-12T11:40:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2010-11-12T12:59:50.768-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Back to Buffalo, Part 3</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TN1_9l4RkmI/AAAAAAAAAGM/bRgHMwq4mKw/s1600/kitchen%2Broof.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TN1_9l4RkmI/AAAAAAAAAGM/bRgHMwq4mKw/s320/kitchen%2Broof.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5538723812852470370" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TN1uRx9-TnI/AAAAAAAAAGE/UsDQwTSlD10/s1600/cynthia%2Bat%2Bcanisius.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TN1uRx9-TnI/AAAAAAAAAGE/UsDQwTSlD10/s320/cynthia%2Bat%2Bcanisius.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5538704368485682802" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;During my visit to Buffalo, I was guided to some of the places that were important in the life of Sean Rooney by his sister, Cynthia Blest. Certainly a formative influence on Sean's life were his years at &lt;a href="http://www.canisiushigh.org/"&gt;Canisius High School&lt;/a&gt;. In the photo on the right, Cynthia is pointing to Sean's portrait in the Class of 1969 picture, which hangs in a large room outside the auditorium/gym. In a number of media accounts, including this article in the &lt;a href="http://cityroom.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/02/13/a-911-widow-killed-in-crash-near-buffalo/"&gt;New York Times&lt;/a&gt;, Canisius is given as the place where Sean and Beverly first met at a dance. So I was eager to see the gymnasium, where such dances were held. But after speaking with several people, I learned that the 16-year-olds actually met at a dance at another school. (You can read the book to find out which one!)&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Another place I was taken to was the first house in which Beverly and Sean lived. Here began a tradition of grand nest-feathering, with Sean taking the lead and Beverly ably assisting in home renovation projects large and small. The fine wooden beams that Sean had created in the kitchen were still there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-1638751351309351017?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/1638751351309351017/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=1638751351309351017' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/1638751351309351017'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/1638751351309351017'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2010/11/back-to-buffalo-part-3.html' title='Back to Buffalo, Part 3'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TN1_9l4RkmI/AAAAAAAAAGM/bRgHMwq4mKw/s72-c/kitchen%2Broof.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-249952627287816683</id><published>2010-11-09T09:17:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2010-11-09T11:17:20.702-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Back to Buffalo, Part 2</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TNlYo2o-kLI/AAAAAAAAAF8/bB6ffKrRqlE/s1600/rooney%2Bhouse.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TNlYo2o-kLI/AAAAAAAAAF8/bB6ffKrRqlE/s320/rooney%2Bhouse.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5537554675714134194" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I went to Buffalo in search of stories from the early lives of Beverly and Sean, and I returned from my trip with plenty of them. I was especially keen on getting details about the young Sean Rooney, because I had only gotten a few vignettes from Beverly. On one sunny day, Sean's sister, Cynthia Blest, guided me around the parts of Buffalo that had been touched by Sean. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;This is the house on Dorchester Road the Rooney family lived in when Sean was growing up. Beverly had told me the story about the time Sean had dismantled a 1951 MG TD in the driveway when he was a teenager, and rebuilt it piece-by-piece. And Cynthia recounted with a smile an episode involving Sean, some gin-and-tonics, and a botched repair job on the front steps. It was in the kitchen of this house, helping his mother, Rosemary, that Sean absorbed the lessons of how food and love could combine in magical ways. Many times it is the lessons we learn when we are young that carry us through in the years to come.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-249952627287816683?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/249952627287816683/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=249952627287816683' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/249952627287816683'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/249952627287816683'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2010/11/back-to-buffalo-part-2.html' title='Back to Buffalo, Part 2'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TNlYo2o-kLI/AAAAAAAAAF8/bB6ffKrRqlE/s72-c/rooney%2Bhouse.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-553538543270340060</id><published>2010-11-08T10:48:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2010-11-08T11:30:31.748-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Back to Buffalo, Part 1</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TNgd_JwTIJI/AAAAAAAAAF0/gEC3vD3vypw/s1600/beverly%27s+grave+plaque.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TNgd_JwTIJI/AAAAAAAAAF0/gEC3vD3vypw/s320/beverly%27s+grave+plaque.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5537208712639488146" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I drove up to Buffalo in October to continue my research for the book. I focused on gathering information about Beverly and Sean during their early years, speaking with their friends and relatives, and visiting places that were important in their lives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Karen Eckert kindly shared her memories of Beverly, and guided me around Buffalo. One of the places we visited was &lt;a href="http://www.forest-lawn.com/"&gt;Forest Lawn Cemetery and Crematory&lt;/a&gt;, where the Eckert family placed a beautiful bronze plaque over Beverly's resting place. Karen said that she and the other siblings (Susan Bourque, Margot Eckert and Ray Eckert) had devoted a great deal of thought and care to the words on the plaque. It is a difficult thing to summarize in a short space the talents, accomplishments, spirit and love of an exceptional person. I think they succeeded:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;BEVERLY A. ECKERT&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;Born May 29, 1951&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;Died February 12, 2009&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;In the crash of Continental Flight 3407&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;In Clarence Center, New York&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;Widow of her beloved high school sweetheart&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;Sean P. Rooney&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;Who died September 11, 2001&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;In the attack on the World Trade Center&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;Beverly was a tireless advocate for the families of the victims of 9/11&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;A leader in the establishment of the 9/11 Commission&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;And Co-founder of Voices of September 11th&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;A lover of beauty&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;A writer, an artist, a poet&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;A constant source of amazement and fun&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;Generous of spirit&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;Dedicated to her family and friends&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;And the principles of justice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;She lived her life extraordinarily well&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;Devoted in love, Beverly and Sean are together now&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;"Happily Ever-Aftering"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;"...The evening sky has deepened into darkness on a soft summer night. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium; "&gt;We are sitting on the stone step near the kitchen door, watching the fireflies rise &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium; "&gt;in the backyard over the newly mowed lawn. Friends are expected for dinner. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium; "&gt;A steak is on the grill, a glass of wine in hand.... we are laughing.... we are content."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;-Beverly Eckert-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-553538543270340060?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/553538543270340060/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=553538543270340060' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/553538543270340060'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/553538543270340060'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2010/11/back-to-buffalo-part-1.html' title='Back to Buffalo, Part 1'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TNgd_JwTIJI/AAAAAAAAAF0/gEC3vD3vypw/s72-c/beverly%27s+grave+plaque.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-7814187671715547036</id><published>2010-08-23T10:04:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-08-23T11:05:03.817-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly and the book and me: The birth of a collaboration</title><content type='html'>This somewhat improbable endeavor – a book about a 9/11 citizen activist by a Middle East scholar – came about because Beverly and I had so much in common. Our collaboration was born of shared interests, goals and even personalities. It makes sense, after all, that kindred spirits would work together well. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Had it not been for 9/11, our paths never would have crossed. But once I decided to write about the 9/11 Commission, our meeting was inevitable, because without the efforts of Beverly and other family members, the commission would never have been established. I interviewed Beverly for &lt;a href="http://hnn.us/articles/4355.html"&gt;an article I wrote for the History News Network&lt;/a&gt; on the testimony of Richard Clarke before the commission. I had not known of her before then, but once I read about her life with Sean, her horrific ordeal with him on the telephone as he tried to escape from Tower Two, and eventually perished, I knew I wanted to tell her story, to make the whole experience of 9/11 personal and immediate to readers through her eyes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After reading my HNN article, Beverly wrote in June 2004 that it had offered a perspective that was “really different” than those presented in the many other articles on the commission that she’d read. “You captured the drama and content of the testimony,” she said. Others had approached Beverly about doing a book, but they suggested that she do most of the writing. She turned them down, explaining that “I have too little time and energy right now for looking back, when there is so much to be dealt with in the present.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As with many matters, when it came to deciding whether to get involved with producing a book, Beverly was deliberate and thoughtful. After I had broached the idea to her, she suggested I contact her again after a few months. During this time, she informed other members of the Family Steering Committee of my proposed book, and that I would be interested in getting in touch with them. None of them balked at the idea, but some told Beverly that the large number of media requests for interviews necessitated much greater selectivity on their part. She noted that “although the FSC members have been accessible before, I can't promise the same access now” since it was a very bust time. As for Beverly’s relatives and friends, she told me they were interested in the project and willing to contribute their recollections.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;During the summer of 2004, we continued to be in touch, and during the course of our discussions, I had suggested that Beverly begin to keep a journal, to record her thoughts and actions for future reference. On July 4, 2004, she visited the memorial grove she had planted in Sean’s memory in the ocean side park where the couple had spent many a leisurely weekend, strolling, roller-blading, reading the Sunday &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;New York Times&lt;/span&gt;. She placed a couple of American flags next to the plaque by the trees, she said, because “I felt it was something that I needed to do, given that Sean was killed because he was an American.” Beverly’s first journal entry described that gesture of love and remembrance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Later in July, Beverly agreed participate in the book project. Her prime concern was accuracy. On a number of occasions she illustrated this sentiment by quoting Voltaire: “To the living, we owe respect. To the dead we owe only the truth.” She had no desire to dictate the content of the book, which she left to me. She trusted me to write an honest and accurate account of the people and events of 9/11 and afterward. She only wanted the opportunity to offer her version of events when the version of others differed, and to let me decide which was closer to the truth. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beverly’s search for truth was what she owed to her beloved Sean. Mine is driven by the historian’s duty to present the past as it actually was. I’m confident that the people who matter the most – the readers of &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;No Truer Hearts&lt;/span&gt; – will agree our shared quest will be yield something valuable and enduring.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-7814187671715547036?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/7814187671715547036/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=7814187671715547036' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7814187671715547036'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7814187671715547036'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2010/08/beverly-and-book-and-me-birth-of.html' title='Beverly and the book and me: The birth of a collaboration'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-4820276077384032302</id><published>2010-08-03T11:18:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2010-08-03T11:57:16.351-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Flight 3401 family members celebrate hard-won airline safety reforms</title><content type='html'>Like their sister Beverly before them, Karen Eckert and Susan Bourque celebrated a legislative victory after many months of hard work in Washington's halls of political power. Karen, Susan and other family members and friends of the Continental Flight 3407 victims, as well as others supporting airline safety reforms, had been lobbying for for many months to press their cause. Yesterday President Obama signed legislation that would improve pilot training, address flight crew fatigue and other issues related to the crash of Flight 3407.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;An &lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/city/capital-connection/article88123.ece"&gt;article by Jerry Zremski of the Buffalo News&lt;/a&gt; summarized the reaction: &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"At last it is official!" said Susan Bourque of East Aurora, who lost her sister, 9/11 activist Beverly Eckert, in the crash. "Today is my granddaughter Adriana's birthday. What a present -- not just for her but everyone who flies."&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-4820276077384032302?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/4820276077384032302/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=4820276077384032302' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/4820276077384032302'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/4820276077384032302'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2010/08/flight-3401-family-members-celebrate.html' title='Flight 3401 family members celebrate hard-won airline safety reforms'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-4011325785004975548</id><published>2010-07-28T09:05:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2010-07-28T09:29:31.771-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Sculpting a book: from bare outline to fully formed story</title><content type='html'>When I am asked about the writing process, I like to use the analogy of a sculptor. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Just as a sculptor starts with sketches or small scale models, I began this project by making notes on the general structure of the book, following the main paths of Beverly Eckert's story. And just as a sculptor working in clay fashions a wire frame in the general shape of the final piece, I put together an outline listing the main parts, chapters, episodes of the story. To add texture and depth to the bare wire frame, the artist pinches off pieces of clay and smoothes them onto the frame, layer by layer, getting closer to the final design. As in all good works of non-fiction, the story told in &lt;i&gt;No Truer Hearts&lt;/i&gt; is made up of facts, which I am drawing from interviews, emails, documents, articles, books, films, electronic media and other sources.  I use these sources to add detail, insight and color to the basic outline, layer by layer, chapter by chapter, episode by episode. It is a process, in a way, of creative accretion, a gradual and deliberate adding on of color, shape, substance, soul.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;In the end, there will be something that is both pleasing to the senses, and sturdy enough as an object of historical analysis to stand the test of time, a goal that Beverly and I both shared.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-4011325785004975548?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/4011325785004975548/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=4011325785004975548' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/4011325785004975548'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/4011325785004975548'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2010/07/sculpting-book-from-bare-outline-to.html' title='Sculpting a book: from bare outline to fully formed story'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-6383402082439739378</id><published>2010-07-22T14:21:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2010-07-22T15:03:34.375-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly Eckert and her sisters: citizen advocates fighting for the average American</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Washington is awash in lobbyists. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Wealthy corporations and groups funnel rivers of cash to slick lawyers, former Congressmen and well-connected ex-government officials to grease the skids of special interest political influence. It is a story as old as politics itself, and too often it results in policies that benefit the rich and powerful rather than promoting the high ideal of government of the people, by the people and for the people. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;That is why the story of Beverly Eckert and her fellow 9/11 family members is so compelling. Average citizens faced with an epic catastrophe responded by almost singlehandedly compelling the government to better protect its citizens. Without the commitment, skill, and persistence of the family members, the system that allowed 9/11 to happen would have continued to function for the most part in its old, dysfunctional way.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;(And even after intelligence reforms were passed, the bureaucracy and private corporations have found new ways to put their interests above those of the nation, and once again make us all vulnerable to future attacks, as reported in a special &lt;a href="http://projects.washingtonpost.com/top-secret-america/"&gt;Washington Post series&lt;/a&gt; this week.)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5jXpnsLN91ps6KfCVi9-GnDn26aXQD9H3HSN80"&gt;Now comes an update&lt;/a&gt; on the similar reform work by family members of Flight 3407, including Beverly's sister's Karen Eckert and Susan Bourque. In it, Associate Press reporter Joan Lowy describes exactly how this latest effective band of citizen advocates were able to convince members of Congress for the need to improve airline safety:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;As a group, they have made more than 30 lobbying trips to Washington at their own expense over the past 17 months since the crash in Buffalo, N.Y., united them in grief — with a determination to try to fix what had gone wrong.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They've met with 88 senators or their staffs, and two dozen House members or their aides — many of them more than once. They've attended every congressional hearing with any connection to aviation safety. They've watched from the House and Senate visitor galleries as lawmakers debated reforms, an unmistakable island of red sweaters, ties and jackets — their chosen color — with photos of their loved ones pinned to their chests.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In March, when Sen. Bob Corker, R-Tenn., threatened to block a vote on the bill because he objected to a labor provision affecting FedEx Corp., which is headquartered in his state, about 20 family members descended on his office. In a tense meeting with Corker's chief of staff, they demanded he explain why the senator was putting the interests of a company ahead of safety. They held out pictures of the loved ones they'd lost, told of the children who would grow up without fathers.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ten minutes after the meeting ended, family members were still standing outside Corker's office trying to decide what to do next when an aide called them back in to tell them Corker had reached a compromise with Democratic leaders. The threat to block the bill had been dropped for the moment. Family members don't take credit for Corker's decision, but they say they believe their actions helped.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-6383402082439739378?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/6383402082439739378/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=6383402082439739378' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6383402082439739378'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6383402082439739378'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2010/07/beverly-eckert-and-her-sisters-citizen.html' title='Beverly Eckert and her sisters: citizen advocates fighting for the average American'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-1823349532381110559</id><published>2010-07-22T10:37:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2010-07-22T10:58:45.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Starting up again, after an unexpected break</title><content type='html'>My work on this blog, as well as on the book, ground to an unexpected halt some months ago because I suffered a deep personal crisis from which I am at last recovering. For a while, I was unable to work, to function normally, because my 25-year marriage had broken apart.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;From now on, though, I will redouble my efforts and push hard to complete this endeavor, to keep my promise to Beverly. The blog will come alive, and each day the pages of the manuscript will increase. This story will be told. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I feel I must apologize, for this book has been much delayed, for a variety of reasons. But the days of delays are over. In the coming days you will read about how this project arose, what Beverly's thoughts were about it, and how I will go about making our dream a reality.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Feel free to contact me with questions, suggestions and information about Beverly's life, her 9/11 reform work, and the Family Steering Committee. I'm eager to get back on track and to organize this mountain of material into the 9/11 story everyone will want to read. Onward!&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-1823349532381110559?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/1823349532381110559/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=1823349532381110559' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/1823349532381110559'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/1823349532381110559'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2010/07/starting-up-again.html' title='Starting up again, after an unexpected break'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-3221980940267680721</id><published>2010-02-22T12:36:00.010-05:00</published><updated>2010-02-22T14:22:46.992-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A Year after the Crash of Flight 3407: A Walk to Remember, A Walk to Promote Airline Safety</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/S4LBkA-leVI/AAAAAAAAAEo/EzHcwRY2AVg/s1600-h/karen+and+susan+memorial+walk.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 210px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/S4LBkA-leVI/AAAAAAAAAEo/EzHcwRY2AVg/s320/karen+and+susan+memorial+walk.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5441124124298934610" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;On February 12, 2009, Continental Flight 3407 fell from the sky onto a house in Clarence Center, NY, extinguishing 51 lives. One year later, those touched by the tragedy began a day of remembrance at the snow-covered crash site on Long Street, now a peaceful plot of land. They gathered to recall their loved ones with fondness and joy, and walked the ten miles from Clarence Center to Buffalo Niagara International Airport, completing the journey on behalf of those who perished that awful, snowy night. But in addition to keeping bright the memories of those lost lives, the walkers and many onlookers in neighborhoods along the way were also expressing support for the aviation safety reforms that had yet to be implemented by the FAA and Congress, reforms meant to prevent such calamities as that which befell the victims of Flight 3407.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;Some of Beverly &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Eckert&lt;/span&gt;’s relatives and friends gathered that morning along with many others at the Clarence Center Fire Hall, whose volunteers were first on the scene of the crash, just 750 feet away. Beverly’s sisters Karen &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;Eckert&lt;/span&gt; and Susan &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Bourque&lt;/span&gt; were there. They had spent much of the previous year following closely the official crash investigation and pushing for solutions to the many problems that contributed to the crash, which was operated by regional carrier &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;Colgan&lt;/span&gt; Air. Karen and Susan are working with others who became active in promoting airline safety after the crash took their loved ones, and this group was also involved in planning the day’s events. &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;Laurin&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;Maurer&lt;/span&gt; had died in the crash, and her father, Scott, and her boyfriend, Kevin &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;Kuwik&lt;/span&gt; were active in this group, &lt;a href="http://www.3407memorial.com/index.php"&gt;Families of Continental Flight 3407&lt;/a&gt;. But much of the work of planning and putting on the day’s events was done by John &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;Kausner&lt;/span&gt;, who lost his daughter, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;Ellyce&lt;/span&gt; (Elly to all). &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;Kausner&lt;/span&gt; and his family spent many hours finding local businesses to donate supplies and facilities, coordinating with local jurisdictions to provide safety on the roads, and publicizing not just the event, but the cause of airline safety. &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10"&gt;Kausner&lt;/span&gt;’s daughter, Laura &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11"&gt;Kausner&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12"&gt;Voigt&lt;/span&gt;, had founded a group called&lt;a href="http://www.subzeroallstars.com/SubZeroAllstars/Ellys_Angels.html"&gt; Elly’s Angel’s&lt;/a&gt;, whose members handed out red scarves and ribbons to the Flight 3407 family members at the fire hall before the walk, and assisted in many ways during the events of the day.&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; The day’s events began with the placing of a simple wreath of red and white carnations on a wire stand in the snow at the center of the crash site. Some family members offered impromptu additions to the program. Patrick &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13"&gt;Pettys&lt;/span&gt;, who lost his sister Mary, stood next to the wreath, stretched his arms out to the sides, and fell back into the snow to make a snow angel to symbolize his &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14"&gt;sister&lt;/span&gt;. Someone else then scattered red rose petals on the crash site. And then the walkers walked.&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;Out front of the procession was Jeffrey &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_15"&gt;Skiles&lt;/span&gt;, co-pilot of US Airways Flight 1549, which dramatically ditched in the Hudson River with no loss of life about a month before the crash of flight 3407. &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_16"&gt;Skiles&lt;/span&gt; had been working with Families of Flight 3407 in past months because he saw the pressing need to improve regional airline safety through such measures as better pilot training and fatigue management. &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_17"&gt;Skiles&lt;/span&gt; told the University at Buffalo’s &lt;a href="http://www.ubspectrum.com/article/41287"&gt;student newspaper&lt;/a&gt;:   “I’&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_18"&gt;ve&lt;/span&gt; made real friendships here with these people and anybody who knows me knows I do not like to be called a hero,” &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_19"&gt;Skiles&lt;/span&gt; said. “People call me a hero – I am not. These people are. You are all my heroes, you will always be my heroes.”&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Beverly's sister Margot had decided to undertake this journey in a pair of warm, black boots. They were not quite her size, but because they had belonged to Beverly, she felt it would be meaningful to walk them along this special route. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;No one knew quite what to expect along the way. The organizers had initially envisioned a simple affair with just a few family members walking the symbolic path to Flight 3407's destination. But once others heard about the project, it snowballed, so to speak. Not just family members and friends, but members of the community, business leaders and others wanted to participate. And so a simple commemoration grew to be a community-wide call for &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_20"&gt;aviation&lt;/span&gt; safety. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Hundreds of people participated in one way or another. There were those who walked, those who helped, and there were many hundreds along the route who waved, held up signs, or otherwise showed their support. About the halfway mark, a group of school children stood in a line along the route and offered their upraised hands to high-five the walkers. "They really invigorated everyone, " said Karen afterward. "The heartwarming thing was that you saw so much support from the community," she added, noting that the Public Broadcasting Service's &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_21"&gt;Frontline&lt;/span&gt; series had just aired an excellent program called&lt;a href="http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/flyingcheap/"&gt; "Flying Cheap."&lt;/a&gt; The hour-long program examined the issue of regional airline safety lapses, with particular attention to the case of Flight 3407. Karen, Susan and other Flight 3407 family members &lt;a href="http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/flyingcheap/continental-3407/"&gt;had appeared on the program&lt;/a&gt;. It's no surprise that the program was closely followed by the Buffalo-area viewing audience, and that their awareness of the need for airline safety reform was high, said Karen.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;There was great relief at the end of the walk. For some, it was taxing both physically and emotionally. "&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium; "&gt;I walked to the point of exhaustion that day too," said Margo &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_22"&gt;Eckert&lt;/span&gt;, "the ache in my legs matching the ache in my heart. How can it be that I miss her more now?"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium; "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: 16px; "&gt;At a press conference at the airport, there were words of gratitude, love and encouragement from family members and political officials. Sen. Charles &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_23"&gt;Schumer&lt;/span&gt; had worked with the family members through the year on their safety reform efforts, and had glowing words, greeted by enthusiastic applause.&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'times new roman';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt; &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; "&gt;“I am honored and humbled to be in the presence of these families and I pledge in every way to see that their goal – to make sure this never happens again by passing sensible laws and applying the same laws that we apply to the big, commercial airliners, to the commuter airlines – becomes the law of this land” &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_24"&gt;Schumer&lt;/span&gt; said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;At 8:30 p.m. there was a ceremony at the Clarence Town Hall where the first responders presented a slide show of their efforts that terrible night, and where family members could offer their words of thanks. The final event of the long day brought those touched by the tragedy back to the plot on Long Street where so many loved ones perished. In the darkness and cold and lightly sprinkling snow they came bearing candles, lit &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_25"&gt;luminarias&lt;/span&gt; bearing the names of the victims arranged on the cold, hallowed ground in the shape of a large, looped ribbon as Karen recited the names of the departed, slowly, solemnly. At the moment of the crash, at 10:17 p.m., church bells from near and far began to peal 51 times, but their song was interrupted by the loud roar of a plane flying directly above the crash site. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"&gt;Margot &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_26"&gt;Eckert&lt;/span&gt; said it was the last plane she heard that evening in the flight path. "Snow was falling," she added, "those big flakes, like tears."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium; "&gt;Karen later said that in the days leading up to the anniversary, and on the day of the walk itself, she could hear Beverly's voice in her head, saying, "Do the right thing... Make sure this won’t happen again.. I’m gone; you can’t bring me back, but you can do something... It’s important, and the anniversary is an &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_27"&gt;important&lt;/span&gt; time to call attention to the fact that things still have to be done..." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium; "&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;So often in life we don't listen hard enough to the voices of the ones we love. But if their message is strong and true, their words will survive even death.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-3221980940267680721?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/3221980940267680721/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=3221980940267680721' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3221980940267680721'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3221980940267680721'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2010/02/year-after-crash-of-flight-3407-walk-to.html' title='A Year after the Crash of Flight 3407: A Walk to Remember, A Walk to Promote Airline Safety'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/S4LBkA-leVI/AAAAAAAAAEo/EzHcwRY2AVg/s72-c/karen+and+susan+memorial+walk.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-5757342176104416934</id><published>2010-02-12T13:55:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-02-12T14:00:32.450-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Such joy, such life</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/S3Wkx_PXJtI/AAAAAAAAAEY/hObKCZyoX1Y/s1600-h/at+lake.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 231px; height: 320px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/S3Wkx_PXJtI/AAAAAAAAAEY/hObKCZyoX1Y/s320/at+lake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5437433303816152786" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-Times New Roman&amp;quot;;font-family:&amp;quot;;color:black;"&gt;I think of Beverly every day. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-Times New Roman&amp;quot;;font-family:&amp;quot;;color:black;"&gt;One year ago, her life ended, but her story was carried on by those whose lives she touched. The story of the jump-roping, hop-scotching sister; the high school poet/artist/basketball player; the strong-handed potter; the assured insurance executive; the partner-for-life of her beloved Sean; generous and exuberant friend and neighbor. And in the final chapter of her life: volunteer and citizen-activist extraordinaire.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-Times New Roman&amp;quot;;font-family:&amp;quot;;color:black;"&gt;And so we will remember Beverly in our own ways. When she remembered Sean, it was with gratitude for their life together, and with a sense of the joy he brought to her life and the lives of others. Today I want to remember Beverly with that same sense of joy. It’s not a difficult thing to do. Looking at the smile on her face puts a smile on mine. The gusto with which she lived her life inspires me to skip, dance and immerse myself in the wonder of something so simple as a setting sun. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-Times New Roman&amp;quot;;font-family:&amp;quot;;color:black;"&gt;Think of Beverly and the snow! A born and bred Buffalo gal, she loved the snow, and missed it when she wintered away from the cold Northeast during her Caribbean cruises. And when she was home, she would immerse herself joyfully in the season. In December 2008 she wrote: “Holidays are a wonderful escape – recapturing the magic of childhood can be intoxicating, and who can resist snow, family gatherings and Christmas trees?” One wonderful wintery image in particular is etched in my memory: Beverly, head tilted back in a full-throated laugh, riding down the small hill in her backyard last January in the most unlikely of conveyances – the hull of a Sunfish sailboat! Just like a kid. “Instead of just storing it,” she wrote, “here’s something I discovered that you can do with a sailboat in wintertime. This is cutting-edge stuff – I just know it’s going to catch on!”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-Times New Roman&amp;quot;;font-family:&amp;quot;;color:black;"&gt;Think of Beverly on the water! One of her favorite ways to relax (“I love the serenity”) was to spend time in her kayak. And like everything else she did, Beverly jumped in with both feet. In the summer of 2004, she wrote: “Kayaking yesterday turned out to be more exciting than I anticipated. One of my friends capsized, dumping herself and a full load of supplies into Long Island Sound. &lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;Luckily, we were still close to shore, but that meant we had a large audience of beachgoers, not to mention the eager services of the local lifeguard. Anyway, it was hard to get the kayak out of the water and drained because we couldn't stop laughing.” And other simple joys were never far from the surface of the water. In the autumn of 2008 she wrote: “While kayaking Sunday, I caught a turtle with my &lt;i&gt;bare hands&lt;/i&gt;. A tiny turtle, but nonetheless &lt;i&gt;untamed by man&lt;/i&gt; until I came along.”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom:12.0pt"&gt;&lt;span style="mso-fareast-Times New Roman&amp;quot;;font-family:&amp;quot;;color:black;"&gt;Such joy, such life. Such a joyous life.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-5757342176104416934?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/5757342176104416934/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=5757342176104416934' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5757342176104416934'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5757342176104416934'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2010/02/such-joy-such-life.html' title='Such joy, such life'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/S3Wkx_PXJtI/AAAAAAAAAEY/hObKCZyoX1Y/s72-c/at+lake.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-8279446320908435089</id><published>2009-12-18T03:54:00.011-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-23T10:54:02.026-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A Touching Memorial to a Wonderful Life</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SzI9C1-xJHI/AAAAAAAAAEQ/yLVow0Qsk4E/s1600-h/glenbrook+plaque.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SzI9C1-xJHI/AAAAAAAAAEQ/yLVow0Qsk4E/s320/glenbrook+plaque.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5418460420739507314" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Eckert&lt;/span&gt; touched many lives. And especially in this first holiday season without her, I'm struck by how she was able to bring so much to so many.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;First and last, she was an eternally devoted wife to Sean Rooney. To the members of her family, she was loving and joyful and constant. Outside of this close family circle, the luckiest ones were invited into the warmth of her friendship, the generosity of her soul, the kindness of her heart. Those who worked at her side -- feeding the hungry, sheltering the poor, improving her neighborhood, tutoring children, making the country safer -- were impressed by her talent, diligence and determination. If Beverly joined in the effort, things got done. Others only knew &lt;i&gt;of&lt;/i&gt; her, that she had lost the love of her life on 9/11, worked through her grief to make the country safer, and then died herself in a plane that plummeted from icy skies near the places in Buffalo where, during the course of her wonderful life, she had played, learned, fallen in love and reunited regularly with her loved ones for such occasions as holidays, weddings, births and deaths. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;One person who was touched by Beverly is Anne &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;Goslin&lt;/span&gt;, who was one of the principal organizers of a modest and touching event October 31st during which Beverly's memory was celebrated and set into stone. Anne had at first known Beverly only casually as a neighbor in the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Glenbrook&lt;/span&gt; section of Stamford. But at one meeting of the neighborhood association Beverly spoke about her work for Habitat for Humanity, and encouraged Anne and others to join her on a project in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;Slidell&lt;/span&gt;, Louisiana. During their brief days hammering and sawing and raising the walls and roof of a fine wooden shed, warm bonds were established among the neighbors who were now part of a construction team. "We had such a good time together," Anne recalled recently. Beverly and Anne kept in closer contact thereafter, and on one occasion Anne was touched when Beverly had invited her and her husband for dinner, and she prepared everything from scratch.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;After the shock and pain of Beverly's death last February gave way to warm memories of her life, many people whose lives she touched decided there should be some fitting ways to remember her. Employees of the City of Stamford and local businessmen with whom Beverly worked on a number of neighborhood projects came together and created a memorial plaque set into a block of granite. The plaque matched the one Beverly had erected to remember Sean at the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;Glenbrook&lt;/span&gt; train station where he used to depart for his job in the city. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;On a cool but pleasant October morning, then, relatives, friends, neighbors and others gathered at the station as part of a city-wide "Make a Difference Day," of cleaning up, recycling, beautifying. They also came to remember a woman who lived a wonderful life and in some way touched them all.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Anne spoke first, recalling those qualities of Beverly's that would be on display if she were taking part in this "Make a Difference Day." She would have been involved in organizing things, Anne said, setting the course, guiding the effort. But Beverly was never one to sit back and let others do the heavy lifting. As Anne had seen firsthand in the hot Louisiana sun, Beverly was more than willing to get her hands dirty. She would have been there, picking up trash, spreading mulch, planting daffodil bulbs. Recalling the way she had met Beverly, and the ease with which Beverly gathered others to herself, Anne said that Beverly would also have made some sort of meaningful personal connection with someone at the event. Finally, after all the work was done, Anne said Beverly would probably suggest a convivial and memorable gathering, perhaps at Monster B's, a lively watering hole hard by the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;Glenbrook&lt;/span&gt; station.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;That was Beverly: the organizer, the worker bee, the easy friend, the center of a celebration.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The city's mayor, Dannel P. &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;Malloy&lt;/span&gt; recalled Beverly as well, and recounted her legacy of service and selflessness. State Representative Carlo Leone was there. Beverly's family of course helped with the ceremony, as did other members of the neighborhood association. Karen Eckert said the family had set up memorial benches in the town, in places that were special to Beverly. Some 4o lives that Beverly had touched, in large and small ways, gathered, celebrated a life lived well, and dedicated a plaque that now sits like a bookend opposite the station's first memorial plaque. They all sang "On the Street Where You Live," because it was a special song to Beverly and Sean. They planted dozens of daffodil bulbs, which would bloom early in spring and bring color and joy and perhaps touch the lives of those who passed by and saw them in the sun, saw their yellow faces look up to the sky, surrounding the bookend plaques commemorating bookend lives.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-8279446320908435089?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/8279446320908435089/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=8279446320908435089' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/8279446320908435089'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/8279446320908435089'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/12/touching-memorial-to-wonderful-life.html' title='A Touching Memorial to a Wonderful Life'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SzI9C1-xJHI/AAAAAAAAAEQ/yLVow0Qsk4E/s72-c/glenbrook+plaque.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-1285900637814173313</id><published>2009-10-16T09:09:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-16T09:54:03.292-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Some airline safety measures sought by Flight 3407 families win passage in House</title><content type='html'>Beverly Eckert often said that she was working hard for 9/11 reform measures because her husband, Sean, did not make it home on September 11th, but she wanted to make sure "someone else's 'Sean' gets to go home" because America would be safer. After Beverly was killed in the crash of Flight 3407, family members of those lost, including Beverly's sisters Karen Eckert and Susan Bourque, vowed to find out why the plane fell so suddenly out of the sky, and how future crashes could be prevented. Karen and Susan have been working hard so that someone's "Beverly" lands safely.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;That hope came a step closer to reality on Oct. 14, when the House passed by a wide margin &lt;a href="http://thomas.loc.gov/cgi-bin/bdquery/D?d111:1:./temp/~bdf8cB:@@@D&amp;amp;summ2=m&amp;amp;|/bss/111search.html|"&gt;HR 3371&lt;/a&gt;, a bill aimed at fixing some of the problems that led not only to the crash of Flight 3407, but of other regional airline disasters. The bill includes provisions to improve pilot training, reduce pilot fatigue, and improve pilot training and licensing records. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly's sisters and other Flight 3407 family members were surprised when the announcement came that the bill was coming up for a vote, and a bit worried that some pilot-training provisions had been altered due to pressure from flight schools. According to an &lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/home/story/827122.html"&gt;article by Jerry Zremski in the &lt;/a&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/home/story/827122.html"&gt;Buffalo News&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt;:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div&gt;But the behind-the-scenes addition of that new language — included at the request of a powerful Florida lawmaker whose district includes a prominent flight school — didn't exactly thrill those who lost loved ones in the February crash of Continental Connection Flight 3407 in Clarence Center.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"This is kind of out of the blue," said Susan Bourque, whose sister, Beverly Eckert, was among the 50 people who died in the crash.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;When Karen Eckert learned of the impending House vote, she rushed to Washington so that she could witness it along with other Flight 3407 family members. As she sat in the gallery high above the House chamber and watched the votes in favor mount, she let a photo of her sister Beverly dangle over the railing, so that Beverly could see the legislative victory, and so that the lawmakers could see Beverly.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-1285900637814173313?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/1285900637814173313/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=1285900637814173313' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/1285900637814173313'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/1285900637814173313'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/10/some-airline-safety-measures-sought-by.html' title='Some airline safety measures sought by Flight 3407 families win passage in House'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-7825257446470359331</id><published>2009-09-11T07:29:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-11T11:19:58.720-04:00</updated><title type='text'>"...death has no power over our hearts..."</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SqovRm74oXI/AAAAAAAAAEI/9CSg_ZqgZqI/s1600-h/bevswindow1.jpg"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SqovRm74oXI/AAAAAAAAAEI/9CSg_ZqgZqI/s320/bevswindow1.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5380164684403482994" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;On this solemn day of remembrance, only Beverly's words will suffice. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;One year before she was killed, Beverly was back in Buffalo, celebrating the life of Sean Rooney, and her love for him, surrounded by family and friends, on his birthday, Feb. 15, 2008. A few weeks later, she put together the simple and moving account of that day that appears below. (Beverly posted it in &lt;a href="http://www.legacy.com/gb2/default.aspx?bookID=107978&amp;amp;page=8"&gt;Sean Rooney's Guest Book at Legacy.com&lt;/a&gt;.) She also described how she and Sean's loved ones remembered him on the sixth anniversary of the attacks, in September 2007.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;On this September 11&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt;, we remember them both, and all the others. And her simple words are eloquent testament to a remarkable women, who, even with her passing, is able to shine a bright light on the fleeting nature of life, and the powerful permanence of love.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;**************************************************&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;March 09, 2008&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hi Sean, it’s me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know it was a while ago, but I thought I’d tell you all about what we did on your birthday this year.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We actually had three celebrations. The first one was on your actual birthday, the 15&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt;. Susan, Bill and I went to dinner at the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Roycroft&lt;/span&gt; Inn. It was cold and snowy, just like that winter you worked there, but it was warm inside by the fireplace, and we had a great meal. They had live jazz in the lounge, so after dinner we stayed to listen. All evening we talked, laughed, and most of all, we remembered. It felt like there were four of us there that evening, not just three.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The next day Karen, Mike and I we went to the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;Neumann&lt;/span&gt; Center at &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;UB&lt;/span&gt; because the 4:30 Mass there was dedicated to you. The priest, Father Pat, greeted us when we walked in and asked a few questions about you. A couple of times during the mass, he mentioned how you died, but he also mentioned your love of wine and food and how our families often gathered to cook in your memory. So right in the middle of mass, I invited him to join us over at Karen and Mike’s after mass. He brought a bottle of &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;Brunnello&lt;/span&gt;. By the way, I made your ‘Chicken Alfredo’ that night and it turned out great. Yes, hon, I’&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;ve&lt;/span&gt; learned to cook a little…&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The next day, we were back at the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;Procknals&lt;/span&gt;. This time both of our families gathered, and we made ravioli - tray after tray, with three pots of water boiling on the stove to cook it all. We had three banquet tables pushed together to accommodate us all. And we thought we had the head count right, but when we all sat down, we discovered there was one extra place setting, just to my right. So I went and got a photo of you, propped it up there, and poured you some wine. All through dinner, I &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;couldn&lt;/span&gt;’t stop smiling - the food, the wine, everyone sitting around the table talking and laughing, and you next to me where you belong.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was a birthday we’ll all remember. It was a lot like this past 9/11 anniversary, a &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;rollercoaster&lt;/span&gt; mix of happy and sad. The commemoration started with a ceremony at the Red Cross Headquarters. Your mom and Cynthia did readings. It seemed only fitting that it was pouring rain through the whole ceremony. For one of the musical selections, they played “Only Time” by &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10"&gt;Enya&lt;/span&gt;. I guess I dropped something while we were standing there listening. My sister told me she touched my arm to hand it back, but I never saw nor felt her. I must have been wherever you are.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The next day, your mom and I went to lunch. Afterward we drove over to your old house on &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11"&gt;Dorchester&lt;/span&gt; Avenue. The basketball hoop is still there, over the garage door. We laughed about the time you backed the car into the chimney, and the way you dismantled your ‘51 MG all over the driveway one year and then rebuilt it. Your mom pointed out the window on the third floor that was your bedroom. Then we just sat there in the car, quietly looking at the house, remembering.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After I dropped Rosemary off, I went to the Amherst 9/11 Memorial Grove with Carol and &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12"&gt;Kamil&lt;/span&gt;. One of the three trees dedicated to you there has lost a lot of its branches. But there are trees in other places in Stamford and Buffalo that are still doing OK. People leave flowers and notes at them. Still.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The next day there was a ceremony in the morning at the waterfront downtown. They asked a family member to speak, so I said a few words. Then, we held a car-wash fund-raiser at your old grammar school, to raise money for your memorial scholarship. It was raining and there were kids with hoses, so needless to say we all got soaked, but we had a great time. The kids worked hard, and our families pitched in and helped, too. All together, we raised over $800 dollars. By the way, one of your old eighth-grade classmates is a teacher there now, and she told me you were the cutest guy in the class and all the girls had a crush on you. Then Sister Gail, the current principal, located a copy of your school transcript. We had to laugh - you had high grades, but you &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13"&gt;didn&lt;/span&gt;’t do too well in the deportment categories.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After the car wash, our families went to Cole’s on &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14"&gt;Elmwood&lt;/span&gt; to get something to eat. There was a TV in the bar, and the local evening news was on. They were broadcasting segments about the 9/11 events of the day. We could see that they were showing footage of us, so we were yelling and pointing. On one segment, they showed a photo of you, so we all cheered. I can’t imagine what the other bar patrons were thinking of our raucous reaction to the 9/11 news stories.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At the end of the broadcast, we raised our voices and our glasses: “To Sean!”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was a good day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Something I’&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_15"&gt;ve&lt;/span&gt; come to realize over the past six and a half years, Sean, is that death has no power over our hearts - neither yours, nor ours. I want you to know how much you are loved, and remembered.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You are with us, still.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All my love, all my life.&lt;br /&gt;Beverly&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;******************************************&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;[Photo of the view out of Beverly and Sean's kitchen window by Anthony &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_16"&gt;Toth&lt;/span&gt;]&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-7825257446470359331?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/7825257446470359331/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=7825257446470359331' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7825257446470359331'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7825257446470359331'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/09/death-has-no-power-over-our-hearts.html' title='&quot;...death has no power over our hearts...&quot;'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SqovRm74oXI/AAAAAAAAAEI/9CSg_ZqgZqI/s72-c/bevswindow1.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-8876511676163351722</id><published>2009-09-10T20:55:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-10T21:22:46.420-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Voices of September 11th honors the efforts Beverly Eckert with its Building Bridges Award</title><content type='html'>The influential 9/11 advocacy and support group that Beverly Eckert co-founded honored her memory with its annual Building Bridges award in a presentation in New York City today. Two of Beverly's sisters, Karen Eckert and Sue Bourque, accepted the award on her behalf.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Just weeks after Sept. 11, 2001, Beverly and Mary Fetchet, another Connecticut resident, who lost her son Brad in the attacks, established &lt;a href="http://voicesofsept11.org/dev/index.php"&gt;Voices of September 11th&lt;/a&gt;. The fledgling organization was run on a shoestring by Beverly, Mary and a few others mainly to providing family members and others affected by the attacks with information about such things as the recovery of remains, financial and medical assistance, the victims compensation fund and counseling.  As the needs of the 9/11 community expanded, so did the staff, membership and services of FOS11. It now has about 7,000 members and a wide-ranging agenda which includes the &lt;a href="http://voicesofsept11.org/dev/content.php?idtocitems=1,6"&gt;9/11 Living Memorial &lt;/a&gt;project, reaching out to victims of terrorism at home and abroad, advocating for government reform, and providing a number of services to its members.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-8876511676163351722?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/8876511676163351722/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=8876511676163351722' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/8876511676163351722'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/8876511676163351722'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/09/voices-of-september-11th-honors-efforts.html' title='Voices of September 11th honors the efforts Beverly Eckert with its Building Bridges Award'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-6792293669788617870</id><published>2009-09-10T20:09:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-11T08:38:18.431-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly's effective advocacy lives on in the efforts of her sisters</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SqmfUNh4DxI/AAAAAAAAAEA/V4zc2ddvIX0/s1600-h/sue%26karen+ap+article1.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SqmfUNh4DxI/AAAAAAAAAEA/V4zc2ddvIX0/s320/sue%26karen+ap+article1.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5380006399448715026" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Intelligent, capable, energetic and determined -- some of the words used to describe the Eckert sisters and explain their successes, and reason enough to not stand in their way once they decide on a course of action. Beverly, Susan, Margaret and Karen individually and working together have done impressive things, and a recent &lt;a href="http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5jTdN_spO3-8CyOALa_RS20yJWY-wD9AGOL600"&gt;Associated Press article by Carolyn Thompson&lt;/a&gt; weaves together the story of Beverly's activism for 9/11 reform and the work done by Sue Bourque and Karen Eckert in the cause of airline safety. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Sue and Karen noted that the crash of Continental Connection Flight 3407 on Feb. 12 that took Beverly from them did not "silence Beverly's voice or spirit," according to Thompson.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"If anything, she would want us to have her voice ... I want her voice to resonate," Karen Eckert said.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It already has in the way it has opened doors of senators and representatives to 3407 families. Many knew Beverly, or knew of her.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Her voice resonates in the minds of her sisters, too: whenever they present their fact- and solution-driven case for better pilot training and hiring practices, fatigue management and closer government oversight of the airline industry.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"We have an agenda. The one thing we knew is we can't just go there and say `please help us because we lost our loved ones,'" Karen Eckert said.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"We knew we had to be organized," Bourque said, recalling Beverly's ability to boil down issues to talking points which she could take to lawmakers.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Recently, Sue sent a message to a number of Beverly's friends, providing more details the the work she and Karen and others have been doing to promote better airline safety:&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;Beverly’s own courage and determination showed us the way.  After the loss of Sean, she made a commitment to work for changes that would keep a horror such as the events of 9/11 from ever happening again.  Because of her efforts and those of other 9/11 Family members, our country is a safer place. &lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt; &lt;br /&gt;We mirror her commitment today in another critical area: to improve airline safety for all.  We are working  to bring about changes in the airline industry that will prevent fatigued, undertrained and underpaid pilots from entering the cockpit.   Accomplishing that is our commitment to our sister and her legacy.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-6792293669788617870?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/6792293669788617870/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=6792293669788617870' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6792293669788617870'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6792293669788617870'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/09/beverlys-effective-advocacy-lives-on-in.html' title='Beverly&apos;s effective advocacy lives on in the efforts of her sisters'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SqmfUNh4DxI/AAAAAAAAAEA/V4zc2ddvIX0/s72-c/sue%26karen+ap+article1.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-6205664010601324272</id><published>2009-08-05T07:56:00.010-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-05T08:55:49.333-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly's hope for justice gradually coming to fruition</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;The debate about the terrorism detainees at Guantanamo these days is not about whether they will be brought to justice, but when and where. Beverly &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Eckert&lt;/span&gt; would have relished this progress. As noted in an &lt;a href="http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/03/beverlys-final-trip-to-washington.html"&gt;earlier blog entry&lt;/a&gt;, her final trip to Washington, DC, was to urge President Obama to close the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;detention&lt;/span&gt; facility and to bring suspects such as Khalid &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Sheikh&lt;/span&gt; Mohammad to trial in the US. With a new president, there was optimism that new policies would bring justice at long last. Under the Bush administration, the handling of the detainees was marred by incompetence, incoherence, and illegality, delaying or destroying any chance for justice, and blackening the reputation of America, whose leaders in earlier times took pride in adhering to the rule of law.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Political opponents of President Obama have seized upon his swift detainee justice initiative by successfully whipping up grassroots hysteria opposing the plan. The detainee issue, as noted in the previous blog entry, has been made one of those which divides 9/11 family members rather than unite them. Just as among the general population, for the large part it pits 9/11 family members who &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;support&lt;/span&gt; of the president against those who oppose him. In many respects, then, this is a debate not about security or justice but about politics. There is no question that if President Bush had proposed the same plan, the debate would flip to the opposite political pole, with Republicans touting "swift justice" and Democrats engaging in "terrorists in our backyard" fear-mongering. However, to be fair, even now there are many Democrats who have been swept up by the visceral but unfounded fear that putting people who plotted attacks or gave material support into high-security prisons is more dangerous than, say keeping mass murderers there, which is already the case. Just the vague term "foreign terrorist" &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;expectedly&lt;/span&gt; inspires greater fear than even "mass murderer." To gauge how politically motivated the feverish opposition to &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;Obama's&lt;/span&gt; plan for bringing terrorists to justice, notice how those who most loudly denounce the plan raised not a whimper of dissent against the location of Timothy McVeigh's incarceration.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;According to yesterday's &lt;a href="http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5i4xYyvWDfL4tuqx_gqzGLQCH0i9gD99RP4FO2"&gt;Associated Press article by Devlin Barrett&lt;/a&gt;, the current range of possible venues for trial and incarceration include facilities in New York, Alexandria, VA, and federal facilities in the Midwest, including Fort Leavenworth, KN. Even if Beverly were still alive to join the debate and urge those wavering to try the suspects here and now, it is clear that some detainees will never be brought to justice because of the grave errors of the Bush administration. In her letter to President Obama, Beverly wrote this would be the biggest injustice.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-6205664010601324272?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/6205664010601324272/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=6205664010601324272' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6205664010601324272'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6205664010601324272'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/08/beverlys-hope-for-justice-gradually.html' title='Beverly&apos;s hope for justice gradually coming to fruition'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-3314571802288223658</id><published>2009-08-04T08:08:00.009-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-05T08:52:30.472-04:00</updated><title type='text'>9/11 family members united on some issues, divided on others</title><content type='html'>After Sept. 11, 2001, you would have been hard-pressed to find someone who had lost a family member that day, of any political persuasion, who did not want to find out how and why the attacks took place and why their loved ones died. In the same way, there was and is widespread support among this diverse community, bound by the pain and loss of that day, for remembering the victims. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;But once other questions began to arise, such as how to prevent terrorist attacks, and what to do with those accused of terrorism, the views of the 9/11 family members diverged -- widely. Beverly Eckert had fought for a number of causes after she lost her beloved husband, Sean. Perhaps she was best known for her role as a member of the Family Steering Committee, which was instrumental in establishing the &lt;a href="http://www.9-11commission.gov/"&gt;9/11 Commission&lt;/a&gt; and implementing some of the commission's most important recommendations. But Beverly was also strong supporter of other causes, including the creation of the &lt;a href="http://www.national911memorial.org/site/PageServer?pagename=New_Home"&gt;National 9/11 Memorial&lt;/a&gt;, skyscraper safety, and airline security. These causes had wide support among the 9/11 community. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly also supported closing the Guantanamo Bay detention facility, and putting the terrorism detainees held there on trial in the US. Other 9/11 family members disagreed, and an &lt;a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/08/03/AR2009080302792.html?hpid=topnews"&gt;article in today's &lt;/a&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/08/03/AR2009080302792.html?hpid=topnews"&gt;Washington Post&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/i&gt; highlights the diversity of these views. One of the family members put it well, in this nutshell:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;"There is a diverse set of opinions about closing Guantanamo, about having the military tribunals versus having federal trials in the United States, about the death penalty versus life if convicted," said Adele Welty, whose son, Timothy, was a New York firefighter killed on Sept. 11. "If you would take any group in the population who were not family members, you would have an equally diverse set of opinions."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Someone Beverly had met through the group September 11 Families for Peaceful Tomorrows, Valerie Lucznikowska, said President Obama's efforts to bring the terrorism suspects to justice in the US was a good idea. On the other hand, Kristen Breitweiser, another member of the Family Steering Committee, had become disillusioned with the president's approach, according to the article. She said Obama's failure to include family members in the deliberations on Guantanamo "translates to me like they really don't care."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The 9/11 family members achieved the peak of their political influence when their unity coincided with support from powerful allies in Washington, among the media, and from average Americans from Portland, Maine to Portland, Oregon. But as the issues at hand divide rather than unite; as the memory of 9/11 begins to fade from public consciousness; and as powerful constituencies and players are facing off against each other rather than standing should-to-shoulder, it is difficult to see how the 9/11 family members will ever be as effective as they once were.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-3314571802288223658?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/3314571802288223658/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=3314571802288223658' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3314571802288223658'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3314571802288223658'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/08/911-family-members-united-on-some.html' title='9/11 family members united on some issues, divided on others'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-5513525156447471097</id><published>2009-07-21T09:02:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-07-21T10:46:42.358-04:00</updated><title type='text'>The 'Real ID' debate turns surreal</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; "&gt;&lt;div style="border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding-top: 3px; padding-right: 3px; padding-bottom: 3px; padding-left: 3px; width: auto; font: normal normal normal 100%/normal Georgia, serif; text-align: left; "&gt;The op-ed page of the &lt;i&gt;Washington Post&lt;/i&gt; is nothing if not provocative. This morning's &lt;a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/07/20/AR2009072002356.html"&gt;tiny little piece&lt;/a&gt; signed by four of the staunchest Republican congressmen on the Hill provides a case in point. (The honorable members are: Lamar Smith, Jim Sensenbrenner, Peter King and Darrel Issa.) It shows that no amount of unadulterated spin and invarnished hypocrisy will keep a well-connected contributor from sharing his or her views in a venue supposedly draped in professionalism and journalistic integrity.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And if Beverly had read this prime example of political piffle, she would be scowling and stamping her feet in frustration and anger, itching to write a reasoned rebuttal.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;How did the signers of this piece, titled "A Dangerous Retreat on 'Real ID,'" try to lead us trusting readers astray? Let me count me count the ways. For those who follow the language of power (whether in politics, business, academia or entertainment), the recipe for this sort of "fudge" is familiar. For the rest, I offer a small lesson in political fudge-making, to use a relatively polite euphemism.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;1) First, protect your narrow, partisan, contentious issue under the umbrella of a noble cause. And so, the congressmen begin thusly:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;When the independent, bipartisan Sept. 11 commission issued its report in July 2004, an alarming fact was emphasized: Terrorists need valid identification to board an airplane.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;[Ahh, why not use the widely respected "independent, bipartisan" umbrella of the Sept. 11 commission to give cover to the highly partisan pro-Real ID cause? Never mind that Sensenbrenner nearly singlehandedly derailed a monumental piece of legislation implementing many of the commission's recommendations. (I believe Beverly's hypocrisy-meter, which was unfailing, would be spinning wildly over that one. She was sending almost daily emails to me expressing her dismay back in the fall and winter of 2004 when Sensenbrenner and Duncan Hunter were spearheading the Republican effort to sink 9/11 reform legislation.) Oh, and the honorable members may be "alarmed" to learn that &lt;i&gt;everyone &lt;/i&gt;needs valid ID to get on a plane, not just terrorists, and this fact was not "emphasized" by the report, just noted, along with many, many other facts. But back to the fudge-making recipe...]&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;2) Take a quote from a respected source (say, p. 184 of the 9/11 Commission Report), and use it totally out of context to apparently support your claims.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; "&gt;The commission asserted that "for terrorists, travel documents are as important as weapons."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;[Yes, but... this quote refers to &lt;b&gt;international&lt;/b&gt; travel documents, such as passports and visas, not drivers licenses, which are at the core of the Real ID program. Oops.]&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;3) Give your issue a pure pedigree, even when it doesn't have one. And say it had wide support, when it didn't.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;Congress subsequently passed the Real ID Act, which was quickly signed into law by President George W. Bush. ... Despite the fact that a unanimous Senate -- including then-Sen Barak Obama -- passed the Real ID Act, several senators recently introduced legislation known as the Pass ID Act, which promises to return the nation to pre-Sept. 11 dangers.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;[The op-ed makes it sound like Real ID flowed directly out of the 9/11 commission, when in fact the truth is much more complicated. In fact, the signers take us back to the old-style partisan politics which helped enable the many pre-9-11 mistakes in the US, and which sought to squash an independent commission to investigate the attacks, and later to implement any politically unappetizing reforms recommended by the commission. Like the USA Patriot Act, the Real ID Act was a partisan creation, because it implemented immigration reforms held dear well before 9-11 by a core of mainly Republican members of congress. Sensenbrenner, &lt;i&gt;et al,&lt;/i&gt; want to make it seem now that Real ID was a result of the 9/11 commission, which it wasn't. In fact, he originally opposed the commission, and then was willing to scuttle legislation implementing many important commission reforms when the bill failed to include his pet anti-illegal immigrant provisions. Readers can check their own hypcrisy-meters now. Oh, and about the "unanimous Senate" thing? Real ID was attached to a bill authorizing funding of the Iraq war, what politicians in power do when they want to force their opponents to swallow something they oppose, and when they want to pass legislation that would fail on its own. So much for "unanimous."]&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;No one is saying that the system of immigration in this country is not broken and needs fixing. Beverly herself supported reforms in this area. But the way to get things done is through a reasoned, &lt;b&gt;accurate&lt;/b&gt; presentation of the facts, and a truly bipartisan effort at consensus, not by presenting stale political fudge and pretending it's something sweet and tasty.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-5513525156447471097?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/5513525156447471097/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=5513525156447471097' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5513525156447471097'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5513525156447471097'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/07/real-id-debate-turns-surreal.html' title='The &apos;Real ID&apos; debate turns surreal'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-7563465815538344171</id><published>2009-05-29T16:52:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2011-03-21T18:05:51.900-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Play, Create, Love, Work: Beverly Eckert, before the towers fell</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SiCR5WtuYwI/AAAAAAAAADo/lPt4SswIdH8/s1600-h/bwoffice.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 214px; height: 320px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SiCR5WtuYwI/AAAAAAAAADo/lPt4SswIdH8/s320/bwoffice.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5341429572597342978" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beverly Ann Eckert was born this day 58 years ago, and it became apparent as she ran, hopped and skipped through her youth that she was an exceptional girl who loved to play. She grew up in Eggertsville, NY, a few miles from Buffalo. She attended St. Benedict's School from kindergarten to grade 8. Beverly had a brother, Raymond, and three sisters: Susan, Karen and Margaret (Margot). And they played, oh, how they played. But Beverly was not just one of the pack. She stood out, even then. Beverly could "could out-bike, out-dodgeball, and out-hide-and-seek the neighborhood gang," as Margot wrote in her poem, "Strong Women." The young Beverly was active, creative and gregarious -- jumping rope, building forts, dressing up like a cowgirl and getting swept up in the Mickey Mouse Club fad as a Mouseketeer.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beverly Ann Eckert attended Sacred Heart Academy, and teachers and friends saw she had an artist's eye, a writer's ear, and the passionate heart of a true romantic. She was fascinated by the idea of love. During her high school years, Beverly's creativity and social life blossomed. At SHA, an all-girl Catholic school, Bev wrote poetry, drew pictures, participated in drama, played basketball and took a turn at student politics. Her friends and teachers noticed she had a certain flair, a talent, a drive. What Beverly wanted to accomplish, she did. And like so many young people rushing toward adulthood, Bev wanted to fall in love. One of her best friends, Kathleen DeLaney, described how Bev eagerly counted down the days to her fifteenth birthday, and on May 31, 1966 joyously announced "I can date!"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then she went to the dance that changed her life. In the fall of 1967, Bev met Sean Rooney in a crowded Buffalo high school gym. Sean was a thin young man with thick, curly, dark hair and a bright smile that warmed those around him. Soon they began to date, but it was not a fairy-tale romance the whole time. There were rough patches, as on any road, more like the parental troubles of Romeo and Juliet than the glass slipper of Cinderella. When Bev's parents said she could not see Sean, she did not listen. And upon her 18th birthday, in 1969, Beverly left home, went to work and went through some hard times so she could follow her heart. "It was a real struggle to make ends meet," she had said. "Okay, so the right to date whomever you want isn't exactly in the Constitution," she added, "but ever since that time I haven't been afraid of adversity or the consequences... of standing up for what I believe in."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beverly started her studies as an art major in 1969 at SUNY College at Buffalo (now known as Buffalo State). She and Sean moved in together two years later, and as their love and commitment grew they bought a two-family house together in 1973. In 1976, after seven years of full-time work and part-time studies Bev got her Bachelor of Liberal Arts degree. In addition to her coursework, she had put in long hours at AM&amp;amp;A's Department Store, Mother's Bakery Restaurant, and the Sign of the Steer Restaurant and Bar, where Sean also worked. For a couple years after graduation Beverly worked as a potter, selling her wares as she could. Then began her career in the world of insurance with a job at Travelers Insurance, first in Buffalo in 1978, and then at branches in Massachusetts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On June 14, 1980, in a simple ceremony in the back yard of her sister's home in East Aurora, NY, Beverly Ann Eckert  married Sean P. Rooney. The high school sweethearts had become college loves and then wife and husband. They were so close in life and in the minds of their relatives and friends that they became SeanandBev, one word, one love, one life. Oh, such a love. They never had children because all they wanted in the world was each other. They were partners. He cooked, she cleaned, they both worked on the houses they lived in. And at the end of a hard day, Sean would walk through the door and say to Bev, "Where's my hug." And Bev would remember: "Sean was a good hugger." Food was always important, and in the kitchen Sean was in charge while Bev offered a hand and a glass of wine, whichever was needed. After a good meal, they would sit together and talk quietly and be thankful for the life they had made for themselves.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In her working life Beverly was strong and determined, pushing firmly against a culture of ingrained sexism. She said that women were not permitted in the corporate dining room of Travellers when she first arrived at the company. "What I experienced throughout my insurance career was life as a minority, an outsider, often the only female at a meeting or in the room." Despite this, Beverly rose through the ranks, becoming a vice president and manager at General Reinsurance. "I can say I had a successful career," she said, "but it was seldom comfortable. I had to respect myself in an environment that seemed to want me to feel otherwise, just like when I was poor."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For their 50th birthdays in the year 2001, they did something special. Beverly and Sean gave each other the gift of travel. She chose Morocco for her birthday, and he chose Vermont for his. But no matter where they were, it was in each others' company that they were the most fully contented. Beverly said once to me how happy they had become with their lives that last summer they spent together in their Stamford, CT home. Beverly said she was sitting with Sean at the back door one evening, drinking wine and watching the fireflies come out. And Sean said that if he'd died right then, it wouldn't be so bad, because he'd lived such a good and full life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Happy birthday, Beverly.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-7563465815538344171?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/7563465815538344171/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=7563465815538344171' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7563465815538344171'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7563465815538344171'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/05/play-create-love-work-beverly-eckert.html' title='Play, Create, Love, Work: Beverly Eckert, before the towers fell'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SiCR5WtuYwI/AAAAAAAAADo/lPt4SswIdH8/s72-c/bwoffice.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-2870852445309493714</id><published>2009-05-27T10:28:00.010-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-27T14:44:32.994-04:00</updated><title type='text'>From high school hallway-sailing "early bird" to distinguished alumna: Beverly Eckert, SHA '69</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/Sh2JSF3BygI/AAAAAAAAADI/IkNo4XQX2wY/s1600-h/SHA_Awards_Dinner_051409.bmp.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 226px; height: 151px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/Sh2JSF3BygI/AAAAAAAAADI/IkNo4XQX2wY/s320/SHA_Awards_Dinner_051409.bmp.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5340575677034908162" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This was supposed to be a very special year in Beverly Eckert's long relationship with her high school alma mater, Buffalo's Sacred Heart Academy. She had been busy helping to organize her Class of 1969's fortieth reunion, planned for June. And on top of that, in the winter of 2008, she learned that she was selected to receive Sacred Heart's highest alumna honor at a fundraising dinner in May. The announcement appeared in &lt;a href="http://www.sacredheartacademy.org/documents/CordechoWinter_08_09.pdf"&gt;the winter issue &lt;/a&gt;of the school's alumni magazine, the Cordecho.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;But in her typically low-key and selfless manner, Beverly did not crow about the award. Instead, she talked with friends at Christmastime about paying for several tables at the dinner so she could have friends and family surrounding her, and at the same time offer support to SHA financially. Her friend, Kathleen DeLaney, said Beverly "just thought going to the fundraiser would be the thing to do," and that she "really wanted to have all of us there for a great time." It was only later, while they were discussing reunion plans one evening, that Beverly mentioned the award to Kathleen in passing.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;But the fiery crash of Flight 3407 on a cold February night changed everything.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly did indeed come back to Sacred Heart in 2009, but not to receive an award or to gladly greet reunion attendees. Instead, she was carried back to a reception at her old school after a memorial service in the hearts of her friends and family and classmates after the memorial service. She came back to those long hallways in yearbook photos and in the deeply felt words of her poems. She hovered over an alma mater washed in grief at her loss and basking in gratitude for her kind, ebullient and generous life.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Kathleen DeLaney brought Beverly back, too, in a wonderful reminiscence in the &lt;a href="http://www.sacredheartacademy.org/documents/CordechoSpring09.pdf"&gt;spring 2009 Cordecho&lt;/a&gt;, published on the occasion of Beverly's award. In the article we are treated to the vivid vision of a teenage Beverly, always one of the "early-birds" at school, "sailing through the side door of SHA," her arms flailing and then skidding to a stop near the top of the stairs as she yells to Kathleen: "DeLaney. Hey, Delaney! I'm fifteen today. I can date!" And there is bighearted Beverly, being "an equaly opportunity friend" in a girls' school where exclusive cliques were often the rule. Or Beverly's early plunge into politics, pushing classmate Gay Gambin to run for class president, and then running her campaign, complete with "strategically located tape recorders around the school playing, &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Vote for Gay, Vote for Gay&lt;/span&gt; on a constant, subliminal loop."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And so of course Beverly was there, at the Transit Valley Country Club on May 14, at the "Spirit of Sacred Heart Academy" Awards Dinner. Her friends and relatives had gathered once again, to share memories and honor her many achievments. Kathleen remembered Beverly as she examined her "giant glass of Pinot Noir" for "tell-tale dishwashing spots...something Beverly always did... (always the waitress!)" &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;When Beverly's sisters, Karen Eckert and Susan Bourque, went to the lectern to receive the award on Beverly's behalf, there was a standing ovation. Beverly's brother Ray was there as well, and their cousin Clem Eckert also received an award. &lt;a href="http://www.wkbw.com/news/local/45061037.html"&gt;Speaking to a reporter&lt;/a&gt;, Karen recalled how Beverly wanted to make sure that her departed classmate were remembered during the planned reunion of the Class of '69 with a white rose. At the June event, there will be a white rose for Beverly, too. Susan said "We're carrying on her legacy. It was all about making a difference. We hope we can fill her shoes. We hope everyone takes from her those lessons that an ordinary person can really make a difference."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;A short video clip from WIVB &lt;a href="http://www.wivb.com/dpp/news/flight_3407_victim_honored_by_alma_mater_090514"&gt;appears here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-2870852445309493714?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/2870852445309493714/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=2870852445309493714' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/2870852445309493714'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/2870852445309493714'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/05/from-high-school-hallway-sailing-early.html' title='From high school hallway-sailing &quot;early bird&quot; to distinguished alumna: Beverly Eckert, SHA &apos;69'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/Sh2JSF3BygI/AAAAAAAAADI/IkNo4XQX2wY/s72-c/SHA_Awards_Dinner_051409.bmp.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-4762712518992345078</id><published>2009-05-27T09:47:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-27T10:09:55.556-04:00</updated><title type='text'>A musical remembrance for Beverly on her birthday</title><content type='html'>This is the first May 29th when Beverly's many relatives and friends cannot wish her a happy birthday in person. Birthdays were special for Beverly. They offered her a chance be with loved ones, to raise a glass, to eat something sweet, and unleash her creative energies. She loved to plan, to surprise, to make gatherings unique and memorable. She reveled in being in the center of preparations, the source of inspiring party themes, songs, poems.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Before 9/11, these parties were purely joyous. After she lost Sean, Beverly held celebrations of his and her birthdays that were overcast with the pall of loss but brightened with the memories of better days. But as the years passed, she was beginning to smile more.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And now her friends and family carry on her tradition of celebrating life and love and the company of those dear to us.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly's dear friend, Nada Radulovich, who played her cello so movingly at the memorial service in Stamford, will perform at a recital May 29 in Beverly's honor. She will be joined by pianist Cullan Bryant in a program featuring works by De Falla, Beethoven, Liszt and Chopin. It will be held at 2 p.m. at the Yonkers Public Library, Grinton I. Will Branch, 1500 Central Park Ave., Yonkers 10710. Admission is free.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-4762712518992345078?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/4762712518992345078/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=4762712518992345078' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/4762712518992345078'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/4762712518992345078'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/05/musical-remembrance-for-beverly-on-her.html' title='A musical remembrance for Beverly on her birthday'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-8472572688956934666</id><published>2009-05-12T10:59:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-12T11:09:29.242-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Flight 3407: A new tragedy breeds a new set of loved ones seeking answers and solutions</title><content type='html'>Two of Beverly Eckert's sisters are among the loved ones of victims of the Flight 3407 crash who are in Washington, DC, to attend hearings and to lobby legislators. According to &lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/home/story/668604.html"&gt;an article in the Buffalo News&lt;/a&gt;, Karen Eckert and Susan Bourque are attending hearings of the National Transportation and Safety Board during which witnesses will be presenting testimony aimed at discovering the cause of the crash. And Beverly's sisters will walk some of the same hard marble hallways on Captitol Hill that she so often trod during her 9/11 reform efforts. In both cases, the loved ones are trying to make sure a tragedy is not repeated. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-8472572688956934666?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/8472572688956934666/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=8472572688956934666' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/8472572688956934666'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/8472572688956934666'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/05/flight-3407a-new-tragedy-breeds-new-set.html' title='Flight 3407: A new tragedy breeds a new set of loved ones seeking answers and solutions'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-2041380046578520234</id><published>2009-04-29T09:33:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-27T09:45:32.222-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Three Friends Recalled the Best of Beverly on Larry King's Show</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;I have just come across a transcript of the show Larry King did on Feb. 13, 2009, the day after the Buffalo plane crash, in which he spoke to friends of some of the victims. Here is the portion with warm reminiscences by three of Beverly's oldest friends: Kathleen Delaney, Carol Bauda and Kathy Matthews.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;[Kathleen Delaney has kindly pointed out some errors in the original transcript. They are noted in brackets below. Also, Carol Bauda's last name was misspelled in the original transcript, but is now corrected here.]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="  "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KING: An extraordinary lady died on that flight. She was Beverly Eckert. Three of her friends join us now from Buffalo -- Kathleen Delaney, a very close friend of the victim. Carol Bauda, who was one of her oldest friends. They met in kindergarten. And Kathy Matthews, as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beverly was -- how extraordinary, she became an active -- advocate for the victims after 9/11.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Watch.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(BEGIN VIDEO CLIP)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;BEVERLY ECKERT, 9/11 WIDOW: It's hard to turn around and see the whole in the skyline where my husband's building used to be. If this bill doesn't pass, I don't think I'll ever -- I don't think I'll ever be able to go back there. I think I'll be too ashamed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(END VIDEO CLIP)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KING: All right, Kathleen DeLaney, tell us about Beverly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What was she like?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KATHLEEN DELANEY, KNEW CRASH VICTIM BEVERLY ECKERT: Well, I had the fortune of sitting in front of Beverly pretty much my entire high school career because we were alphabetically arranged. And she was -- she was just always a lot of fun to be around. She instigated a lot of pranks. But she was just -- she was just a wonderful person who knew her mind and -- which I think is one of the things that this high school that we attended, Buffalo Academy of the Sacred Heart, really, really promoted.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We -- this was an all girls' school. And at the time when we were in school, it was just a good, solid place for young women who may not have had the opportunity had they been in another type of a school to develop their leadership roles.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KING: Carol, you go...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(CROSSTALK)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KING: Carol, you go back to kindergarten right?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;CAROL BAUDA, KNEW CRASH VICTIM BEVERLY ECKERT: Yes, we went to grammar school together, kindergarten, high school. And we were thick as thieves right along. And we got into mischief together. And Bev was just so much fun. She had so much energy and she was very creative. People don't know that she was an excellent artist, painter and potter and just so creative. We had a lot of fun together. Very close.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KING: Kathy Mathews, how well did you know her?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KATHLEEN MATHEWS, KNEW CRASH VICTIM BEVERLY ECKERT: I knew her through the four years at Buffalo Academy of the Sacred Heart and some years beyond into adulthood. I saw her, you know, fairly recently, as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I knew her as one of the bright lights in our class. She was the person who drew a lot of friends to her. And she was -- in a girls' school, sometimes it could be cliquey and different. But Bev was one of the people who was sort of an equal opportunity friend. A lot of people truly got to know her well and we think of her fondly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KING: She just met with President Obama a week ago. He paid tribute to her today.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Watch.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(BEGIN VIDEO CLIP) BARACK OBAMA, PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES: You know, tragic events such as these remind us of the fragility of life and the value of every single day. One person who understood that well was Beverly Eckert, who was on that flight and who I met with just a few days ago.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, you see, Beverly lost her husband on 9/11 and became a tireless advocate for those families whose lives were forever changed on that September day. And in keeping with that passionate commitment, she was on her way to Buffalo to mark what would have been her husband's birthday and launch a scholarship in his memory.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So she was an inspiration to me and to so many others. And I pray that her family finds peace and comfort in the hard days ahead.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(END VIDEO CLIP)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KING: Kathleen, are you surprised that she became the advocate she became?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="  "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;[DELANEY instead of MATHEWS]: Oh, no. As a matter of fact, when I was going through some things today, I found a clipping from 1967. She won a Voice of Democracy Contest here. And I think I -- I must not have won because that's why I kept it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But I talked to Bev Wednesday night. She was coming into town for Sean's scholarship. And she was due to have had dinner at our house tonight. And I asked her about meeting Obama. And she said to -- she immediately told me, I'll tell you all about it Friday night. But she let me know that she was scanning a napkin that she had pinched from underneath his water bottle. And this morning -- this morning I had that e-mail that she had sent off to me. And there it was -- the presidential seal on a napkin.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So she...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KING: Carol, did she...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;MATHEWS: That was the type of -- she loved saving things.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KING: Carol, did she have children?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;BAUDA: No. She did not have children, but she had nephews and a niece. And so they were very close to her. She was the fun aunt that they all loved to be with.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KING: And her life had changed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She had a boyfriend now, didn't she?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;BAUDA: Yes, uh-huh.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KING: Were they planning...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;BAUDA: He is a wonderful guy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KING: Were they planning to get married? BAUDA: Oh, not at this point, I don't think. But, you know, he's just -- he was very, you know, a very loving person to her and very understanding of the things she had to go through for what she had to do politically.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;MATHEWS: She was trying to move on with her life as best she could while always, always revering Sean's legacy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KING: Any funeral plans that you know of, ladies?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;BAUDA: Not at this point.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;MATHEWS: No.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KING: Well, this is the hardest thing in the world, not just to lose a relative, but to lose a friend.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Quickly, we have -- what will you remember the most, Kathleen?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[DELANEY, not MATHEWS]: Oh, just -- just Bev. I mean, she's -- she was just all present. And one of the things that really struck me, especially after Sean died, was just how close she brought all of us together. She was always concerned for us. And when we were trying to make calls today, she was the one who had the phone numbers, so we were lost.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KING: Carol, what will you remember?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;BAUDA: Her boundless energy. It's just amazing. Every time I spoke with her, she was flying off one place or another, on some committee, this committee, all over. And whether it was the scholarship fund or memorials, even in her own hometown or here, it was just amazing, her energy level.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KING: And, Kathy, what will you remember the most?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[MATHEWS, not DELANEY: I'll remember her quick intellect and her creativeness and mostly I'm going to remember how steadfastly she pursued justice for the victims and the families from 9/11.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;KING: Yes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She was an amazing woman.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you all, ladies.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We appreciate this.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-2041380046578520234?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/2041380046578520234/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=2041380046578520234' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/2041380046578520234'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/2041380046578520234'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/04/three-friends-recalled-best-of-beverly.html' title='Three Friends Recalled the Best of Beverly on Larry King&apos;s Show'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-3341970166624780071</id><published>2009-04-27T09:39:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-27T10:01:07.873-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Family and Friends Plant a Tree for Beverly</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SfW5kVFtlGI/AAAAAAAAADA/Z5TdR7eE548/s1600-h/suetree.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 301px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SfW5kVFtlGI/AAAAAAAAADA/Z5TdR7eE548/s320/suetree.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5329369767850382434" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SfW5dhsjdeI/AAAAAAAAAC4/mb0E349SWaw/s1600-h/nadatree.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 294px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SfW5dhsjdeI/AAAAAAAAAC4/mb0E349SWaw/s320/nadatree.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5329369650975438306" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On a warm and sunny spring day in Stamford, some 50 family, friends and well-wishers of Beverly &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Eckert&lt;/span&gt; gathered to remember, to dedicate, to say words of praise. Some earth was turned, the roots of a Princeton elm were nestled in a new home, and those gathered took some quiet time to recall a life whose wide-reaching, generous branches touched so many.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.stamfordadvocate.com/ci_12221334?source=most_emailed"&gt;Sarah &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;Lipman&lt;/span&gt; of the Stamford Advocate reported&lt;/a&gt; on some of the comments. The principal of the school where Beverly had volunteered as a tutor, Stark Elementary, Mary Savage, said the school was "proud and honored" to have had Beverly involved in the life of the school's community. Susan &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Bourque&lt;/span&gt;, one of Beverly's sisters, said, "Beverly would have loved this tree. It is a symbol of beauty, strength, character and renewal -- like our sister, Beverly." John &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;DaRosa&lt;/span&gt; of the Jackie Robinson Park of Fame group likened Beverly's community contributions to those of the park's namesake, saying &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;everyone&lt;/span&gt; should follow J&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;ackie's &lt;/span&gt;and Beverly's example of helping their fellow man.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;[Beverly's friend, Nada &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;Radulovich&lt;/span&gt;, holds a shovel in the photo above; Susan &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;Bourque&lt;/span&gt; appears above right. Photos: Chris &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;Preovolos&lt;/span&gt;]&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-3341970166624780071?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/3341970166624780071/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=3341970166624780071' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3341970166624780071'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3341970166624780071'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/04/family-and-friends-plant-tree-for.html' title='Family and Friends Plant a Tree for Beverly'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SfW5kVFtlGI/AAAAAAAAADA/Z5TdR7eE548/s72-c/suetree.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-3474899864783013411</id><published>2009-04-20T10:59:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-21T10:14:05.689-04:00</updated><title type='text'>A tree grows in Stamford: Remembering Beverly on Arbor Day</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.stamfordadvocate.com/ci_12174808"&gt;The Advocate&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.stamfordadvocate.com/ci_12174808"&gt; of Stamford reports&lt;/a&gt; that an elm tree will be planted this Arbor Day, April 24, in Jackie Robinson Park to honor the memory of Beverly &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Eckert&lt;/span&gt;. John &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;DaRosa&lt;/span&gt; is a member of the group which cares for the park. His group first worked with Beverly when a flag and flagpole honoring 9/11 victims and families was donated to the park by Woodmen of the World, a fraternal organization. He said his group had been thinking of ways to honor Beverly's memory, and decided to use the planting of the tree to accomplish this. The tree is being donated by the Stamford Tree Foundation.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;At the 11 a.m. ceremony on Friday, a tree will be planted for a woman who loved to enjoy the outdoors, who planted a number of trees in the memory of her husband, Sean, and who worked tirelessly to make make the world a safer place.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;This is one of the ways we remember. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-3474899864783013411?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/3474899864783013411/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=3474899864783013411' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3474899864783013411'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3474899864783013411'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/04/tree-grows-in-stamford-remembering.html' title='A tree grows in Stamford: Remembering Beverly on Arbor Day'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-8747406019305650859</id><published>2009-04-10T09:55:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-10T10:46:40.554-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly's letter to Obama: A simple and direct call for justice</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; "&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;There are several bizarre and unfounded notions about Beverly Eckert's views and actions floating around in cyberspace. I have read, for example, that at her Feb. 6 meeting with President Obama, she was supposed to have asked him to establish another 9/11 commission to finish the job left undone by the original one. Like other examples of such internet hogwash, this one can be easily discredited by perusing the facts. Beverly never called for another investigation once the 9/11 commission released its final report. Instead, she and her colleagues worked tirelessly to have the report's recommendations implemented. Two of the main 9/11-related issues which &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;did&lt;/span&gt; occupy her time were supporting the work of the WMD Commission and pressing for the closure of the Guantanamo dention facilities, ending the military commission tribunals, and bringing the terror suspects to trial.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;After her meeting with Obama, Beverly gave me a detailed account of the meeting, its genesis, and a copy of the letter she handed to one of the president's aides at the meeting. Here it is, simple and direct:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;February 6, 2009&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;President Barack Obama&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;The White House&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;1600 Pennsylvania Avenue NW&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;Washington, DC 20500&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;RE: Justice Not Vengeance&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;Dear Mr. President,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" align="JUSTIFY" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;On 9/11, my husband was killed by terrorists. The self-confessed mastermind of the plot, Khalid Sheikh Mohammed, has been in US custody for several years. Along with other 9/11 families, I want to see him, and his alleged co-conspirators, face their accusers in a court of law. I fervently hope there is independent, irrefutable, corroborating evidence that can be used by the prosecution to achieve legitimate convictions. But I have a sickening fear that the over-zealous actions of US officials, through use of torture and other illegal tactics, have tainted the evidence by which those responsible for 9/11 would otherwise be convicted. If that proves to be the case, it would be the ultimate, unspeakable injustice.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" align="JUSTIFY" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;When confronted with defendants accused of crimes against humanity on the scale of September 11&lt;sup&gt;th&lt;/sup&gt;, the depth of our nation’s commitment to the principle of justice is severely tested. I believe, Mr. President, that under your moral guidance and with your profound respect for the rule of law, America can pass this test.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" align="JUSTIFY" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" align="JUSTIFY" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;There is a saying that justice delayed is justice denied. I believe that you have the courage to take the difficult but necessary steps that will allow the rule of law to finally take its course. To this end, I ask that you release the Guantanamo detainees against whom there are no prosecutable charges and bring the rest to trial on American soil. I beg you to proceed with urgency and determination where others have faltered. Let justice, not vengeance, at long last be served.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;Respectfully yours,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;Beverly Eckert&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="western" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; "&gt;Widow of Sean Rooney, WTC&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-8747406019305650859?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/8747406019305650859/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=8747406019305650859' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/8747406019305650859'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/8747406019305650859'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/04/beverlys-letter-to-obama-simple-and.html' title='Beverly&apos;s letter to Obama: A simple and direct call for justice'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-2456695543668709300</id><published>2009-03-26T08:43:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-26T10:16:50.669-04:00</updated><title type='text'>NTSB investigation of Fight 3407 crash focuses on flight crew training, performance; public hearings slated for May in DC</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/ScuNz3LjmDI/AAAAAAAAACw/Gn-q01cqzmA/s1600-h/crashnight.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 197px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/ScuNz3LjmDI/AAAAAAAAACw/Gn-q01cqzmA/s320/crashnight.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5317499707166267442" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The &lt;a href="http://www.ntsb.gov/pressrel/2009/090325.html"&gt;National Transportation and Safety Board reported yesterday&lt;/a&gt; that its continuing investigation of the crash of &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Colgan&lt;/span&gt; Air Flight 3407 outside Buffalo found that while there was "some" icing , it did not affect the plane's performance, and that flight data recorder analysis seemed to indicate that the pilot's actions after a stall warning set the plane on its fatal course.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The board also announced that it had voted to hold a public hearing May 12-14 at the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;NTSB&lt;/span&gt; Conference Center, 429 L'Enfant Plaza, SW, Washington, DC. “The tragedy of flight 3407 is the deadliest transportation accident in the United States in more than 7 years,” said Acting Chairman Mark V. &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Rosenker&lt;/span&gt;.  “The circumstances of the crash have raised several issues that go well beyond the widely discussed matter of airframe icing, and we will explore these issues in our investigative fact-finding hearing.” The other issues, according to the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;NTSB&lt;/span&gt; statement, include "cold weather operations, &lt;a href="http://asrs.arc.nasa.gov/publications/directline/dl4_sterile.htm"&gt;sterile cockpit rules&lt;/a&gt;, crew experience, fatigue management, and stall recovery training."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;According to the preliminary &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;NTSB&lt;/span&gt; analysis, the aircraft's &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;de&lt;/span&gt;-icing system was probably active, and a stall warning and protection system activated when the plane's speed and angle of attack indicated a stall may be imminent. (A stall is when a plane loses lift because its nose is too high and speed too low. The way to prevent a stall is to drop the nose and increase speed.) After the stall warning, the flight data shows that the pilot pulled back on the controls, raising the plane's nose -- the opposite of the proper reaction. The plane then stalled, rolled and crashed in Clarence Center, NY, killing all on board and one on the ground.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;An &lt;a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090325/ap_on_go_ot/plane_into_home"&gt;Associate Press article&lt;/a&gt; called the hearing "unusual," because only two such hearings have been held in the past 12 years: "a 2002 hearing into the crash of American Airlines Flight 587 in a New York City residential neighborhood just two months after the Sept. 11, 2001, terrorist attacks, and a 1997 hearing on TWA Flight 800, which broke apart off the coast of Long Island, N.Y., after a fuel tank explosion, killing all 230 people aboard."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-2456695543668709300?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/2456695543668709300/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=2456695543668709300' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/2456695543668709300'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/2456695543668709300'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/03/ntsb-investigation-of-fight-3407-crash.html' title='NTSB investigation of Fight 3407 crash focuses on flight crew training, performance; public hearings slated for May in DC'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/ScuNz3LjmDI/AAAAAAAAACw/Gn-q01cqzmA/s72-c/crashnight.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-49118742767905158</id><published>2009-03-25T11:15:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-25T11:44:57.335-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly was part of a large 9/11 community, united in grief and committed to action</title><content type='html'>Out of the horror and loss of the 9/11 attacks, there arose a varied and vibrant community. Its core consists mainly of survivors, family members and friends of victims, first-responders and others touched by the events of that September day. This community -- the 9/11 community -- created a number of groups and organizations to deal with the issues they confronted, from skyscraper safety, to airline security, to the creation of memorials, counseling, financial assistance, and government reform. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly became a leader in the 9/11 community, taking the initiative on a number of fronts. She also was generous with her time in supporting the work of  9/11 groups with which she was not directly involved. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I have just come across &lt;a href="http://www.911families.org/"&gt;a tribute to Beverly&lt;/a&gt; which appears on the home page of the September 11th Families Association. In it, Lee Ielpi describes why Beverly was such a valued and effective voice in the 9/11 community: "Beverly had a beautiful way of steering the families in the right direction.  A calming force to keep a constructive dialogue in the face of tremendous emotion." &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;In the academic world, one expression that is used to denote such phenomena as the various 9/11 groups is "civil society." It's what happens when private individuals (as opposed to businesses or governments) join together in common cause around some issue or group of interests. &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;No Truer Hearts&lt;/span&gt; will tell the story of how powerful and persuasive a grassroots movement can be.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-49118742767905158?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/49118742767905158/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=49118742767905158' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/49118742767905158'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/49118742767905158'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/03/beverly-was-part-of-large-911-community.html' title='Beverly was part of a large 9/11 community, united in grief and committed to action'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-6701258435239428906</id><published>2009-03-17T09:52:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-17T10:14:33.727-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly's nautical adventure: a restful and regenerative interlude</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/Sb-wCSEFg8I/AAAAAAAAACo/wwz5BtytImA/s1600-h/neverland.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 309px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/Sb-wCSEFg8I/AAAAAAAAACo/wwz5BtytImA/s320/neverland.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5314159638575678402" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the all-too-short time she was with us, Beverly Eckert seemed to live many lives. One of them was as first-mate, galley helper, and Scrabble master on the wistfully named catamaran "Neverland."&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Once the the bulk of the 9/11 reform legislation was passed, she made a concerted effort to get out of her "comfort zone" by setting sail for long voyages with her newfound captain/friend, Shawn Monks. The harrowing and exhausting roller-coaster of Beverly's lobbying work had taken a physical and emotional toll, and she took to the sea to rest, refresh and just forget the stress and toil she had taken on after the death of her husband.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Part of life on the water seems to be the frequent and easy making of new friends. I recently happened upon the web site of sailor and motivational speaker Neal Peterson, who, along with his wife, Darlene, had met Shawn and Beverly as they sailed down the Intercoastal Waterway. &lt;a href="http://no-barriers.com/node/226"&gt;Neal's tribute to Beverly&lt;/a&gt; is a touching reminder that there was so much more to her life than trips to Washington and interviews with Tom Brokaw. Of course, I will describe this restful, but also exciting period of Beverly's life in the book, because it was when she began to return to being the Beverly Eckert whose eyes were more often bright with joy, whose smile shone more regularly as warm as the Caribbean sun.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-6701258435239428906?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/6701258435239428906/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=6701258435239428906' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6701258435239428906'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/6701258435239428906'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/03/beverlys-nautical-adventure-restful-and.html' title='Beverly&apos;s nautical adventure: a restful and regenerative interlude'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/Sb-wCSEFg8I/AAAAAAAAACo/wwz5BtytImA/s72-c/neverland.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-237582155962131039</id><published>2009-03-16T02:57:00.007-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-16T12:58:44.744-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly's final trip to Washington: a persistent patriot asking for "justice, not vengeance"</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/Sb6FOrovFFI/AAAAAAAAACg/4ftvpkgJ93Q/s1600-h/Eckert+Dillard+Ashley+ValerieL.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 219px; height: 164px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/Sb6FOrovFFI/AAAAAAAAACg/4ftvpkgJ93Q/s320/Eckert+Dillard+Ashley+ValerieL.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5313831097622008914" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When Beverly Eckert decided to do something, it got done. In &lt;a href="http://hnn.us/articles/67725.html"&gt;my article for the History News Network&lt;/a&gt; about her visit with President Obama, this was one aspect of her character that I wanted to highlight: her persistence and focus. She was among a small group of 9/11 family members who closely followed how al-Qaeda suspects were being brought to justice (or not). And Beverly made sure that her voice was heard regarding, for example, the detainee facility at Guantanamo Bay, even at times when the Bush administration preferred to push aside critics of its policies.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Another quality Beverly had in abundance was patriotism. Not the blind, flag-waving sort, but the deep, committed and knowledgeable kind. For her, love of country meant not merely putting a bumper sticker on your car, but knowing the Constitution and demanding that it be upheld. It also meant being an active citizen. If nothing else, Beverly Eckert was the most active of citizens.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;As she was waiting for her flight from Washington, Beverly basked in the afterglow of a successful meeting to which not only her 9/11 sisters-in-arms from past political battles were invited, but also family members who opposed President Obama's policies and plans. “Having a president who is willing to meet ordinary citizens like us,” said Eckert, “and make himself available for questioning even from those who were in opposition to his agenda made me very proud to be an American.”&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Freedom. To speak, to debate, to disagree. That was the flag that Beverly was happy to wave, the flag of freedom.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-237582155962131039?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/237582155962131039/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=237582155962131039' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/237582155962131039'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/237582155962131039'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/03/beverlys-final-trip-to-washington.html' title='Beverly&apos;s final trip to Washington: a persistent patriot asking for &quot;justice, not vengeance&quot;'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/Sb6FOrovFFI/AAAAAAAAACg/4ftvpkgJ93Q/s72-c/Eckert+Dillard+Ashley+ValerieL.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-2948067162587657848</id><published>2009-03-14T11:25:00.009-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-16T13:16:45.564-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly Eckert's view of 9/11 truth was based on a rational, critical, common-sense worldview</title><content type='html'>Followers of the so-called "9/11 truth movement" like to invent conspiracies and portray activists like Beverly as their allies. While some 9/11 survivors and family members do actually cross the line from the real world to the make-believe land of this fringe movement, Beverly Eckert never did. She had a clear-eyed, rational view of the world in which real terrorists hijacked real airplanes, crashed them, and caused unimaginable mayhem and destruction. Along the way there was also a long, sad trail of official incompetence, ignorance and duplicity. But Beverly avoided association with people who smelled of conspiracy theories, whether they were touting a book, film, or website. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Although she and other members of the Family Steering Committee were critical of the 9-11 Commission many times as it carried out its work, once the report was issued Beverly embraced it as the best outcome that could be expected, considering the compromises needed along the way. She was skeptical of dodgy official excuses, yes; but was accepting of rational explanations based on hard evidence and common sense. &lt;a href="http://counterknowledge.com/2009/02/beverly-eckert-the-tragic-death-of-a-genuine-truth-seeker/"&gt;This article about Beverly&lt;/a&gt; at counterknowledge.com gets it right, and appears in a blog devoted to debunking the "truthers" and other purveyors of pop-culture piffle. &lt;a href="http://screwloosechange.blogspot.com/search?q=eckert"&gt;And here is another&lt;/a&gt;, on the screwloosechange blog, along the same lines. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;In many public statements, and in interviews with me, Beverly expressed frustration with officials who stonewalled or lied. But she was equally adamant about constructing a 9/11 truth based on evidence, not conjecture or fantasy. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And after her death, the wild-eyed conspirators continued to have a field day, attributing the plane crash to sinister government designs, for example. Another thread of "truth movement" fiction involves Beverly's meeting with President Obama just days before her death. According to this groundless speculation, she had a secret request to make of the president: establish a new 9/11 commission to uncover the "truths" left buried by the original one. Beverly gave me a detailed account of her participation in the meeting, and her sole pleas to the president were to close the Guantanamo detainee facilities and to bring the 9/11 attack suspects to trial in the US. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;On Monday, an article I wrote about the meeting will appear on the &lt;a href="http://hnn.us/"&gt;History News Network&lt;/a&gt; site. And in due course I'll publish in this blog a copy of Beverly's letter to the president. Documents such as these are the real basis of truth.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-2948067162587657848?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/2948067162587657848/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=2948067162587657848' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/2948067162587657848'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/2948067162587657848'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/03/beverly-eckerts-view-of-911-truth-was.html' title='Beverly Eckert&apos;s view of 9/11 truth was based on a rational, critical, common-sense worldview'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-4638944783185808953</id><published>2009-03-13T10:59:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-13T11:10:43.686-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Artists of western New York raising funds for Flight 3407 memorial in Clarence with new CD</title><content type='html'>A group of musical artists from western New York has created a song, "Love Knows No Boundaries," to commemorate the victims of Flight 3407, honor their loved ones, and thank the first responders. Proceeds from the CD will go toward a memorial in the town of Clarence. The song will debut at a performance on March 19 at the Eastern Hills Wesleyan Church in Williamsville, NY. For more information, and a link to a brief preview of the song, visit &lt;a href="http://loveknowsnoboundaries.org/"&gt;loveknowsnoboundaries.org.&lt;/a&gt; &lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-4638944783185808953?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/4638944783185808953/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=4638944783185808953' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/4638944783185808953'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/4638944783185808953'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/03/artists-of-western-new-york-raising.html' title='Artists of western New York raising funds for Flight 3407 memorial in Clarence with new CD'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-5318688974944007125</id><published>2009-03-11T11:17:00.013-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-11T12:13:57.330-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly memories online: Songs for Sean on the Sonic Memorial Project</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SbfhkcLjMdI/AAAAAAAAACQ/zx0H_5ps-HI/s1600-h/41087RZ15AL._SL500_AA240_.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SbfhkcLjMdI/AAAAAAAAACQ/zx0H_5ps-HI/s320/41087RZ15AL._SL500_AA240_.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5311962301662966226" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For all its many faults, the Internet can be a great tool for teaching, remembering and reaching out. Beverly's desire to leave behind her memories and a record of her post-9/11 activities has resulted in small caches of treasure online.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;One of these is an audio clip of Beverly talking about songs that Sean loved or were "part of the story of his life." To surprise him on his 50th birthday, Beverly gave a list of songs to her sister to burn onto a CD. In the online audio clip, Beverly talks us through parts of the CD, doing a passable rendition of the opening track, &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mrLsAPyglrU"&gt;"Come Softly to Me" by the Fleetwoods&lt;/a&gt;. You can hear the lightness and the love in her voice when she describes her husband's reaction on hearing the first song. "And I remember when we first played it for Sean, you know, when he got the CD, the smile on his face when he heard it..."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;But Beverly never shied away from discussing the difficult times in her life, and one of these was the beginning of her long relationship with Sean. Another track on the gift CD was &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A7BRraVMZzc"&gt;"Town Without Pity" by Gene Pitney&lt;/a&gt;. "When you're young and so in love as we," the song begins, "and bewildered by the world we see, why do people hurt us so? Only those in love would know what a town without pity can do." Beverly recalled that she and Sean were 16 when they met. "Nobody thought it could possibly last. The adults of the place gave us quite a hard time." But as in much of her life, there was triumph and vindication after adversity. "And we were right, because we stayed together for 34 years."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;To listen to the audio clip, visit &lt;a href="http://www.sonicmemorial.org/sonic/public/archive.jsp"&gt;the archive page&lt;/a&gt; of the &lt;a href="http://www.sonicmemorial.org/sonic/public/about.html"&gt;Sonic Memorial Project&lt;/a&gt;, which was established by National Public Radio. Type "Eckert" into the search box and the link to Beverly's clip will appear (after clicking the "Go" button).&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-5318688974944007125?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/5318688974944007125/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=5318688974944007125' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5318688974944007125'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5318688974944007125'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/03/beverly-memories-online-sonic-memorial.html' title='Beverly memories online: Songs for Sean on the Sonic Memorial Project'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SbfhkcLjMdI/AAAAAAAAACQ/zx0H_5ps-HI/s72-c/41087RZ15AL._SL500_AA240_.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-4337246021126958776</id><published>2009-03-09T09:01:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2009-03-09T09:33:22.277-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly recalled as a generous, kind soul in Stamford memorial service</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SbUYH8SJSiI/AAAAAAAAACI/Q0M3xHkm8xY/s1600-h/45452884.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 208px; height: 320px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SbUYH8SJSiI/AAAAAAAAACI/Q0M3xHkm8xY/s320/45452884.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5311177860273752610" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beverly had told me about her recent volunteer activities, tutoring and building, but in this &lt;a href="http://www.greenwichtime.com/ci_11862095"&gt;Lisa Chamoff article&lt;/a&gt; I learned for the first time that helping the poor and homeless years ago were also among Beverly's kind and generous acts.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;At the memorial service held on Saturday in Stamford, Julie Jochim said she had met Beverly 20 years ago in a Salvation Army soup kitchen, according to the article. And when the modest facilities of the soup kitchen fell short of the need, Beverly made batches of lasagna and meatloaf in her own kitchen. On a cold December, Beverly brought sleeping bags, warm clothing and other items to some homeless people seeking shelter under an I-95 overpass in Stamford. "We will always remember Beverly for these and the other quiet, unpretentious acts of caring and kindness that flowed from her so naturally," Jochim said. "She touched so many lives with her gentle goodness."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And here is a b&lt;a href="http://www.wtnh.com/dpp/news/news_wtnh_stamford_eckert_memorial_200903072223"&gt;rief video segment of the service&lt;/a&gt;, with mention of Beverly's Habitat for Humanity work, and a clip of the Julia A. Stark Elementary School's students singing "Somewhere, Over the Rainbow."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-4337246021126958776?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/4337246021126958776/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=4337246021126958776' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/4337246021126958776'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/4337246021126958776'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/03/beverly-recalled-as-generous-kind-soul.html' title='Beverly recalled as a generous, kind soul in Stamford memorial service'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SbUYH8SJSiI/AAAAAAAAACI/Q0M3xHkm8xY/s72-c/45452884.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-1515039598258960342</id><published>2009-03-05T10:38:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2009-03-09T09:01:32.730-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Inspired words for an inspiring woman: From Beverly's memorial service in Buffalo</title><content type='html'>The memorial service in Stamford on February 21 helped Beverly's relatives and friends remember and celebrate a life beautifully lived, with the help of soulfully performed music and heartfelt words. Now everyone can be carried by the inspired words spoken by some of Beverly's relatives, with full texts appearing on &lt;a href="http://www.rememberingbeverly.com/"&gt;the family's memorial web site&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly's sister, Margot, wrote &lt;a href="http://www.rememberingbeverly.com/poem-margot.html"&gt;"Strong Woman," a sparkling and warm poem showing Beverly's many sides&lt;/a&gt;, her many endeavors and accomplishments through the years. Here is the first verse.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;My little girl sister&lt;br /&gt;could out bike, out dodge ball, and out hide and seek the&lt;br /&gt;neighborhood gang,&lt;br /&gt;fort building, tree climbing, cowboy hat and Cisco Kidding,&lt;br /&gt;mouseketeering, red wagoneering&lt;br /&gt;jump roping, hop scotching,&lt;br /&gt;Playground pal, was my little girl sister.&lt;/blockquote&gt;Ray Eckert, Beverly's brother, read &lt;a href="http://www.rememberingbeverly.com/eulogy-ray.html"&gt;a  passage written by Martin Luther King, Jr&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;If a man or a woman happens to be 36 years old, as I happen to be,&lt;br /&gt;and some great truth stands before the door of their life,&lt;br /&gt;some great opportunity to stand up for what is right and that which is just,&lt;br /&gt;and he or she refuses to stand up because of a desire to live a little longer,&lt;br /&gt;or he or she is afraid to lose a job.&lt;br /&gt;They may go on and live to be 80,&lt;br /&gt;and the cessation of breathing in their life&lt;br /&gt;is merely the belated announcement of an earlier death of the spirit.&lt;br /&gt;We die when we refuse to stand up for that which is right.&lt;br /&gt;We die when we refuse to take a stand for that which is true.&lt;br /&gt;So we are going to stand up right here,&lt;br /&gt;Letting the world know we are determined to be free.&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.rememberingbeverly.com/eulogy-bill.html"&gt;The eulogy&lt;/a&gt; was delivered by Bill Bourque, Beverly's brother-in-law. For family members, it reminded them of happier times, before the day that horribly changed her life. And for those of us who only knew the "activist Beverly," the tales of outings and projects and loving family connections made us smile and realize there was so much more to Beverly's life than trips to Washington, vigils and interviews.&lt;div&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;When she first met Sean, Sean's younger brother Ben asked Sean to "make her go away". Since this was 40 plus years ago and Ben was only four at the time, we have not held this against him. Fortunately, Beverly didn’t go away. If there is anything that best describes her, it is loyalty to family and friends. She loved her nieces and nephews as if they were her own children. She followed their successes and their struggles and talked about them often. She broadened our children’s horizons with trips to New York City and Boston; to Thanksgiving Day parades and the Freedom Trail. ..to Faneuil Hall and to Central Park. We all knew that if you visited Beverly and Sean you better get a good night's sleep. You would be up early. No sitting around. A long, strenuous day was ahead. But we had fun... great fun.&lt;/blockquote&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-1515039598258960342?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/1515039598258960342/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=1515039598258960342' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/1515039598258960342'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/1515039598258960342'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/03/inspired-words-for-inspiring-woman-from.html' title='Inspired words for an inspiring woman: From Beverly&apos;s memorial service in Buffalo'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-5318768869168350598</id><published>2009-03-05T09:30:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2009-03-11T11:13:58.229-04:00</updated><title type='text'>A unanimous House resolves: The US will be "forever grateful" for Beverly's service</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/Sa_rb4X7IJI/AAAAAAAAACA/e7woB8idpb4/s1600-h/090213-eckert-hmed-6a.h2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 183px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/Sa_rb4X7IJI/AAAAAAAAACA/e7woB8idpb4/s320/090213-eckert-hmed-6a.h2.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5309721349914828946" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The House of Representatives yesterday voted 419 to 0 to approve Resolution 201 to recognize the service of Beverly Eckert to the nation, and in particular to survivors and families of victims of the 9/11 attacks. (Twelve House members did not vote on the resolution.)&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;"We have lost an inspiring and tenacious woman in Beverly," said Rep. Louise Slaughter, D-NY, the resolution's sponsor. "We must continue to honor her memory and her accomplishment, and carry on her mission."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The resolution noted that Beverly "was instrumental in the development and growth" of&lt;a href="http://voicesofsept11.org/dev/index.php"&gt; Voices of September 11th,&lt;/a&gt; which she co-founded with Mary Fetchet. The two women were co-chairs of the group until about early 2003, when Beverly resigned her leadership position.  "Voices" has thousands of members, and provides information, support and advocacy for 9/11 survivors and families of the victims. "Beverly Eckert worked admirably with the 110th Congress," the resolution continues, "and was a key proponent in the final passage of the 'Implementing the 9/11 Commission Recommendations Act of 2007.'" &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The text of the resolution appears in the &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.connpost.com/ci_11836603"&gt;Connecticut Post&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.connpost.com/ci_11836603"&gt; article by Peter Urban&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-5318768869168350598?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/5318768869168350598/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=5318768869168350598' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5318768869168350598'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5318768869168350598'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/03/unanimous-house-resolves-us-will-be.html' title='A unanimous House resolves: The US will be &quot;forever grateful&quot; for Beverly&apos;s service'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/Sa_rb4X7IJI/AAAAAAAAACA/e7woB8idpb4/s72-c/090213-eckert-hmed-6a.h2.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-1907294949183253769</id><published>2009-02-28T10:02:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-28T10:33:32.356-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Roemer praises the way Beverly re-defined the role of "citizen advocate"</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SalXEHnWK6I/AAAAAAAAAB4/8702Akj7dik/s1600-h/testimony_2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SalXEHnWK6I/AAAAAAAAAB4/8702Akj7dik/s320/testimony_2.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5307869364108012450" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beverly &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Eckert&lt;/span&gt; came to work with, befriend and respect a number of people in Washington, DC. One of her closest allies in her "Washington work" was &lt;a href="http://www.cnponline.org/ht/d/sp/i/1321/pid/1321"&gt;Tim &lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.cnponline.org/ht/d/sp/i/1321/pid/1321"&gt;Roemer&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;, a former congressman from Indiana who became a member of the 9-11 Commission, and who later took on the leadership of  the Center for National Policy, a DC think tank.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;In a &lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/149/story/591714.html"&gt;Buffalo News opinion piece,&lt;/a&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Roemer&lt;/span&gt; recounts his experiences with Beverly, including an account of Beverly's penultimate Washington project, organizing support among other 9-11 family member activists for implementing reforms recommended by the&lt;a href="http://www.preventwmd.org/"&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;WMD&lt;/span&gt; Commission report&lt;/a&gt;. According to &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;Roemer&lt;/span&gt;, who also served on the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;WMD&lt;/span&gt; Commission, Beverly participated in a conference call, "suggesting ideas, recommending strategies and enthusiastically jumping back into her role as an advocate of reform."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Not long after the conference call, Beverly and several of her colleagues met in Northern Virginia with former senator Bob Graham in Northern Virginia to plan their next moves: organizing, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;strategizing&lt;/span&gt;, lobbying, pressing relentlessly, once again, for positive change.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;[Members of the WMD Commission appear in the photo. Commission Chair Graham is far left; Roemer is second from right.]&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-1907294949183253769?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/1907294949183253769/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=1907294949183253769' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/1907294949183253769'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/1907294949183253769'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/02/roemer-praises-way-beverly-re-defined.html' title='Roemer praises the way Beverly re-defined the role of &quot;citizen advocate&quot;'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SalXEHnWK6I/AAAAAAAAAB4/8702Akj7dik/s72-c/testimony_2.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-7741576776819139248</id><published>2009-02-26T09:02:00.011-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-26T10:20:47.393-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Stamford memorial service planned for March 7</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SaawDwz_YwI/AAAAAAAAABo/heH92zy2a38/s1600-h/statue_pop.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SaawDwz_YwI/AAAAAAAAABo/heH92zy2a38/s320/statue_pop.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5307122789591769858" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beverly was known best for her 9-11 work, but once the bulk of that was finished, she devoted herself more to service in her community. For example, in October she wrote to me: "Tonight I met with the mayor of Stamford to try to move along a neighborhood beautification project that everybody else has given up on." It makes me wonder whether this project will be completed now that Beverly's persistent oversight will be missing. &lt;a href="http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/02/reflections-on-remarkable-life.html"&gt;As noted earlier&lt;/a&gt;, Beverly was also a voluteer for &lt;a href="http://www.bridgeporthabitat.org/"&gt;Habitat for Humanity of Coastal Fairfield County&lt;/a&gt;. In a tribute to her work, the staff wrote, "Beverly's selfless attitude, persevering spirit, and compassionate heart, live on in all we do."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This fall she began volunteering as tutor in math and reading for students in grades 2-5. And so it is appropriate that the site of her memorial service in Connecticut will be the &lt;a href="http://www.starkschool.org/"&gt;Julia A. Stark Elementary School&lt;/a&gt;, not far from her house in the Glenbrook section of Stamford. Beverly was both charmed and somewhat daunted by this new challenge. Although she loved children, she had never taught them before. But Beverly went every week to help her "little sweeties." Beverly was impressed with the school and the students. "I've discovered elementary school is sure a lot harder now than when I went. They really challenge the kids to think -- it's not just rote..."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The service is planned for 11 a.m. on March 7, and a reception will follow in the school's cafeteria.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;[Photo: In front of the school stands this statue of  a student's shoelace being tied.]&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-7741576776819139248?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/7741576776819139248/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=7741576776819139248' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7741576776819139248'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7741576776819139248'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/02/stamford-memorial-service-planned-for.html' title='Stamford memorial service planned for March 7'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SaawDwz_YwI/AAAAAAAAABo/heH92zy2a38/s72-c/statue_pop.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-7307027637260901967</id><published>2009-02-23T12:18:00.016-05:00</published><updated>2010-11-15T15:10:22.335-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A "strong woman" remembered in Buffalo by family and friends</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SaVWRI58a3I/AAAAAAAAABg/5BW4w04YSVw/s1600-h/margotspoem.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 130px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SaVWRI58a3I/AAAAAAAAABg/5BW4w04YSVw/s200/margotspoem.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5306742588374281074" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SaVWGc0UF4I/AAAAAAAAABY/HlGBLuLKObo/s1600-h/Bev_Eckert_Yearbook_Photo.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 142px; height: 200px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SaVWGc0UF4I/AAAAAAAAABY/HlGBLuLKObo/s200/Bev_Eckert_Yearbook_Photo.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5306742404740814722" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SaVQ_c-M14I/AAAAAAAAABQ/yMzCGsaqUZY/s1600-h/Bev_Eckert_Yearbook_Photo.JPG"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;February 20, 2009, Buffalo, NY&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Eckert&lt;/span&gt; always spoke fondly to me about Buffalo. It was where she had met Sean at a high school dance, where they fell in love, and married in a simple ceremony in her sister's back yard. It was the place she returned to, on holidays and other occasions, happy and sad, to celebrate the birth of a niece or nephew, exchange presents with family at Christmas, and receive hugs of comfort on anniversaries of Sean's death.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The plan, before all of this, was to arrange a trip to Buffalo with Beverly, and she would be my tour guide of the landscape of her life before moving off to Boston and New Jersey and Stamford. She was going to show me people and places from her life before September 11, 2001.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My tour of Buffalo this past weekend was shorter and sadder than the one I had earlier planned.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was a city still in mourning for the 50 lives lost in the crash of Flight 3407. I checked in on Friday afternoon at the Lord Amherst Hotel, which sits on Main St. where it crosses Interstate 90, just a few miles from the airport. In this simple, but homey medium-sized lodging Beverly would stay when her relatives had no spare beds. I decided to drive down Main St., toward Clarence and the site of the crash.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At schools, offices and firehouses, flags flew at half mast. Sign boards contained messages of condolence to those lost. And along the road to Clarence Center, the each &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;light post&lt;/span&gt; was tied with two plastic ribbons: one black, one white. The Zion Lutheran Church's sign had a message offering counseling services. The roads leading to the crash site were guarded by New York State Troopers, sitting in their vehicles, engine's idling to ward off the blustery cold. Only the cleanup crews could enter. Heavy digging vehicles filled dump truck after dump truck with soil and debris from the crash site. &lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/home/story/584773.html"&gt;A Buffalo News article&lt;/a&gt; reported that all that was left once the crews were done was crushed stone to fill the crash crater. An officials said the site would be graded and seeded come spring. Karen Wielinksi, whose husband died when the plane came down on their house on Long  Street, said that for now the site will remain vacant. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;There really wasn't much to see, but I had to come to Beverly's "ground zero."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Later, I drove back down Main St. toward Buffalo, and stopped in at the venue for Beverly's memorial service, St. Joseph University Church. It was quiet inside, the pews empty, only the vigil candles lit. The high, vaulted ceiling is painted sky blue, and the stained glass windows turned the outside light into rich gem tones of ruby, emerald and sapphire. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;February 21, 2009 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Those who came from near and far to pay tribute to Beverly &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;Eckert&lt;/span&gt; arrived early and in large numbers. By the time the service began, many hundreds stood shoulder-to-shoulder in the pews and chairs. There were members of Beverly's family in the right front rows, facing the alter. And Sean's family were across the aisle. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Family members of 9-11 victims came to pay respects. Some of them had worked tirelessly with her in the many struggles they took on. After the opening hymn, "Make Me a Channel of Your Peace," a small group of family members lit candles on the alter to commemorate the 50 who died the week before in Clarence Center.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Karen &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;Eckert&lt;/span&gt; had invited me to sit with the family members, and I was grateful for the honor, though feeling trepidation over any perceived sense of intrusion by an outsider. But I was put right at ease by Lisa, a Buffalo-area family member, who put a comforting hand on my shoulder the first time I quietly sobbed. She offered me tissues, but I told her I'd come prepared. The night before I had dined on the spicy wings of the Anchor Bar, and had grabbed a big handful of their absorbent napkins, knowing I'd need them at the church. Tears gave way to smiles. There is a truth about 9-11 family members, they know well how to offer comfort. So many tears, so many gently offered shoulders to shed them on.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly's sister-in-law, Cynthia &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;Blest&lt;/span&gt;, read from the Book of Proverbs. Beverly's friend, Nada &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;Radulovich&lt;/span&gt;, played the Prelude from Bach's Suite in G Major -- haunting, soaring strains rose from the cello, and stirred my heart as if the bow was being pulled across it. Beverly had loved Bach. Ray &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;Eckert&lt;/span&gt;, Beverly's brother, read words from Martin Luther King, Jr. And Beverly's sister, Margot, carried us through Beverly's full life with her inspired and loving words, from playful child to "strong woman." Her poetry made us smile as vivid images of Beverly flashed in our minds.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;“Strong woman, my sister. Asking questions, getting answers. Pushing governments, prodding presidents, speaking justice,” Margot's words resonated in the cavernous sanctuary.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/cityregion/story/586554.html"&gt;The Buffalo News article&lt;/a&gt; about the service noted that Beverly's brother-in-law, Bill Bourque, "also reflected on her relentless drive in the face of losing her husband."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“In the aftermath of Sept. 11," he said, "she gained access to the powerful and became well-known and well-respected. We knew she was not in it for herself. She was in it so that this should never happen to anyone again. Because of her, our nation became a safer place. She was one of the main reasons the powerful moved at all, because nothing is more powerful than the simple, clear truth.”&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;One family member had told me afterward that it was the most beautiful of memorial services. The music and the words had created a mood, painted a picture, captured a life, in a wonderfully evocative way. Everyone involved had strong inspiration.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly Eckert had graduated from the Buffalo Academy of the Sacred Heart in 1969. Her alma mater was preparing to present her with its distinguished alumna award in May, and Beverly was busy working as the chair of her class's 40th reunion committee. But on Saturday, Beverly's high school was the setting for a celebration of her wonderful life. Mourners proceeded down Main St. from St. Joseph about a mile to Sacred Heart, and were greeted on the walk from the overflowing parking lot by some of the school's students.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Inside, a long, quiet line of guests waited to pay their respects to members of the Eckert and Rooney families, who stood in a line in front of the large stage of the auditorium. They shook hands, received warm embraces, exchanged fond words watered sometimes with tears with many, many friends and acquaintances. On a projection screen rising high at center stage flashed photos of Beverly, the Beverly Eckert of Buffalo, Boston and Stamford, smiling her bright smile in the company of sisters and brother and parents and nephews and nieces and Sean. Family and friends, holidays and vacations. It was warm reminiscence of the happy Beverly who lived a normal life for most of her years.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;In the high-ceilinged hallway outside, bulletin boards were filled with photos of teenaged Beverly. There were some examples of her early, exemplary writing, a poem titled "What is Love," another one, dark and mysterious, about ashes and an ashtray. Downstairs, in the gym, a band played, good food was laid out, and there were mostly smiles as people share memories.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Sacred Heart has remembered Beverly &lt;a href="http://www.sacredheartacademy.org/DistinguishedAlumnae.php"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; and posted media coverage of alumnae remembrances &lt;a href="http://www.sacredheartacademy.org/FriendsRemembering.php"&gt;here.&lt;/a&gt; And there is also information on the school's &lt;a href="http://www.sacredheartacademy.org/BeverlyEckertMemorialFund.php"&gt;Beverly Eckert Memorial Fund.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-7307027637260901967?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/7307027637260901967/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=7307027637260901967' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7307027637260901967'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7307027637260901967'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/02/strong-woman-remembered-in-buffalo-by.html' title='A &quot;strong woman&quot; remembered in Buffalo by family and friends'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SaVWRI58a3I/AAAAAAAAABg/5BW4w04YSVw/s72-c/margotspoem.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-7927599023699247991</id><published>2009-02-19T03:17:00.011-05:00</published><updated>2009-03-14T11:25:03.858-04:00</updated><title type='text'>A "bright light," an "angel of courage"</title><content type='html'>Sean's sister, Sheila Rooney, has written a &lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/149/story/582606.html"&gt;warm and poignant tribute&lt;/a&gt; to the love between her brother and Beverly in the Buffalo News. The headline reads: "Beverly's bright light will be sorely missed." Rooney wrote that the phrase "'Sean and Beverly' had been part of our lexicon for so long that for our families, it was just one entity. Now it seems that, again, our families must endure a tremendous loss."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The first recipient of the Sean Rooney Scholarship which Beverly had established in 2002 was Remy Uwilingiyimana. He recently sent a message to friends and family of Beverly, describing how much she meant to him. He wrote that receiving the scholarship, which enabled him to attend Canisius High School, "was a life changing opportunity." He added that Beverly had continued to be involved with his life, attending his graduation and helping in other matters. "She was an angel of courage and a true inspiration," he added. Remy is junior at Boston College studying international business.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-7927599023699247991?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/7927599023699247991/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=7927599023699247991' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7927599023699247991'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/7927599023699247991'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/02/bright-light.html' title='A &quot;bright light,&quot; an &quot;angel of courage&quot;'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-2004127179565956916</id><published>2009-02-17T13:43:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-17T13:48:03.234-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Feb. 21 Memorial Service in Buffalo Announced</title><content type='html'>Family members have announced the details for the memorial service for Beverly Eckert on the new web site, &lt;a href="http://www.rememberingbeverly.com/"&gt;Remembering Beverly&lt;/a&gt;. The service will be at St. Joseph University Church at 11 a.m., with a reception afterward at Buffalo Academy of the Sacred Heart.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-2004127179565956916?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/2004127179565956916/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=2004127179565956916' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/2004127179565956916'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/2004127179565956916'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/02/feb-21-memorial-service-in-buffalo.html' title='Feb. 21 Memorial Service in Buffalo Announced'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-3559656501647396341</id><published>2009-02-17T11:33:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-17T12:24:50.585-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly and the quilters of Iowa: Connecting with the heartland</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZrx7fzSz3I/AAAAAAAAABI/7mIpHfS3OR0/s1600-h/1988550518_f8d613a12d_m.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 180px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZrx7fzSz3I/AAAAAAAAABI/7mIpHfS3OR0/s320/1988550518_f8d613a12d_m.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5303817515633397618" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Betty Nielsen of Fonda, IA did not know anyone who died on 9-11, but she was strongly driven after that day to do something for the survivors. She established &lt;a href="http://www.freedomquilts.net/index.html"&gt;Freedom Quilts&lt;/a&gt; to provide the comfort and warmth of hand-stitched quilts, and the sympathy and love of their creators to the family members who had lost a loved one in New York, Shanksville and Arlington. (Her group later expanded donations of quilts to families of military personnel killed in Iraq and Afghanistan.)&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;When Betty and her husband Dennis travelled in the winter of 2003 to deliver quilts to 9-11 family members in Connecticut, Beverly offered them her legendary warm hospitality, and, along with Mary Fetchet, helped the Nielsens in their selfless mission. When Betty Nielsen learned of Beverly's death, she wrote a moving letter to a friend, saying that her heart was broken, because for the first time since she started her project, she could say that she had lost someone connected to 9-11 that she cared about, "a dear friend" who had touched the lives of so many.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It is true that the attacks fell heaviest on this country's East Coast. But on 9-11 there arose in the hearts of millions of Americans everywhere a sense that we are one. These human ties -- connecting souls from Stamford to Slidell to Fonda -- bind us all more tightly than any anthem or passport or flag.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;[Photo of Betty Nielsen and Lee Ielpi, father of firefighter Jonathan, who was killed on 9-11.]&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-3559656501647396341?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/3559656501647396341/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=3559656501647396341' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3559656501647396341'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3559656501647396341'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/02/beverly-and-quilters-of-iowa-connecting.html' title='Beverly and the quilters of Iowa: Connecting with the heartland'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZrx7fzSz3I/AAAAAAAAABI/7mIpHfS3OR0/s72-c/1988550518_f8d613a12d_m.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-2546712081164115900</id><published>2009-02-17T10:27:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-17T11:32:10.184-05:00</updated><title type='text'>National September 11 Memorial and Museum Tribute</title><content type='html'>I don't know how many times Beverly would say, "I'm just not a writer." And every time I read one of her eloquent speeches or letters or recollections, I would tell her, "yes, you are."&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The &lt;a href="http://www.national911memorial.org/site/PageServer?pagename=New_Home"&gt;National September 11 Memorial and Museum&lt;/a&gt; has &lt;a href="http://www.national911memorial.org/site/PageServer?pagename=New_Museum_BE"&gt;a page paying tribute to Beverly,&lt;/a&gt; and it contains an eloquent piece Beverly had written in July 2006 about her love for Sean, and that final call. It reads like a loving and poetic prayer.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;He was calm, so she didn't cry. He told her to give his love to his family. They spoke of their life together, all the happiness they'd shared. Over and over, he whispered that he loved her. They tried to live the rest of their lives in the few seconds they had left. Tried to make time stand still. Then, through the phone, she heard the tower begin its collapse.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Afterward, she tried not to think about what she lost - but what she'd had.&lt;/blockquote&gt;I am indebted to Jan Ramirez, Chief Curator and Director of Collections for the memorial and museum, for bringing the group's tribute to Beverly to my attention.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-2546712081164115900?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/2546712081164115900/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=2546712081164115900' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/2546712081164115900'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/2546712081164115900'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/02/national-september-11-memorial-and.html' title='National September 11 Memorial and Museum Tribute'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-48479929469482488</id><published>2009-02-17T08:16:00.007-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-18T10:11:50.214-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A first and last meeting with President Obama</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZrUxuPvmyI/AAAAAAAAABA/Ex7NprCDev4/s1600-h/alg_obama-eckert.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZrUxuPvmyI/AAAAAAAAABA/Ex7NprCDev4/s320/alg_obama-eckert.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5303785461874924322" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Beverly was in breathless, mind-racing, adrenalin-fueled, post-meeting download mode when I spoke to her for the last time. She was taking a taxi from the White House to National Airport, having just &lt;a href="http://edition.cnn.com/2009/POLITICS/02/06/obama.uss.cole/index.html"&gt;met President Obama &lt;/a&gt;as part of a group of relatives of terrorism victims on February 6. As we (she) spoke, I could envision her balancing her cell phone on her shoulder as she went through her notes, the words tumbling out fast.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It was vintage Beverly, and this image of her will stay with me always.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;We had many times gone through this same drill in the past few years. After press conferences, hearings, meetings, memorials and other events dealing with 9-11, we she would talk on the phone or in person about what had happened, and what would happen next. Sometimes she her enthusiasm bubbled through the phone lines. Other times she would complain about being tired, frustrated, disappointed. But once she set upon a course of action, she would see it through to the end.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly was not a political animal before her life changed. But it did not take her long to focus her intellect and instincts on the questions that mattered to her most: What went wrong on 9-11? And what does our country need to do to prevent another such catastrophe? To the very end she was fighting the good fight, from Stamford to Washington and every place in between. Some news accounts have &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;described&lt;/span&gt; Beverly and the other family members as "amateur lobbyists." The only thing amateurish about Beverly was her working without &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;salary&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;"Wait," she suddenly said during this last call. "The sun is setting and we're just passing the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Lincoln&lt;/span&gt; Memorial. It's so pretty... let me take a picture!" My smile turned to laughter as I pictured her craning in the back seat of the cab, angling her camera to get a fleeting shot of this scene that caught her eye. "Beverly," I said, "just buy a postcard!"&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;A couple of days later, Beverly sent me a long email describing the meeting with Obama. I had told her I wasn't taking notes during our phone conversation, and asked if she could write down her recollections. She was always eager to give a full account of her activities. I will use these last words to me as a basis for an article describing a courageous 9-11 activist's last stand. The meeting with the president has received a good amount of media coverage. &lt;a href="http://edition.cnn.com/2009/US/02/13/crash.eckert/index.html"&gt;This CNN piece&lt;/a&gt; offers some details absent in most articles, including the mention of the letter Beverly presented to the president, explaining her view on closing the Guantanamo detention facility.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly was a member of &lt;a href="http://www.peacefultomorrows.org/"&gt;September 11 Families for Peaceful Tomorrows&lt;/a&gt;, and in the photo above, another member of that group, Valerie Lucznikowska, is seen between Beverly and the president. Lucznikowska talks at length in &lt;a href="http://www.democracynow.org/2009/2/17/beverly_eckert_1951_2009_9_11"&gt;this video clip &lt;/a&gt;to a Democracy Now reporter about Beverly's support of the president's decision to close the detainee camp.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-48479929469482488?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/48479929469482488/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=48479929469482488' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/48479929469482488'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/48479929469482488'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/02/first-and-last-meeting-with-president.html' title='A first and last meeting with President Obama'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZrUxuPvmyI/AAAAAAAAABA/Ex7NprCDev4/s72-c/alg_obama-eckert.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-683426493089416551</id><published>2009-02-16T21:55:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-17T14:15:05.651-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A perfectionist with a keen eye for detail</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Beverly Eckert liked to have everything just so.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;You could see it in they way she decorated her house, the way she dressed for an important event, the care she took in preparing the many written statements she read in front of gatherings large and small.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And just now, I made a small change in one of my earlier blog entries that Beverly had asked me to make. It illustrates her attention to detail, and her desire to leave behind an accurate record. This quality is of course golden to an historian, who values accuracy and a sharp observer's eye. In any case, I had written that there was a "small picture" of Sean looking down on us in the living room of Beverly's house. In the course of a telephone conversation a few weeks ago, Beverly mentioned, almost as an aside, that it would be nice if i could remove the word "small." She did not want people to think that she had any sort of diminished appreciation for Sean's pictorial representation in her house. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I had said "small" because the photograph, sitting on a shelf, was unobtrusive, in scale with its surroundings, perhaps four by six inches in dimension. There were larger pieces of art on the walls, and I suppose I had subconsciously compared Sean's photo to these when I wrote those words.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I thought at the time of Beverly's remark that it was a small quibble. But upon reflection I realized that this was one of the most important things she could convey: her great appreciation and love for Sean. My use of "small" in connection with the photo of her husband had deeper significance than I had at first imagined. And so I learned a lesson in perceptions and sensitivity and perspective. And the keen eye of a perfectionist.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Another thing that has made working with Beverly over the years such a pleasure was her deep desire to present the truth with great honesty, to lay down the elements of her story and let the chips fall where they may. She did not shy away, for example, from discussing times of disagreement and dischord among members of the Family Steering Committee. Nor did she pull punches regarding her own shortcomings or foibles. Above all, she was concerned about making sure credit for 9-11 reform efforts was given where credit was due.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;So readers of &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;No Truer Hearts&lt;/span&gt; can expect an account as honest and meticulous as Beverly, one of the book's main sources. And, by the way, as straight and balanced as the perspective of the author. These days following Beverly's death have imbued accounts of her life with glowing praise without exception. And on an emotional and psychological and personal level that is to be expected. (But I can just imagine Beverly complaining about this blog's recent focus only on &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;her.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style=""&gt;)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;But as the time comes to put her story down on paper, the account will hew closely to what the sources provide -- all the sources, not just Beverly. That is what both she and I wanted most.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-683426493089416551?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/683426493089416551/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=683426493089416551' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/683426493089416551'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/683426493089416551'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/02/perfectionist-whose-eye-for-detail-i.html' title='A perfectionist with a keen eye for detail'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-3947548765938449330</id><published>2009-02-16T10:34:00.010-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-16T17:56:54.709-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Remembering Beverly...</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZntCP1XD2I/AAAAAAAAAA4/V5RDORhYqqg/s1600-h/610x.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZntCP1XD2I/AAAAAAAAAA4/V5RDORhYqqg/s320/610x.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5303530659071332194" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly's tragic life story of enduring love and searing loss is told briefly and sparely by &lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/cityregion/story/580914.html"&gt;Charity Vogel of the &lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/cityregion/story/580914.html"&gt;Buffalo News&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/span&gt;And here, a small detail speaks volumes: the fact that Beverly never removed the special wedding band she received from Sean. It had been on her finger the morning of their final goodbye. And she wore it all the years since, until her final day on this earth.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Margot Eckert, talks about her sister Beverly's grit and determination in this &lt;a href="http://www.myfoxboston.com/dpp/news/local/021509_Crash_victims_sister_talks_about_loss"&gt;interview for Boston's Fox affiliate&lt;/a&gt;. She also mournfully talks of the loss. "She was my sister," said Margot, "I went on vacations with her. I had picnics with her. That is the hole she is leaving. Those are the holes being left by the people that died."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The quiet, humble, yet warm side of Beverly emerges in the comments of Canisius High School President John Knight in this Newark, NJ &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.nj.com/news/index.ssf/2009/02/ceremony_featuring_beverly_eck.html"&gt;Star-Ledger&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.nj.com/news/index.ssf/2009/02/ceremony_featuring_beverly_eck.html"&gt; article by Leslie Kwoh&lt;/a&gt;. "I would say she was very understated," said Knight. "She didn't draw a lot of attention to herself.... She's a phenomenal person, a very warm presence, a lovely smile and a kind word for everyone."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;A small number of reporters got to know Beverly through their coverage of 9-11-related stories, and they have been painting more detailed and intimate portraits in their articles than those who never met her. Beverly's many accomplishments are inspiring; her humanity and grace are deeply affecting. Peter Urban has been covering the Washington beat for the &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Connecticut Post&lt;/span&gt;, and he has written &lt;a href="http://www.connpost.com/peterurban/ci_11698968"&gt;a touching column&lt;/a&gt; about his reaction to Beverly's loss. When he learned of Beverly's death, writes Urban, "...my stomach churned, and it was tough to fight back the tears." And &lt;a href="http://www.connpost.com/localnews/ci_11700047?source=rv"&gt;in an article&lt;/a&gt;, Urban notes the many tributes offered by those who knew Beverly and worked with her on government reform.  "She was smart, analytical, decent and indefatigable," said Betsy Hawkings, chief of staff for Rep. Christopher Shays of Connecticut about Beverly. In &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;No Truer Hearts&lt;/span&gt;, I will present the hitherto untold story of how 9-11 family members and congressional staffers formed a powerful and mutually supportive alliance which was able to overcome strong opposition from other members of Congress, the White House, and government agencies.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Beverly's husband, Sean Rooney, graduated from Canisius High School in 1969. In 2002, Beverly had established a scholarship in Sean's memory to give an opportunity for a student with potential who has financial need. More details about this aspect of Beverly's efforts appear on the page &lt;a href="http://www.canisiushigh.org/news.cfm?story=340"&gt;"Canisius Remembers Beverly Eckert."&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And finally, (for today, at least) I will mention with mixed feelings the new &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beverly_Eckert"&gt;Wikipedia article about Beverly&lt;/a&gt;. It is, like most Wikipedia articles, poorly written, unevenly sourced, and just factual enough to convince the reader that the whole thing is accurate. At some point, I will write a proper summary of Beverly's life, most likely on the forthcoming web page for &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;No Truer Hearts&lt;/span&gt;. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-3947548765938449330?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/3947548765938449330/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=3947548765938449330' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3947548765938449330'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3947548765938449330'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/02/remembering-beverly.html' title='Remembering Beverly...'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZntCP1XD2I/AAAAAAAAAA4/V5RDORhYqqg/s72-c/610x.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-179378821691391957</id><published>2009-02-15T09:26:00.014-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-16T10:32:47.225-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly Eckert: a life lived with love and purpose</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZhu9U0eHhI/AAAAAAAAAAw/I0pSOgbtkgI/s1600-h/speaking.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 190px; height: 276px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZhu9U0eHhI/AAAAAAAAAAw/I0pSOgbtkgI/s320/speaking.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5303110561068621330" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;In media reports, the poignant details about Beverly's life and the things she would have done had she lived keep emerging in bittersweet portions.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;On Friday, Tom Brokaw painted a warm, thoughtful and inspiring portrait of Beverly, in the regular &lt;a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21134540/vp/29188321#29188321"&gt;NBC Nightly News segment, "Making a Difference."&lt;/a&gt; Brokaw called Beverly's last conversation with Sean "haunting and heartbreaking," and the veteran newsman, who had interviewed Beverly and kept in touch with her over the years, walks viewers though Beverly's long, loving relationship with Sean, the events of that terrible morning, and Beverly's new life afterward. It is painful to see Beverly's anguished face describing her moment of loss, but uplifting and even joyful to watch a parade of Beverly's old family photos, and videos of her 9-11 activism. Brokaw at his best.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;One of Beverly's incredible qualities was to easily make a personal connection with a total stranger in a matter of minutes. Upon learning of Beverly's death, journalist &lt;a href="http://www.greenwichtime.com/ci_11710784"&gt;Michael Howerton recounted &lt;/a&gt;how Beverly comforted him as he began to cry during an interview not long after 9-11 in which Beverly talked about her last conversation with Sean. It is a beautiful, brave and honest piece of writing. Yesterday, the Stamford &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Advocate&lt;/span&gt; reprinted &lt;a href="http://www.stamfordadvocate.com/ci_11705414"&gt;the Sept. 19, 2001 article&lt;/a&gt; Howerton had written after his emotional interview with Beverly.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Today, Beverly would have been celebrating Sean's 57th birthday with family and friends in Buffalo. A &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/home/story/580029.html"&gt;Buffalo News &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/home/story/580029.html"&gt;article by Maki Becker and Steven T. Watson&lt;/a&gt; gives other details of Beverly's past and plans for her future. Kathleen Delaney, a close friend of Beverly's from their days at Sacred Heart Academy, was going to have Beverly over for "pizza and wine and lively conversation" on Friday, the day after her planned arrival, according to the article. The two women and other classmates were then going to talk about their 40th reunion at a dinner planned for last night. Sacred Heart officials were planning to present Beverly herself with the 2009 Distinguished Alumna award in May. Now, the award will be posthumous. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Margot Eckert, of Springfield, MA, said she of all Beverly's four siblings spent the most time with Beverly. In an &lt;a href="http://www.wwlp.com/dpp/news/wwlp_local_reliving_a_nightmare_20090213"&gt;interview with Springfield's WWLP&lt;/a&gt;, Margot said of Beverly, "She was absolutely fearless in talking to authority, talking clearly, talking plainly, and she was an example to all of us that one person can make a difference."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly's two other sisters (Karen Eckert and Susan Bourque) and her brother, Ray Eckert, appear in this brief but edifying interview with &lt;a href="http://www.wivb.com/dpp/news/Embracing_life_in_the_wake_of_tragedy_20090215"&gt;Don Postles of Buffalo's WIVB-TV&lt;/a&gt;. In telephone conversations with Beverly, before her trip to Buffalo, Karen Eckert said, "There was just laughter in her voice talking all the time throughout the week, what we were going to do and how we were going to do it." They talked about her courage, about the way Sean's courage in the face of death inspired Beverly, and how Beverly's resolve gave them strength.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;One of Beverly's longest-lasting relationships among the 9-11 activists was with Mary Fetchet, with whom she co-founded the advocacy group Voices of September 11th in October 2001. Sheyenne Rodriguez of WTVD-TV, Raleigh-Duham, NC, put together a &lt;a href="http://abclocal.go.com/wtvd/story?section=news&amp;amp;id=6658986"&gt;very nice video segment&lt;/a&gt; in which Fetchet pays tribute to her departed friend. A fuller video report, which contains more of Mary Fetchet's comments, can be found on &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/abcnews.com/"&gt;abcnews.com&lt;/a&gt; and typing "remembering beverly eckert" in the search box.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-179378821691391957?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/179378821691391957/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=179378821691391957' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/179378821691391957'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/179378821691391957'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/02/beverly-eckert-life-lived-with-love-and.html' title='Beverly Eckert: a life lived with love and purpose'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZhu9U0eHhI/AAAAAAAAAAw/I0pSOgbtkgI/s72-c/speaking.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-3613773654029942635</id><published>2009-02-14T04:08:00.017-05:00</published><updated>2009-03-02T18:13:22.849-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Reflections on a remarkable life...</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZbu9QyRwAI/AAAAAAAAAAg/APJz3WqndGI/s1600-h/BeverlyHabitat.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 251px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZbu9QyRwAI/AAAAAAAAAAg/APJz3WqndGI/s320/BeverlyHabitat.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5302688347520614402" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;In the coming days, the media accounts of Beverly's life and works will continue, and I will try to find the most notable. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Beverly's quickly mastered skills as a "citizen activist" were admired by those with long experience in the political arena, among them, Timothy Roemer, who became a 9-11 commissioner after serving as a Member of Congress for 12 years, representing the 107th District in Illinois. In a &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/nationworld/2008743652_planevics14.html"&gt;Los Angeles Times&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/nationworld/2008743652_planevics14.html"&gt; article by Bob Drogin&lt;/a&gt;, Roemer says of Beverly: "She really redefined for America how to be an effective activist and committed citizen." He adds, "When she started, she didn't know if the House or Senate was bigger. Ultimately, she was leading strategy sessions, meeting editorial boards, leading rallies." I especially like the photo of Beverly that accompanies the article: she's squatting gracefully next to pile of lumber, clad in a white work shirt, jeans, sun-visor and tool belt, working in Slidell, La. on a Habitat for Humanity project. [Photo by Matthew Hinton, AFP/Getty Images.]&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Tragedy forged a special connection between Beverly and the people of Slidell, La. For Beverly, it had been 9-11, and for the people of Slidell it was Hurricane Katrina. Habitat for Humanity projects helped the people of Louisiana and the Gulf Coast recover from the devastating storm. An &lt;a href="http://www.wwltv.com/topstories/stories/wwl021309tpcontinental.10299fc4.html"&gt;article by Doug Mouton&lt;/a&gt; describes how a 9-11 memorial established by the people of Slidell deeply touched Beverly. "Out of everything you folks have been through," she said, "that you still want to do this 9-11 memorial is just, really, it just moved me, and I said 'I'm thanking the city with my heart, but I'm thanking you with my hands as well." &lt;a href="http://www.nola.com/news/?/base/news-1/1234592427101610.xml&amp;amp;coll=1"&gt;Christine Harvey of the New Orleans &lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.nola.com/news/?/base/news-1/1234592427101610.xml&amp;amp;coll=1"&gt;Times-Picayune&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; added more details to Beverly's Slidell connection. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The photo above by Matthew Hinton shows Beverly working in Slidell with her Habitat colleagues. &lt;a href="http://www.nola.com/photos/t-p/index.ssf?9_11_widow_ptw/index.html"&gt;A slideshow with wonderful photos&lt;/a&gt; of Beverly's activities in the area has been assembled Hinton, of the &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Times-Picayune. &lt;/span&gt;Hinton also recorded an accompanying narration by Beverly, in which she described her work, and the inspiration she drew from Sean. This multimedia package sensitively evokes Beverly's love, strength, courage and expansive spirit.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;There are some lovely and illuminating words from people who knew, loved and respected Beverly in this &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.courant.com/news/nationworld/hc-widow0214.art0feb14,0,5509844.story"&gt;Hartford Courant&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.courant.com/news/nationworld/hc-widow0214.art0feb14,0,5509844.story"&gt; article by Jesse Leavenworth&lt;/a&gt;. Beverly's long-time partner in 9-11 struggles and victories, and friend, Mary Fetchett, said, "Beverly's friendship, spirit and commitment were an inspiration to all those who had the privilege to work with her. It was an honor to know her and her friendship will be sorely missed." Others spoke of Beverly's multiple interests, stressing that she was not solely interested in 9-11, but her community as well, and the world at large. And when her major political battles were won in Washington, she gave herself a well-deserved break by setting off on other adventures, including long-distance sailing trips.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;"She made a difference: Beverly Eckert became a force for good after her husband was killed on 9/11" reads the headline over the &lt;a href="http://www.nydailynews.com/opinions/2009/02/14/2009-02-14_she_made_a_difference_beverly_eckert_bec.html"&gt;editorial in today's New York &lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.nydailynews.com/opinions/2009/02/14/2009-02-14_she_made_a_difference_beverly_eckert_bec.html"&gt;Daily News&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/span&gt;So true. The accompanying photo makes me smile, even now. Beverly is beaming, sundrenched and windblown, an American flag crossing her heart. It is a wonderful way to remember her...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;This &lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/02/14/nyregion/14about.html?ref=nyregion"&gt;thoughtful article by Jim Dwyer&lt;/a&gt; of the &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;New York Times &lt;/span&gt;is warmed by his acquaintance with Beverly, and his genuine admiration for her accomplishments. And we are treated to another facet of her complex personality: "She had the rare ability to separate the part of her that was grieving from the part that was rational, objective, analytic," said John Farmer, a senior counsel to the 9-11 Commission.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;"Flight 3407 tragedy silences Beverly Eckert, voice of 9-11" is the apt headline over &lt;a href="http://www.nydailynews.com/news/columnists/daly/"&gt;Michael Daly's fine column&lt;/a&gt; in the New York &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Daily News&lt;/span&gt;. And he lets us know that Beverly "proved to have a unique gift" for bringing together 9-11 activists with varied political views, "bridging the differences between civilians and firefighters, liberals and conservatives, all of them hurt and angry."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Keith Olbermann of MSNBC provided an &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YWmjPiJyzds"&gt;incisive and earnest report&lt;/a&gt; on Beverly's work, and the video clip, with footage of Beverly, contains high praise from Secretary of State Hillary Clinton.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;An article by &lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/home/story/579271.html"&gt;Charity Vogel in the&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/home/story/579271.html"&gt; Buffalo News&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; about some of the plane crash victims has this from Beverly's sister, Karen Eckert: "[Beverly] was an extremely intelligent, competent person. When she was faced with what she faced, and saw a reason to do something, she put her many talents toward that.... But she wanted balance in her life, too. She said 'Every day is precious.'"&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/02/14/nyregion/14eckert.html"&gt;New York Times &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/02/14/nyregion/14eckert.html"&gt;obituary by Sewell Chan&lt;/a&gt; adds a few details to his previous article about Beverly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-3613773654029942635?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/3613773654029942635/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=3613773654029942635' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3613773654029942635'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3613773654029942635'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/02/reflections-on-remarkable-life.html' title='Reflections on a remarkable life...'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZbu9QyRwAI/AAAAAAAAAAg/APJz3WqndGI/s72-c/BeverlyHabitat.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-5332615046963645249</id><published>2009-02-13T08:50:00.019-05:00</published><updated>2009-03-14T11:20:34.848-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Beverly Eckert, 1951-2009</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZXEvsp6B1I/AAAAAAAAAAU/-10GGO2U5W8/s1600-h/99-LOCAL_BEVERLY_ECKERT_GEE.embedded.prod_affiliate.50.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 280px; height: 190px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZXEvsp6B1I/AAAAAAAAAAU/-10GGO2U5W8/s320/99-LOCAL_BEVERLY_ECKERT_GEE.embedded.prod_affiliate.50.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5302360460018452306" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZWcHvGOQpI/AAAAAAAAAAM/AuO4SI1qRvI/s1600-h/Eckert_Beverly.jpg"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear Beverly,&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Let me write you one last letter, after the many we have exchanged over the years. My fingers falter and tremble, so this may take a while, and my vision is blurring now and then. (Kleenex helps, and so will the comfort of loved ones, and time. It really is true what they say about time and broken hearts. But you know all that so well. Sadly, the relief that comes with the years is only partial.)&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;What does it mean that the first thing I saw when I turned on the television this morning was your face? You sometimes talked to me about omens, about signs, strange coincidences that made you struggle for an explanation. During one of our interviews for the book, you told me that years before 9-11, as you were walking in the shadow of the Twin Towers, you craned your neck and looked up at them and asked Sean if they would ever fall.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;For a split second, when I saw the photograph of your face on TV this morning, I thought they were doing a story about Guantanamo. You had excitedly described to me on the phone last week that your meeting with President Obama had gone well, that you and the other family members got to voice your views, and that the president showed care and concern for your opinions and feelings. I could tell that you were exhilarated by the day's events, not just meeting the new president, but working together once again with the other members of the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;FSC&lt;/span&gt;. In a way, you told me, it was like old times. I was eager to get details about the meeting from you so I could write an article with the theme "the work goes on...."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;But the TV report was not about Guantanamo. The reporter said you were one of those who died in that terrible plane crash outside of Buffalo. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It felt like a brick had fallen on my heart. With hardly any air in my lungs I choked out a whisper to Michelle, in the next room, "Oh my God, Beverly's been killed..."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;My mind raced to catch up with what I was hearing -- bad weather, no survivors, the last radio contact. The newscaster's words washed over me as I watched in a daze the footage of the burning wreckage.  Beverly, I know you're gone, but I'm not yet ready to say goodbye. We have a lot of work still to do.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;We sat together for many hours of interviews, Beverly, during which I not only learned about your deep enduring love for Sean, and your tireless work to keep his memory alive after he perished. I also heard the voice of an intelligent, thoughtful, accomplished woman. You had an eye for detail, an open and active mind, and a generous heart. I knew from our earliest conversations that this would be an extraordinary book because you were an extraordinary person.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;So we will be together again in the coming months, as I continue to transcribe your words onto the page. So many, many words. I know my heart will break a little over and over as I hear your living voice telling your story. And I will read your many emails and letters and articles, the long, long paper trail of your prodigious 9-11 reform efforts. And there will be the interviews with your &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;FSC&lt;/span&gt; partners, people on the Hill, friends, family. So much more work to do. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;But be assured, even though all I have now are the words you left behind, &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;No Truer Hearts&lt;/span&gt; will tell your story some day. You were always a careful and cautious person, even more so after 9/11. And I remember that you gave it a lot of thought when I asked if you would like to work with me in the writing of this book. One reason you agreed to go forward was that you wanted a "full and balanced" account of the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;FSC&lt;/span&gt; and the 9-11 Commission, and you felt I could do that. I have been ever humbled by your trust. I know how much this story means to you. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Another reason was Sean. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I know he was always in your heart. Who could imagine two lives so lovingly intertwined as yours and Sean's? Sometimes, you had told me, you could imagine him standing in a doorway in your house, arms crossed, smiling contentedly at you, and that image gave you comfort. You had told people how brave Sean had been during that final conversation, as he faced his death, giving you strength, professing his love, urging you to continue living a full, happy life. And then, after that terrible day, you continued to say goodbye to him, in large ways and small, planting some trees here, creating a scholarship there, commissioning a mural at the train station where he stood in Stamford every workday morning. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Your life has been a testament to Sean. The love you shared carried you forward, strengthened you, inspired you. People sometimes wonder about love, but it is simple: love is the good things you do. And your love was great.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Dear Beverly, your life, your good works, your kind soul have sent out ripples far and wide. Thank you for the great honor of working with you, knowing you, becoming your friend. I will do my best to make this book a worthy memorial to Sean, as I know you wanted. And now, after this heartbreaking day, it will be as well a testament to you. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Your tragic and inspirational  life, your enduring example of love and devotion, and the expansive richness of your soul will live on.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;With tears of loss, love and admiration,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;t&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;[Photo by Derek Gee, &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Buffalo News&lt;/span&gt;.]&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Some coverage of Beverly Eckert online: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;An early account of the crash appears in &lt;a href="http://www.buffalonews.com/home/story/578061.html"&gt;this Buffalo News article&lt;/a&gt;. And &lt;a href="http://cityroom.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/02/13/a-911-widow-killed-in-crash-near-buffalo/?hp"&gt;here's a very nice summary&lt;/a&gt; of Beverly's life by Sewell Chan of the &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;New York Times&lt;/span&gt;. And &lt;a href="http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5gg-YLC_ftKYyYuM9jEbsny3R9F9QD96AT3VO1"&gt;this Associated Press article by Devlin Barrett&lt;/a&gt; contains some wonderful quotes about Beverly. The Chicago Tribune's Washington Bureau &lt;a href="http://www.swamppolitics.com/news/politics/blog/2009/02/beverly_eckert_crash_victim_91.html"&gt;assembled some evocative photos of Beverly&lt;/a&gt;, including one of the pastoral mural at the Stamford train station to honor Sean. A summary f&lt;a href="http://www.nydailynews.com/news/2009/02/13/2009-02-13_beverly_eckert_widow_of_911_victim_was_a.html"&gt;rom the &lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.nydailynews.com/news/2009/02/13/2009-02-13_beverly_eckert_widow_of_911_victim_was_a.html"&gt;Daily News&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;, with a couple new details.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Some of the news accounts mention that Beverly was "fragile" and that she would on occasion cry during her public appearances, especially when talking about Sean. It's true, when deep emotions arose from Beverly's heart, they clearly appeared -- in the tears in her eyes, the furrow in her brow, the break in her voice. This happened a number of times when we spoke about Sean and her reform activities. Sometimes I joined her in shedding a tear, in silence. So trust me: her shows of emotion came from deep within her, unbidden. She had, after all, a big heart. Only those who did not know Beverly, or who are cynical beyond redemption, say that she used her tears for effect. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And another thing was clear to those who knew Beverly, or stood on the other side of an issue: there was nothing fragile about her. Yes, she was kind and sensitive, but at the center of her being was a solid steel core of conviction. I love this quote from her friend and fellow 9-11 family member, Bill Harvey: "She would never shy from the good fight or negotiate what she knew to be right." It appears at the end of a short &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.nydailynews.com/news/2009/02/13/2009-02-13_911_commission_members_mourn_loss_of_act.html"&gt;Daily News&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; piece.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The comments of Lee Ielpi in this &lt;a href="http://www.bloomberg.com/apps/news?pid=20601103&amp;amp;sid=aXGYvyaIKlk8&amp;amp;refer=us"&gt;Bloomberg Press article by Alex Nussbaum and David M. Levitt&lt;/a&gt; cut to the core of Beverly's success in her many post-9-11 endeavors. "She was an inspiration to me and so many others," said Ielpi. "She wasn't one where you were going to see her name splashed all over, but she was the type of person who was able to talk and guide people, steer them in the right direction, and stay out of the limelight." Ielpi lost his son, firefighter Jonathan Ielpi, on 9-11.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-5332615046963645249?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/5332615046963645249/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=5332615046963645249' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5332615046963645249'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/5332615046963645249'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/02/beverly-eckert-1951-2009.html' title='Beverly Eckert, 1951-2009'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/SZXEvsp6B1I/AAAAAAAAAAU/-10GGO2U5W8/s72-c/99-LOCAL_BEVERLY_ECKERT_GEE.embedded.prod_affiliate.50.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-421622911707082422</id><published>2009-01-12T12:03:00.009-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-16T21:54:32.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Family Members, Their Lost Loved Ones, and Their Mantra: ‘No More 9/11s’</title><content type='html'>&lt;!--StartFragment--&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Like many stories, this one begins with love. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;i&gt;No Truer Hearts&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:normal"&gt; will tell a story of  love, loss, and action. All the family members shared this tragic trio of experiences, but the book will highlight the dramatic and inspiring journey of Beverly Eckert, who was transformed from happy wife and successful executive to grieving widow and 9/11 activist.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Beverly and other family member activists had lost a loved one on 9/11, but had vowed that their searing pain and aching grief should not be visited upon other wives and husbands, sons and daughters, as a result of another terrorist attack. Not if they could help it.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;This weekend I drove up to Stamford, Connecticut and spent many hours once again gathering information and recollections from Beverly in order to get a step closer to telling this story in part through her eyes. From the outset of this book project, I had decided that it was not enough to describe how the family members succeeded in their reform efforts. I also sought to combine this largely political tale with the individual instances of love and loss. In this book, it is the enduring love of Beverly for &lt;a href="http://www.legacy.com/Sept11/Story.aspx?PersonID=107978&amp;amp;location=1"&gt;Sean Rooney&lt;/a&gt;, her husband of 21 years, who was killed on September 11, 2001 in the World Trade Center’s South Tower. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;The “no truer hearts” of the book title refers to the passionately committed drive of the family members as they strove to fix a broken government. But it also refers to the bond of love they had with those they lost, a bond that transcended death, and gave those left behind strength in the face of adversity, and comfort during the many dark and desperate moments of their struggle. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;In the devastating wake of the 9/11 attacks, there survived thousands of tales of love and loss. It is impossible to comprehend them all, but I felt one such story could touch the hearts of many, make the incomprehensible more real, make a massive cataclysm more personal. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;The one great love of Beverly’s life was Sean. And as she recounted to me this weekend the final political hurdles that she and her fellow family members cleared on the way to legislative victory for the 9/11 reforms in the winter of 2004, Beverly's memory of Sean was with her constantly. As she stood holding Sean's photo to her chest at White House vigils, or walked the endless, cold marble halls of congressional office buildings, or spoke at press conferences, hearings and other events, Beverly had in her heart Sean's love, the memory of his infectious laughter and the lasting reality of their shared lives. Beverly had done many things to preserve Sean's memory: plant trees, start a scholarship fund, place plaques, commission a mural. But her work on the 9/11 Commission and subsequent reform legislation would stand as her most wide-ranging tribute to his life and memory. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;Even as we sat in her house in Stamford, Sean was there. The documents and articles that Beverly was poring over were spread across the large dining room table that her husband had made in his well-equipped basement workshop. When Beverly sautéed some shrimp in garlic and butter, it was in the kitchen that Sean had remodeled almost single-handedly. And as a fire crackled in the living room fireplace, Sean’s smiling face looked down upon us from a photo on a nearby shelf. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p class="MsoNormal"&gt;As I seek to reconstruct this sad but dramatic chapter in our country’s history, and to tell the story of&lt;span style="mso-spacerun:yes"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;one of the great loves behind it, I am glad that I have a guide as wise and brave and generous as Beverly. She will help me take readers on a moving and memorable journey.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;!--EndFragment--&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-421622911707082422?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/421622911707082422/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=421622911707082422' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/421622911707082422'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/421622911707082422'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/01/family-members-their-lost-loved-ones.html' title='Family Members, Their Lost Loved Ones, and Their Mantra: ‘No More 9/11s’'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-45576917613670211</id><published>2009-01-03T10:12:00.020-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-26T10:52:53.806-05:00</updated><title type='text'>'9/11 Press for Truth': An Uneven Critique of the Commission</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/Saa6y4e-MEI/AAAAAAAAABw/uM17Ztk6CUU/s1600-h/mail.jpeg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 99px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/Saa6y4e-MEI/AAAAAAAAABw/uM17Ztk6CUU/s200/mail.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5307134594221224002" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unlike many other films and television programs about 9-11, this documentary places some of the family members at the center of the narrative regarding the post-attack investigations. It thus begins to tell the sort of story I will present in &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;No Truer Hearts&lt;/span&gt;. But while the makers of &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.911pressfortruth.com/#"&gt;9/11 Press for Truth&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/span&gt;have their hearts in the right place regarding most matters, the film suffers from a sometimes confusing lack of focus and clarity, raising intriguing questions on the one hand, but leaving many others frustratingly unanswered. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;But my biggest quibble is that the film perpetuates the popular notion that "The Jersey Girls" were the main driving force in the family member movement, and that they alone fought for the creation of the 9-11 Commission, and attempted to guide its activities. If you watch this film and read many other accounts, including &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jersey_Girls#Role_in_the_establishment_of_the_9.2F11_Commission"&gt;the article about them&lt;/a&gt; in the notoriously dicey Wikipedia.com, you would hardly suspect that there were other members of the Family Steering Committee, or, indeed, other active family members at all! Certainly the Jersey Girls deserve what accolades they have received. Their hard work, dedication, sacrifice and effectiveness are an important part of the story I'll be telling. The only difference is that my version will be more complete and accurate than most of what has passed for reporting on the subject to date.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I don't want to dwell on the negatives, since this is definitely a film worth watching, but I when I wrote "lack of focus," I wanted to point out that the director tries to take the viewer in too many directions at once. On the one hand, we are told by the subheading on the DVD's cover that the film is "The coverup exposed by the 9/11 families." And indeed we are shown how the Jersey Girls and their family allies raised important questions and uncovered facts about the attacks and their aftermath. But a large part of the film also showcases the work of Paul Thompson, who is not a 9-11 family member, but who has performed a great deal of research on the subject on his own, which appears on &lt;a href="http://www.historycommons.org/project.jsp?project=911_project"&gt;a website&lt;/a&gt; and in &lt;a href="http://books.google.com/books?id=Awgp3H5mBXgC&amp;amp;dq=paul+thompson+timeline&amp;amp;printsec=frontcover&amp;amp;source=bn&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;sa=X&amp;amp;oi=book_result&amp;amp;resnum=4&amp;amp;ct=result"&gt;a book, &lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://books.google.com/books?id=Awgp3H5mBXgC&amp;amp;dq=paul+thompson+timeline&amp;amp;printsec=frontcover&amp;amp;source=bn&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;sa=X&amp;amp;oi=book_result&amp;amp;resnum=4&amp;amp;ct=result"&gt;The Terror Timeline&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;. I found both strands interesting and useful, but felt the movie's message would have been more effective and clear if the relationship between Thompson and the Jersey Girls was explained. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The story of the 9-11 family members and other activists is a complicated one, and most writers think that most readers just can't do complicated. And so they write simple stories and perpetuate easily digestible myths, which often obscure more than illuminate. I beg to differ. Life is filled with rich narratives driven by complex characters. It just takes a little extra effort by writers to present these tales, and by readers to absorb them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Here is the &lt;a href="http://itunes.apple.com/WebObjects/MZStore.woa/wa/viewMovie?id=296567245&amp;amp;s=1%2043441"&gt;film's page on iTunes&lt;/a&gt;. The film also has a presence on &lt;a href="http://blogs.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&amp;amp;friendId=396712183&amp;amp;blogId=472644223"&gt;Myspace&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/topic.php?uid=25964997892&amp;amp;topic=8568"&gt;Facebook.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-45576917613670211?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/45576917613670211/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=45576917613670211' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/45576917613670211'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/45576917613670211'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2009/01/911-press-for-truth-uneven-critique-of.html' title='&apos;9/11 Press for Truth&apos;: An Uneven Critique of the Commission'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/Saa6y4e-MEI/AAAAAAAAABw/uM17Ztk6CUU/s72-c/mail.jpeg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-1059880871717033012</id><published>2008-12-23T09:17:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2009-01-04T10:46:51.438-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Trauma, Grief, Anger, Action: A Wrenching Recipe for Social Change Through the Ages</title><content type='html'>What is new in the activism of 9/11 family members, and what is old? This is one of the important questions I am dealing with in &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;No Truer Hearts&lt;/span&gt;. Throughout history, people who have suffered some outrage, who have been wronged, or injured in some way, have responded by attempting to right the wrongs, redress their grievances, make sure that others would not suffer as they had. People make history by making the world a better place. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;When things are going well, people are content to live their lives quietly and tend to their own needs and wants. But when their situation changes, either materially or emotionally, they can be spurred to action. The death of a loved one is one of the strongest shocks a person will ever suffer, and countless Americans have turned such grief into action, often with the goal of making sure others will not suffer the same fate as their loved ones. Think of all those groups dedicated to finding cures for serious medical conditions, or Mothers Against Drunk Driving. Such activism is certainly not new, but carries on a long tradition of people striving to improve their lives. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;In one sense, the 9/11 family members are part of this group of reformers, but the causes they championed arose directly from the various organizational shortcomings and failures before during and after 9/11, not a disease or social ill. Theses cause have included air transportation security, skyscraper safety, first-responder reform, immigration policy, the various victims' memorial projects, and the government and private sector reforms dealt with by the 9/11 Commission. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;So what is new? Other groups have made significant changes in America and the world, but the family members who pushed for the 9/11 Commission and subsequent reforms literally turned Washington upside down. The result of their efforts was one of them most wide-ranging government reform movements in American history. If the the various bureaucracies in America were the often immovable objects, the 9/11 family member activists were the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;irresistable&lt;/span&gt; force.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;A couple of recent articles in the &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Washington Post&lt;/span&gt; set off this train of thought. The first is &lt;a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/story/2008/12/22/ST2008122201245.html"&gt;a lovely piece by Michael E. &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;Ruane&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; about the families of the victims of Pan Am Flight 103, which was blown up over &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Lockerbie&lt;/span&gt;, Scotland on 21 December 1988. The article echoed many of the themes I've encountered among family members: the importance of memory, the special bond of those left behind, the persistence of pain and grief, and pride in their accomplishments. The Flight 103 family members were able to pressure the US and other governments "to bring Libyan agents to justice for planting the bomb and to force the Libyan government to pay compensation for it," according to &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;Ruane&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2008/12/22/AR2008122202050.html"&gt;The other article&lt;/a&gt; shows vividly how victims' families can be helped and hindered by the sometimes capricious nature power in Washington. Kimberly &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;Kindy&lt;/span&gt; describes the trials and tribulations of another group of family members. These were the loved ones of seven Americans killed when a suitcase bomb blew up French-operated UTA Flight 772 on 19 September 1989. In order to put power in the hands of American victims of terrorism, Congress passed the Anti-Terrorism Act of 1996, which opened the door to lawsuits by private individuals who had financial claims against countries that sponsored terrorism. According to &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;Kindy&lt;/span&gt;, "Family members of the American victims made history in January by becoming the first and only group to successfully sue Libya in federal court." The judge awarded 44 relatives $6 billion in damages.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;But power and politics has gotten in the way. As part of the US effort to improve relations with Libya, the lawsuit was nullified and the amount available to families was replaced by a smaller sum. This turn of events, though outrageous to family members and others, is not surprising. It happens all the time. Politics trumps everything, and those with the power decide on the politics. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The same sort of "through the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;looking glass&lt;/span&gt;" logic has been employed after 9/11. &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;Saudi&lt;/span&gt; Arabia, home to most of the hijackers, and possibly connected indirectly to the plot, was treated with kid gloves for obvious reasons, political and economic. At the same time, Iraq, a country that had nothing to do with 9/11, was invaded and occupied, at the expense of the fight against &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;al&lt;/span&gt;-&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;Qaeda&lt;/span&gt;, the real perpetrators. It could be argued that the travesty of the Iraq adventure set in motion the "reform movement" that culminated in the electoral results of November 2008.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;This post will give you an idea of some of the other themes I'll be touching on in &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;No Truer Hearts.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-1059880871717033012?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/1059880871717033012/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=1059880871717033012' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/1059880871717033012'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/1059880871717033012'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2008/12/trauma-grief-anger-action-wrenching.html' title='Trauma, Grief, Anger, Action: A Wrenching Recipe for Social Change Through the Ages'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-723180961674219328</id><published>2008-12-19T09:14:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-01-04T10:45:06.582-05:00</updated><title type='text'>'Without Precedent': An Account of the 9/11 Commission by its Leaders</title><content type='html'>If Philip Shenon's book is the best critical expose' to date of the 9/11 Commission, the book written by the panel's co-chairs, Thomas Kean and Lee Hamilton, is the definitive "official" history. As such, &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Without Precedent: The Inside Story of the 9/11 Commission&lt;/span&gt; often sounds like a book written by committee, because controversial episodes are portrayed by presenting the talking points of each side without assessing their value. In doing so, the authors re-employ in the writing of the book the principles that guided their leadership of the commission: an overarching desire for "balance," moderation, "bi-partisanship" and compromise. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;But as we have seen in the work of the commission, this approach worked like a double edged sword. On the one hand, it could be convincingly argued that the non-judgemental, evenhanded consensus-building style of Kean and Hamilton was a vital strategy to win support for the commission and to permit it to complete its work despite massive opposition from many quarters. However, this method also guaranteed that many questions that the 9/11 family members wanted answered were either ignored or downplayed. And one of their greatest concerns -- accountability -- was pushed aside in favor of other priorities. To their credit, Kean and Hamilton managed to drive the commission down the middle of the road, as it were, successfully guiding it to its destination. They did this despite many potholes, roadblocks and detours along the way. There were powerful people in all three branches of the US government, for example, who had exerted strenuous efforts on one side to make sure the 9/11 Commission was merely a toothless nonentity. And on the other side, there were family members and others who wished to endow it with almost absolute power to expose and punish every example of incompetence, error and apathy.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I am of course particularly keen to see how various books portray the role of the family members. And in &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Without Precedent&lt;/span&gt; we are given a more complete account than in the Shenon book, but still not the definitive version I am preparing. Again and again, Kean and Hamilton note the importance of the family members' involvement, and the complex nature of the commission's relationship with those who were instrumental in its establishment. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;Over the next twenty months, we had our ups and downs with the families, whose list of questions would grow. Often they were our closest allies, supporting our requests for more funding or more time on Capitol Hill. Sometimes, they were aggressive critics, issuing press releases blasting our approach. But there was no question that the families would be essential validators of our report. They had pushed for the commission, they were the public face of the most extreme form of suffering and loss that took place on 9/11, and they were watching us like hawks. If they were unsatisfied with our work, the impact of our findings would be greatly diminished.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I love this image: "... they were watching us like hawks." It was because many, many people were not paying attention to keeping the country safe, "like hawks," that the 9/11 attacks could unfold almost unhindered. This was the sort of thing the family members were determined to prevent in the future.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-723180961674219328?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/723180961674219328/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=723180961674219328' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/723180961674219328'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/723180961674219328'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2008/12/without-precedent-account-of-911.html' title='&apos;Without Precedent&apos;: An Account of the 9/11 Commission by its Leaders'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-8736792366281415910</id><published>2008-12-11T11:53:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-01-04T10:45:35.570-05:00</updated><title type='text'>'The Commission,' by Philip Shenon: Hailing Heroes and Pointing Fingers</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;I have been reading a number of books pertaining to 9/11 as part of my research, and &lt;a href="http://philipshenon.com/content/index.asp"&gt;this is one of the best&lt;/a&gt;. Shenon has done a great job of giving credit to the unsung heroes of the 9/11 Commission Report: those hard-working staff members who dug through mountains of documents and conducted countless interviews in order to present a riveting and credible (though not definitive) account of the the rise of al-Qaeda, the unfolding of the terror plot, the aftermath, and commission's recommendations. And these staff members dug in their heels when their superiors attempted to twist the commission's findings to suit political agendas, and sometimes they succeeded in presenting the truth rather than watered down mush. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;In addition, the author is not squeamish about "pointing fingers." Members of the Family Steering Committee and other 9/11 family members throughout their struggles had hoped to bring accountability to the process of the commission's work. But the co-chairs of the commission saw this as a serious stumbling block to their work, and sought instead to criticize inept agencies and outdated worldviews rather than incompetent individuals. Thus, Shenon presents a hard-edged  new version of events, which includes shady involvement in the 9/11 plot by Saudi officials; serious conflicts of interest and efforts at spinning the report in favor of Rice and Bush on the part of the commission's executive director, Philip Zelikow; a failure to adequately examine the records of the National Security Agency; and serious failures at the FAA, NORAD, CIA and FBI.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The last paragraph of the author's acknowledgements gives a final, emphatic note of credit to the family members:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;If anyone is responsible for this book, ultimately, it is the families of the victims of the 9/11 attacks. The families were responsible for the creation of the commission, over the fierce opposition of the Bush White House and many in Congress; the families fought to try to keep the investigation honest, against incredible odds. They did much of the digging that produced scoops for me and raised important issues abut the commission, its leadership and the conduct of the investigation. I cannot imagine their suffering. If the full truth is ever told about Sepember 11, 2001, it will be their doing. It has not been told yet.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It shows how important was the role of the family members, and this vital role is at the core of the story I will tell in &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;No Truer Hearts. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-8736792366281415910?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/8736792366281415910/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=8736792366281415910' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/8736792366281415910'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/8736792366281415910'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2008/12/commission-by-philip-shenon-hailing.html' title='&apos;The Commission,&apos; by Philip Shenon: Hailing Heroes and Pointing Fingers'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1580062683522787923.post-3488393109048451132</id><published>2008-10-25T10:18:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-02-18T10:06:49.265-05:00</updated><title type='text'>The brightest of mornings; the darkest of days</title><content type='html'>I remember how bright the sun had shone that morning, how blue the sky, how fresh the fall air. Like any other day, I had kissed my wife goodbye as she left for her State Department office, gotten my children ready and taken them to school, and sat myself in front of my computer in the basement. I don't remember what I had been working on, but I do remember the low, ominous "boom" that had rattled the windows of the house and made me pause. Not long afterward, I remember the sirens. First one, then another, then many. Puzzled, I walked out into the street in front of our house and looked around, glancing up at the clear sky, and hearing the sound of sirens from all around.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The unspeakable horror of the September 11, 2001 terrorist attacks slowly made itself manifest to me through that boom and the sirens. Then a frantic telephone call from my high school-age daughter. She and the rest of her school had been watching the television coverage. "They said there was a car bomb at the State Department! Is mommy all right?" she asked anxiously. I reassured her, and quickly turned on the television. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And I watched, like the millions around the world, shocked, outraged, heartbroken, numb. Traffic began pouring through my normally quiet neighborhood streets. The Pentagon is just a couple of miles away. There was a massive rush of humanity away from Washington, DC. I made my way to pick up my youngest kids from school, and soon we were together at home. Safe? perhaps. But together. Except for my wife, who spent a long, chaotic, frightening day at work.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;That evening, I watched as the column of dark smoke rose in the distance above the Pentagon crash site. For no reason other than the need to do something, I walked toward it, but of course there was a wide security cordon up. Nearby roads had been closed, but by now there was almost no traffic. Others had come to see the destruction, and stood by the police line, and watched the smoke continue to rise in silence.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;In the weeks and months following the attacks, I had devoured the media coverage and pondered how I might help. Americans everywhere were hungry for answers, eager to help their fellow citizens. The sense of patriotic unity was palpable. As a Middle East expert, I looked toward the possibility of government work, but I was too old to enlist in the military. I had applied for a number of government positions but the only interview I received was at the Central Intelligence Agency, after many months of trying. At the time, I shrugged off the odd quirks of my interviewer. For one thing, he seemed to have the temperament more of a &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;gung&lt;/span&gt;-ho used car salesman than an analyst. And he seemed more excited about the access his boss, the director, had to the president than about his division's intelligence product. Finally, on the way to his office among the Middle East analysts, there were signs marking hallways that seemed inappropriately whimsical to me, like "Axis of Evil Ave." It was only later that I realized that these were all symptoms of a larger problem. In retrospect, I'm relieved I was not hired.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Another possible way for me to help, I thought, would be to work on the staff of the &lt;a href="http://www.9-11commission.gov/"&gt;9/11 Commission&lt;/a&gt;. Perhaps too naively, I thought I could present my credentials and assist the commission in its probe. But later I learned what a hyper-political creation this was, and connections often were key factors in whose resumes were considered seriously. Washington connections? I had next to none.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;But it was through the commission that I came to embark on this book project. I attended the &lt;a href="http://govinfo.library.unt.edu/911/hearings/hearing8.htm"&gt;24 March 2004 hearing&lt;/a&gt; of the commission, at which former counter-terrorism official Richard Clarke gave his dramatic testimony and surprising apology. The family members attending the hearing had become angry and frustrated by the evasions and self-justifications of previous witnesses, and when Clarke said he was sorry, that he failed them and their country failed them, it struck an emotional chord. Several gratified family members approached Clarke afterward and shook his hand, among them Beverly &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;Eckert&lt;/span&gt;, a member of the &lt;a href="http://www.911independentcommission.org/"&gt;Family Steering Committee&lt;/a&gt;. I spoke to Beverly afterward, and wrote &lt;a href="http://hnn.us/articles/4355.html"&gt;a short article&lt;/a&gt; about the hearing for the &lt;a href="http://hnn.us/"&gt;History News Network&lt;/a&gt; web site. In the days that followed, as I learned more about Beverly's story, and the activities of the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;FSC&lt;/span&gt;, I asked her if she would work with me on a book. She agreed. And now, after completing other pending projects, I am devoting the bulk of my energies to the book, tentatively titled &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;No Truer Hearts: How Beverly Eckert and Other 9/11 Family Members Took on Washington, and Won&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Through Beverly's eyes, I will be carrying the reader through a moving political odyssey: the coming together of the leaders of various 9/11 family groups; their push to establish an independent commission in the face of determined presidential and congressional opposition; and the final, improbable passing of legislation that dramatically changed the way the US government would operate.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;This blog is one of a number of ways I will be seeking input and providing reports on my progress. In the end I hope &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;No Truer Hearts&lt;/span&gt; will be the 9/11 book every American will want to read.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1580062683522787923-3488393109048451132?l=notruerhearts.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/feeds/3488393109048451132/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1580062683522787923&amp;postID=3488393109048451132' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3488393109048451132'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1580062683522787923/posts/default/3488393109048451132'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://notruerhearts.blogspot.com/2008/10/under-construction.html' title='The brightest of mornings; the darkest of days'/><author><name>Anthony Toth...</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18150491943517233474</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_6L-CL-EkK8o/TFA06s8NCRI/AAAAAAAAAFM/tZilFNopYVA/S220/may+2010a.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
